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Archived questions from: 16 February, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is not closing my eyes when I kiss someone normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Last October I had my first kiss. About a month later I had kissed another person and ended up making out with them. I thought it was them, but I think I may be a bad kisser because on New Years eve I played spin the bottle and I...kind of missed. I ...

I feel way to shy around girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - hi, ive always wanted to just go on dates with girls for the experience but im so shy around girls i dont think they ever know that im interested!! sometimes il only realise maybe the next day that a girl was into me, but im so nervous i never get ...

Can anybody feel my frustration and confusion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - We're LIKE a romantic couple but truth is he hasnt ask me yet but instead shocking me with the suggestion "let? "let's be best friends" why would a guy who likes her thinks that he doesnt want to confuse himself anymore and thinks they should a...

Do I just cut all ties and walk away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I split up from my ex about 3 months ago, thay left me for someone else. Yes it hurt but i've got on with things. I have been in contact with them often but just recently they keep telling me the grass is not greener and they've made my bed so ...

Why would he say these things to me then start dating someone else? Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - he would tell me i was beautiful,smart,funny,caring,nice,sweet, pretty much every nice thing you could think of. he told me he loved being with me ,he would flirt with me all the time,he asks me to a movie,never texted me back ,stood me up,and now ...

I don't want any of these guys that are asking me out I want one that makes me excited!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm a little bit worried because for the last few years all the guys that have asked me out or shown interest in me I haven't found attractive. I don't know if its beacuse I am obviously getting older and the dating pool is getting smaller ...

Is there another reason my period could be late?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have had sex, the past month has been very stressful cause we werent sure if i was pregnant or not because i hadnt got my period yet. He went out and bought 2 pregnancy test i took one on a sat. and it came up negative( i took ...

Torn between boyfriend and ex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I'm currently with my boyf for the last year and a half and I do love him, he's kind and thoughtful and secure. My ex from a few years ago is now back on the scene, we kept in touch in dribs and drabs but hadn't seen each other in years, but are d...

I don't wanna be his little bitch that he can have fun with and then ditch me when he's done.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Ok so here's the deal; I really like this guy. He's got a nice charm to him and he's extremely attractive. We have gone out twice but they both ended after 2 weeks. The first time he cheated on me and the second time he lied to me saying he loved me ...

To engage or not to engage...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Here's my situation. My bf and I have been together for 3 years. We're both in our mid 40's so it's not like we're young and inexperienced with life. We've both been married before and I have kids. I feel it's time to step up the relationship and ...

Trust is a big issue in our relationship, and that's what we're lacking.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 6 months. Trust is a big issue in our relationship, and that's what we're lacking. I can’t really say that we both started off the wrong or right foot. At the very begin of our relationship, he ...

Gay urges!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - Hi, I'm a 22 year old male with a girlfriend that I have been seeing for the past two months. I have issues reaching climax and I'm afraid it's because I have been having gay urges lately. I'm fairly confident that I'm not gay; I am not sexually ...

Friend says my girlfriend cheated, she says she didn't, who should I believe?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - I think my GF cheated on me while skinny dipping. I had to work that night and she went out with some friends and ended up at a pool party. According to a mutual friend that was there, as the night progressed and people drank more the swimmer...

I don't know what to make of this situation, any advice would be appreciated.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I have been dating a man 33 with two young children for approx the last 4 months. He has a 6 year old and a 3 year old with his ex. I have met all his family and we talk all the time over the phone til late at night and spend most weekends together. ...

Should I write this relationship off soon or continue waiting, with the possibility he will never be ready?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

16 February 2010 (?) - My boyfriend says he loves me a lot and is extremely happy, but does not want marriage very soon, encouraged me to move closer to my job, which is an hour away from the town we both live in right now, and talks about how he'd like his future home to ...

He's clearly not into me any more but why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Hi Guys I AM PUZZLED?!? I was seeing a guy that I really liked for about a month and then went to Thailand for three weeks. We live 10 minutes away and the sex was amazing. We spoke whilst I was away and he said he missed me, then when i return...

It becomes painful...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Whenever i masturbate or my boyfriend plays with me, after rubbing my clitoris i get the feeling i need to pee, i carry on because i know this is when im about to cum but just as i get the peeing sensation, my clitoris begins to become very painful ...

Help me go out with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - i like this guy for years and we havent gone out but always flirted and people always tell us to go out we've gone to different schools but i cant get him out of my head. i text him the other day and he didnt reply i rang then hung up just to make ...

I can't walk away but I don't want to be his little bitch either!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Ok so here's the deal; I like this guy a lot. And I'm really comfortable with him more than any other guy. We went out twice before and he ended up lying to me both times. The first time he cheated on me and the second time he told me he loved me ...

Why do I think about him sexually all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - ive been single for 14months now.. and all the guys that have come my way just waned sex.. and of course i said no (they all disappeared) cos i want relationship+sex not just sex. ive meet this guy hes really sweet and sexy and he thinks a...

I cant accept that she hates me! What is the meaning behind her blocking me on Facebook and not replying to my emails?

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16 February 2010 (M) - I have 20 years and am a boy. I love a girl for almost 7 years. I am certain that she was too. But i never communicate my emotions to her properly, (it was only through body language). Now we are enrolled in different universities and i have ...

Do you think I should always wait to hear from him first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I met this guy at a training course a few months ago. We kept in touch over the past few months, emails, texts etc. He asked me out for a coffee ages ago but we never seemed to get round to meeting up. Partly because of nerves on his part, I think ...

