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female
age
30-35,
*yra Anna
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together about three months and we understand each other very much. He is becoming my best friend and our relationship is close to the point when we can honestly say that we love each other. I know that 3 months are not long time to get to know the other persons habits, wills, fears and dreams, but here is not just "being in love mood" that overcome a racional mind. I am still virgin and I think he is too, but we never really talk open about our experiences and that does not mean that we do not talk about sexuality and that kind of things. He knows what turns me on and I know what turns him, as well, but I just wonder how to make a question to find out did he already slept with someone.He wants to make love with me. I know he is ready because he said something about that topic couple of times in half-joke. He does not making pressure on me or give me ultimatums like some of the my friend boyfriends do.I think I will be ready to do this with him very soon, in fact, I already am.So, how to start conversation about sex? How to tell him I am ready too without stupid sentences and unnecessary words and phrases?Can I get antibaby pills without doctors examination?Is first-sex bleeding strong like period one?I am not afraid, I am just curious.Thank you for advices. :)
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reader, Laura101  +, writes (11 January 2010):
Question 1 should be "Have you ever had sex with anyone?" If your relationship is as good as you say it is then this shouldn't be too difficult.
Does he know that you are a virgin, because these are all things you need to be open about.
Question 2 isn't really a question. If you are both consenting adults ten when the time is right sex will just happen.
I can understand that you want to be close to him and experience sex with him, but it sounds like you have a way to go yet before your maturity in this relationship catches up with your urges and desires
Also, Ask yourself this. When I am married to a husband who I deeply love, will I look back on previous sexual relationships and regret that I didn't save myself for my husband? And... How do I feel about his past sexual relationships? Do I want a husband who has saved himself for me?
Good luck
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