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Dating: Help and advice

What does this really mean for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (?) - My boyfriend rarely kisses me any more, when we have sex there is no foreplay, no reciprocation of oral sex for me, never any kissing during sex, sometimes he's looking at me and other times just watching porn while I perform oral on him. I try ...

He seemed shocked when I asked him to cum in my mouth! I thought this was common.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 909 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - Ok im really confused becuase i thought guys like it when you let them cum in your mouth. I never did it before and my bf asked me where he should cum and i said my mouth cause i wanted to taste it for myself. He seemed shocked kinda and i asked him ...

Opinions please on Trust!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

8 February 2010 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for eleven months and on March will be our anniversary, but what's eating me inside is the fact that I still have fears and my past relationships are making me a slave. Every time I think about what is my girlfriend up ...

He seemed so into me but now he just wants to be friends...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - Hey, This is just a really strange one, and I'm at my wits end, I can't do this anymore... Five months ago I met this guy through work, we both work for the same company, I work in retail and he works in one of our support teams. We bonded, a...

Family doesn't like new girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (M) - Ok, there is this girl (23) that I really like, and its not like I love her but REALLY like, she completes my personality, she enjoys all the same things I do including dirtbikes, hockey, camping, sports, she's very much like me in A LOT of ways. We ...

A man I'm dating still loves his ex!!

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8 February 2010 (F) - A man I'm dating still loves his ex. I really enjoy his company and he says he has feelings for me too. How should I deal with this? Backstory: We started hanging out before I moved out of my ex’s home. The first time we hang out he told me he wa...

I really don't know how to move things forward with him or how he even feels about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - I find it incredible how one person can have such a massive impact on your life. I really want to be with someone so much, I have done nothing but think aboout him since our date. The thing is, i'm just not sure how this older man feels about me! ...

I want to date my ex's roommate.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (M) - I have an incredibly strong crush on my ex-girlfriend's roommate. As much as I want to approach her, I think this may be too big of an obstacle in the way. We broke up about 6 months ago. The girl I like doesn't really like my ex, but she doesn't ...

Is he blowing me off or just taking things slow?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - I met a guy from online..we met at a bar and we seemed to like each other..the conversation went well..he offered to buy me another drink..and then he said after awhile he isn't really a big drinker and do i want to go to another place after this ...

This guy is so hot and cold. What does he really want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - I met this guy about 8 months ago. We had instant attraction but were just friends. New Years Eve we hooked up, and after that, he started constantly texting me, always texted me good morning, telling me how beautiful I am. We were basically ...

What do you think of my Valentine's Day gift idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - I have only been with my boyfriend for 2 months so for valentines day we both decided not to do anything over the top. So for him I fought that I could get him a teddy with a rose and then get him a necklace and put it around the teddies neck. What ...

How can I make her more comfortable with kissing in public?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (M) - Right I've been seeing this girl for about 5 months now and we're dead close and really care for each other. But sometimes when I try to kiss her or hold her hand she is either a bit hesitant about doing it or just rejects it. Now I know it's not ...

He is waaay too clingy for me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - Ok so my bf for 3 months almost 4, hes getting a little clingy, and i dont blame him. i use to be clingy, but i mean i wouldnt have a problem with it if it wasent constant. he says i love you waaay to much, i try to give him hints that i need space, ...

Am I going about this the right way? Is there anything I should be doing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - Okay I’ll try not to go into this too much because it is a long story…. But me and my ex have been broken up for nearly 6 weeks (we were together for 7 months). We split up cos I suspected he wasn’t over his ex of 3 years (LDR) and he finally a...

What the hell do I say to his guilt-trips???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I were together for two years. Then we broke up for a year. And now we've been back together for two months (and counting). During the time we were broken up, I had a one-night-stand (which means I did NOT cheat as we were broken ...

