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writes:hi there.i promised myself that life was too short to think about thinngs so deeply enymore so i said as a new years resalution that i would just go with the flow (with in reason of course)..then i met sean... he is a big man i mean as in body wise.. he's on the fat side. now ive known him for years and ive always said despite him being big that i think hes rather handsome.. so after a while of flirting we took each others numbers and we are now texting all the time and he makes me laugh and my family think he's wonderful and so do i.. or did i?i having second thoughts as he told me he thinks im way to good for him becuse i get quite a bit of attention and he cant understand why ive taken to him rather than one of the other boys. im starting to have cold feet kind of.. i swore to myself id just go with the flow because life's too short to hold back..i do like him but even though he's handsome he does smell a little.. im so confused, and i know for a fact he's fallen for me.. what should i do.ive even told his mother that i think a lot of him and im scared she'll go crazy if i pull back xx
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reader, DeadEyeDick  +, writes (11 January 2010):
 Hey you know what? if he makes you honestly happy, then it shouldnt matter what anyone thinks, maybe you can nicely work with him on grooming, and maybe even weight, if your doing it to improve your relationship with him, then you should always make sure he knows that he is good enough, you didnt just decide to like him for no reason, and that obviously you guys have a chemistry, maybe if you make him feel good enough, he will want to better himself physically for you!
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