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anonymous
writes:Ok im really confused becuase i thought guys like it when you let them cum in your mouth. I never did it before and my bf asked me where he should cum and i said my mouth cause i wanted to taste it for myself. He seemed shocked kinda and i asked him if he was ok with it or not cause i will understand he said "im ok with it it just kinda scares me idk why so dont ask. "Now i feel kinda embaresed about it. a lot of my friends did it so i thought it was common. Am i wierd or do any thing wrong? Thanks for your time and help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2021): I've known a couple women who didn't want me to cum in their mouth at all. Others seemed to absolutely crave it. I suck a lot of men, and it took me a long time to get comfortable with guys cumming in my mouth. I started thinking about those who did like to suck and swallow, and have now progressed so I always swallow the semen when a man cums in my mouth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): You just surprised him. My fiancé was giving me head for the first time, then I told her, "alright baby, I'm about to finish..." so I naturally pulled out of her mouth because the women I had been with before never let me finish in their mouth.
She asked why I did that after I finished and I said I figured she wanted me to do that. She said, "no, but ok."
so the next time I finished in her mouth and it was a HUGE turn on! I loved it! I kept pushing for it for the next couple of days. It was like a new drug to me. (not that I do drugs...lol)
anyway, it surprised me when she said she was ok with me finishing in her mouth. I'm sure I made a shocked face. It's kind of like something you see in "movies" that most young guys think they will never get to do...
I will tell you this though...sometimes I wonder if she let her past ex boyfriends do that. She says she didn't, but I doubt she would tell me if she did. She says the only reason she let me is because I am her fiancé.
The thought of other guys stuff in my fiancées mouth kind of disgusts me.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (9 February 2010):
 Well I began cumming for women in the 1960s (I'm 62-years-old now). Probably more than 60-70 women by now and many thousands of times. Many were first-timers. Admitted only to say that it eventually becomes a very comfortable thing to do, but even now, the first time with a new woman makes me feel somewhat uneasy unless I know that she really wants my release.
The key, in my opinion, is to know what she wants you to do, and to let her know when it is about to happen. Most all I've ever known loved it, but some newbies need a bit of care in the beginning. Also, and very importantly, he should FIRST give you one or more orgasms, oral or otherwise.
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (9 February 2010):
 Don't be surprised if he changes his mind.
My guy claimed to not even like BJ's when we first got together but I assured him I could change his mind - now he loves them.
Then I had to coax him in to watching while I was doing it and now he is there brushing my hair out the way to make sure he get's a good view.
Then he was opposed to blowing in my mouth, ... until I did not give him a lot of choice in the matter (lol) and now he finds it a huge turn on.
Sometimes they just don't know what they like until they try it/ someone allows it, .... you have probably created a monster for yourself now after doing that, ... I know I did lol.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (9 February 2010):
Relax, you're not weird or anything like that. Not all guys like to come in a woman's mouth, and most women don't like having to drink it. He was probably just a little surprised, that's all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): I had the same reaction in almost the exact same situation. Its just a shock! You caught him off gaurd! I'm sure he can't stop thinking about it now. You just made his year. You've just added some excitement to the sex between you two. Suprise him with something else and you'll see he'll have the same reaction. Lol!
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (8 February 2010):
 No, you are normal. Drinking cum is like receiving his essence and having a spiritual conception. This must be his first time and he's embarrased and worried how he would taste. For him, it probably feels like peeing in someone's mouth. But all the guys I've been with liked it. You don't have to make him like it though. He might or might not warm up to this idea.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2010): He was probably suprised given that many women DO NOT like to have a man ejaculate in their mouth,although many do.Other than that,you have done nothing wrong and should stress about it.
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