I wonder if she is going to break my heart again in this never ending cycle...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (M) - About two years ago, i was in a relationship with a really great girl. i mean this relationship was so good, it was hard to believe. i truly believed this person was my soul mate. well, i was planning on asking her to marry me, when she started to ...

I feel insecure in this relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - We have been dating for almost three months and are close although we are at different periods of our lives. We have known each other for quite some time and work together very well. I am ten years younger than him and now just settling in conf...

Why does he resent me so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - I'm sick of this situation. My boyfriend gives me crap about my past almost daily! I have done nothing wrong, I've been faithful, I don't flirt, etc. Yet he resents me a lot. It's like if I had cheated on him and he resented me for that. Except I ...

He only says nice things to me when he's smoking weed...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend over two and half years, i love him so much but he smokes weed all day which doesnt really bother me but it seems now thats hes only ever nice to me when he is high, when he hasnt had any weed he is really angry with me ...

I'm terrified of losing my virginity plus I don't like my body... Help!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - hellooo this is a question for girls only , im scared of losing my 'v' , Ive Been seeing this boy for about a year now on and off and he is 18 and ready to lose his 'v' but i worried about losing mine ? i reali dont know what to do i feel and know ...

He says all he wants in life is sex!!! Does this mean he doesn't care for me any more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, i am 18 and have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. I love him very much and always have, we`ve had our ups and downs but are still together. He is the first and only person i have ever slept with. However he never says "I love ...

How do I bring it up to her that I'd love to try oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (M) - I am in a long distance relationship and we are very sexual whenever we are together how do i tell her that i want to try oral?...

I missed him and want to check if he's okay...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - I have offered my man a break as to be honest he was in a bad place with work and housing problems. The problems... met him on a dating 5 months ago and we were getting on fine. Used to text him to check he is alright but it is doing my head in as ...

Is it ever too late to give space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (M) - Ok, I lied to my girlfreind and it hurt her. She asked me to give her space, but because I was hurtng bad and missing her, stupid me sent her lots of texts to her too much trying to explain things to her and apoligising. This lasted for two weeks, I ...

Unsure what to do now... Help!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - I met this guy at a bar of all places, i thought he was the bouncer, so i gave him my id and we started talking. Only to find out later that he wasnt the bouncer just some guy in a black tshirt who wanted to talk to me.. from the moment i saw him i ...

He wants me to go through with this 3-some even although I'm not really that keen!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - A few weeks ago my fiance started texting me asking what I thought about threeseomes. I told him right away that I wanted to do one, thinking that he was talking about a FFM threeseome. I love to pleasure him and turn him on and he has told me ...

Is this a man who knows what he wants and should I just live my life and see what time brings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - Hello I have been dating this man, I asked about our future together he told me leave it to time but keep contacting me. Is this a man who knows what he wants and should I just live my life and see what time brings?...

Copy of my ex and his new girl's conversations... can I get some opinions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - Ok so this is a copy of what my boyfriend said to his new girlfriend just 2 months into there relationship. AND it is all the things he said to me but it took us time to build to these things and thats how they came to have such meaning. Anyw...

Is he moving way too fast?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - ok, so there is this guy I have been seeing for about 3 weeks now. But I dunno if I should keep this going, I feel it makes me sound shallow when I say this but I am not attracted to him in a phyical since. He is perfect for me in every way except ...

He admits that he occasionally wishes he were single!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and I love him very much. It may seem fast, but I feel that he's the one and I would like to spend the rest of my life with him. However he has admitted that he occassionally wishes he was si...

I had a bad feeling he's hiding something from me, so I went through his messages!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - I had a bad feeling that my new(first) boyfriend was hiding something from me.. for the simple fact that every time he got a msg he would turn his fone away so as i couldn't see it.. so after several opportunities to look thru his fone i finally ...

I feel he's moving way too fast!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - My boyfreind and i have been going out almost three weeks and he is already telling people he loves me. But the thing that bothers me most about that was that he was planning on proposing to his last girlfriend until she cheated on him. now I'm ...

She says I am the best at eating her out but I want her to return the favour!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (M) - I have been dating my girl for 10 months and she still refuses to give me a blow job, I mean she says I am the best at eating her out but I want her to return the favour. ...

I found condoms in his jacket but they're NOT ours!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - So me and my boyfriend been together for 3 year we have a real rocky past but for the last 4 months I feel like we have really connected. Until I found condoms in is jackets. They're not ours so I confronted him about it and he gave me stupid ...

What do you men really find a sexy attribute in a woman you want to go long term with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - Hi so I'm wondering... I'm a nice looking girl so I've been told. I've been in a long relationship now and still happy but curious so a question for the guys. What do you men really find a sexy attribute in a woman you want to go long term with? ...

Threesome heartbreak...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - Hi. well where can i start, when my bf and i started dating, in the heat of passion i told him i would doing anything for him, even have another women with him. Later on in the relationship i told him i had a threesome with my best friend and her ...

How can I stop being so jealous and why am I so jealous with my boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - Hello, I am sooooo jealous with my boyfriend, and I dont know why. I Have never been jealouse with any of my past boyfriends. I started being jealous with this boyfriend at the 5 month mark I'd say. We've been together for 9 years now. And I get so...

What can I say to get rid of him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - I am dating a guy but he is one year junior than me that actually doesnt matter to me but the thing is that I no longer wanna date with him. Seriously I am fed up being in love with him. I have already betrayed him once but now I am not getting ...

Got back with my ex because I thought he'd changed... but he hasn't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - Me and a guy have been together for like a year. We met at a party and got totally involved in each other although he was in a relationship with someone else but he told me he would break up with her and that he doesn't contact her anymore.. ...

I wonder if he will ever open up and let me in

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - Ok, so I have been with my current partner for nearly 6 months now. It's been the first relationship in nearly 10 years where I can honestly say that I really like him. He has his head screwed on the right way, works for himself, has his own house ...

When it comes to nudity and porn my boyfriend has double standards

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - I think my boyfriend has double stanards. He likes watching porn and even though he's not addicted, he'll defend his porn use until he dies! Well, I don't like him looking at other women. I don't like thinking he gets pleasure from others. I know ...

I was stood up for New Year, and since then we have only texted, I don't know where I stand

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - l am 23 and my guy is 26. we have been dating for 1 year. the problem is l don't know if he still loves me or not. was suppose to meet him on new years and he didn't turn up. l didn't contact him and he didn't also. l then texted him twice last week ...

I think I'm driving men away due to trust issues from past relationships

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - I think I have serious trust issue's with men. Had to serious long term relationships the first being with my son's dad who cheated on me when my son was 3 months old. The next I was with him for 6 years and he was a free loader which I now see at ...

My boyfriend isnt giving me any time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - i am in a committed relationship since 7 months.the guy i am having in my life is my first boyfriend and i am his first girlfriend.we both really love each other.he says i m the most important part of his life.but now a days his actions have ...

Never wanted despite all my good attributes

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (M) - This is something that has been bothering me for quite some time. Girls never seem to have any chemistry for me. I seem to have tremendous difficulty starting any kind of relationship or retaining any kind of interest with girls. People tell me Im ...

What could be wrong with my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (M) - the girl i love has been really worried lately... she is worried because she feels like she always need to go to the toilet... she says it feels like she doesnt fully empty out... but a couple days she said her hair started falling like onl...

Do you think she is actually committed to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

8 February 2010 (M) - Ok so here is my question. I am enaged to the woman of my dreams, love her very dearly. Recently I feel as though she is not committed to me in our relationship. I recently had a good friend's fiance ask her some questions. My boys fiance asked her ...

The waiter has my number, should I call him to ask him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - Okay so there is this really cute waiter at a restaurant that my friends and I frequent. I met him about a year ago and recently he seems to be showing more interest in me because every time he sees me he greets me with a hug(a little longer than ...

Not sure how long to wait and he's the one who said Ican call him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

I'm falling in love with her but, well, its complicated...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

8 February 2010 (M) - Well, my mother started dating a guy I knew from playing poker and he has a daughter that at that time was in a relationship with someone else. After a month or two my mother and now step-father are married and she has become my step-sister. Also, ...

I cant get over my boyfriend's best friends, cousin, ... even tho he is about to become a dad.

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8 February 2010 (F) - im 19 and i have a boyfriend, iv been with him for 3 and a hlf years. i meet this guy who is 24 and is my boyfriends bestfriends cousin. ive kind of met up with him a couple times and really really like him. he also has a girlfriend and a baby on ...

He tells me I am hot so why aren't his friends all over me?

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8 February 2010 (F) - Heeey ! 3 kso i love thiis websiite ! alright , well i was seiing thiis one guy once and he is prettyy much one of the more popular kiids , and were not seiing each other anymore , but were stiil really good friiends , and idk but i thiink he stii...

What to do when you were fooled once again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

8 February 2010 (M) - (Mod Note - OP's own title) Well, The story is damn long, but I'll keep it simple: I fell in love with a girl that hat a boyfriend. She ended falling in love with me. 2 weeks later her boyfriend broke up, and 3 days after that, we were coming t...

I have a crush on my younger brothers friend.

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8 February 2010 (F) - okaii : so i have a brother thats one year younger than me , and he has a friend that i never really talked to before , but then when we started to talk .. i started liking hiim. then i stopped because i didnt think he liked me at all . but a year ...

Should I break up with my gf because I am attracted to my friend - even tho she does not 'do' girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - I'm 14,female,and bi. So, I have a gf who I've been dating for almost 2 weeks, and I like her but at times my feelings for her fade away and come back later on. I've been a bit distant at times and I know that it's affecting our relation...

My familys not letting me have a proper relationship with a black boy?

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8 February 2010 (F) - Well bassicaly this is a horrible experiance, im 17 and ive been with this black boy for about 4 months now, And he has not even met my family yet, well hes met my mum and my mums ok with it shes says it my life etc.. but my DAD and his side of ...

Ex boyfriend that's always there!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - So I Went Out With my boyfriend for 6 months and my mom's friends heard that he was a gangster.. but hes not. he just hangs out with some of them so she told me to break up with him but instead I just told her I did. but I didnt so i went behind her ...

Cold shoulder. My fault or his?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - First let me start off describing my relationship with this guy, Samuel. I am head over heels for this kid and he knows it. We dated a while back, but he was having family troubles and we decided he needed to work things out. Recently we have been ...

I think my boyfriend's sister fancies him!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - My live in boyfriend has a year younger sister. Something is so wrong with their relationship. She leaves comments on his websites saying he's sexy and he's so cute. Very weird I know. Also I wouldn't mind if he had such a strong relationship with ...

Since I've fallen pregnant he seems disinterested in me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going for two years strong, until a few months ago when we found out that I was pregnant. Ever since I told him he has been very distant towards me, flirting with other girls, focussing souly on his looks and nightclubs, ...

Do you think he was put off that I didn't want to have sex yet with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - I am probably just freaking out for no reason... but I've been so worried today. Long story short - I dated a guy last summer... got too involved too fast (the sex happened after about two weeks)... and as a result, he didn't want anything to do ...

My boyfriend might not be capable of fully loving me due to childhood trauma. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'v started seeing someone whom I have quite strong feelings for (we've been dating a month, but I've known him about a year and a half). An interesting dilemma has come up: Just as I've started to get those 'loving' feelings, he's ...

Why would he want to masturbate instead of having sex with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend recently spent the night with me. We got it on before going to sleep and both had a good time. The next morning, we're both sitting up in bed (I was naked, he was in boxers) and watching tv. Next thing I know, he's playing around with ...