Nervous about having sex for the first time with my new guy....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I'm meeting this guy again on Friday and the way things are going I think we might end up having sex. The problem is I'm generally quite tight. My ex-boyfriend used to comment on it, and it didn't bother him because I loosened up after a while but ...

She is a moody aquarius and doesn't seem to know what she wants!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - This girl and I were friends for 2 years and a half then suddenly i began to like her, but i was several month of me liking her sometimes but not feeling that i have feelings and i couldn't like understanding whats going on...then i began to like ...

Why do guys prefer "slutty" girls rather than a girl who is romantic and caring?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Hi all, I have a very simple question. Why do so many guys find girls who are promiscuous or 'slutty' more sexually desirable than a girl that is romantic and caring? For some reason, so many guys I know prefer to hang out with the girls that ...

I really think that I could fall for this guy. Problem is that he's not sure what he wants!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - So I'm separated from my husband. We still get along, we just realize it isn't going to work. I have this male friend who I've gotten close to since. We live in separate states, I've visited him and he's visited me. We talk all the time, he calls me ...

She has a broken heart, can anyone help me find the glue to reconstruct it again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - Ok here I go this will take a little well it all started right b4 christmas, I was going Christmas shopping and I saw this girl we seen each other we hadn't talked or anything for about 3yrs I wanted to date her back then when I was 15 then which ...

Should I wait for him or look for others?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I love a guy more than my life,but he's 4 years older, from a different religion and background, and has gone abroad 4 years on studies. My mother says to look for other options, but at times understands my feeling for him. He loves me too, and ...

If a woman had a big crush on a man and she moved on, can she ever have those feelings again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - If a woman had a big crush on a man and she moved on and just treats him as a friend, can she ever have those feelings again or is it a done deal? All the psychology bs on the Internet says it can never happen....

Is it normal to hate making out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

16 February 2010 (?) - is it normal to hate making out? i love to make out, being 24 im pretty much at my prime. my fiancee on the other hand is 30. says making out is for teenagers. weve made out once....in the year we were together. all i get is 3 small pecks on the ...

I really want her back but she wants to have a large single social life, should I text her or continue to give her space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - Hi, my girlfriend and i have been dating for almost two whole years i am seventeen and she is sixteen. recently she told me that she did think she wanted to date anymore and needed to find herself. She states hat she doesnt want to look back at her ...

Why does she ignore me when I ask her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - there is a girl i really like, i call her like 4 - 5 times a day. sometimes i feel that she is ignoring me. what must i do ? sometimes she ignores me when i ask her out...

Teenage confusion over 3 guys.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Heeey everyone , soo , i kinda like this one guy , and i dont think he has any idea that i do , usually he gets the girls he wants , so because he hasnt hit on me , does that mean he has no interest on me ?? should i "chase" him ? do some guys like ...

Is it a good thing that he has not asked me about this note my friend sent him, or is he just oblivious to my feelings for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I don't know what to think. This boy "Joe" is really oblivious. I mean, he's busy and everything but really oblivious. We have good chemistry and everything, but sometimes I feel like he's not interested or he just doesn't care. My best friend...

He used to like me but his friends still tease him about me! What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Would a guy's friends still tease him about you and make jokes about him to you if he had stopped liking you? I know he used to like me, but now I'm not sure what's going on....

Saying anything makes my situation worse..what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Hello. My issue is that my boyfriends mother hates me and he wont tell her how she is affacting our relation ship only that she has been stressing us out. When in all reality she has been making him wonder if we shouldnt even be together. Along with ...

What sort of weight do guys like for a girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Okay, i just want to know what weight guys like. im 5'2 and around 109lb.. is that fat to you guys? i mean i have curves and crap and i feel fat around my friends cause the havnt hit puberty yet and their like 75-95lb.. does it make me fat? i mean i ...

I'm scared I could ruin our friendship, should I go for it or hide until my feelings have gone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - So i like my best friend. HE is a guy. We've been friends for a while too. he sits with me and my other friends at lunch, we sit by each other in classes, we switch hoodies(i have a guy one), and we talk all the time. but now i like him but i dont ...

Help! How do I deal with my boyfriend's ex writing on his facebook wall?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and I can’t seem to stop obsessing over his ex. He has never talked about her to me, the only thing I know is they used to live together in Florida, broke up almost a year ago and they tried to be ...

Why have I not got a promise ring???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - hey everyone , ive posted quite a few relationship questions on here my lastest one has nothing to do with what im about to ask im just looking for a male perspective on my situation. okay so me and my boyfirend have a group of 2 other couples ...

Smelly problem!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - So I'm with this guy and I really like him. I've been with him for 5 months but recently he has started asking me to do stuff with him. I don't mind as I feel ready I'm just really nervous about doing anything as it will be my first time (for ...

He's Pakistani, I'm White - Mum doesn't approve, Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - The Title basicaly says all. I am just a teen girl, and my boyfriend has Pakistani Grandparents, and Parents, but his family have been living in the UK since before his parents were born. So his skin colour isn't the same as mine basicaly and my ...

Hot and cold love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Hi, i need some unbiased advice!..... basically, i was in a relationship from a young age, 15. At the age of 20, i fell out of love with my boyf, and fell totally for my best guy friend who id known for three years. I ended my relationship nt ...

Will you say a prayer for us please...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Me and my fiance have been trying to conceive for 7 months.. We hope that we've done it this month.. We really do.. But i feel the need that if someone were to pray for us, for the miracle of life, then it'd help us, so please, say a prayer for us? ...

Next time we go away he wants to take his mum with us!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - my partner's 50 and been living with his mother again for the last 5 months due to financial difficulties. the whole situation is really depressing him to say the least. although his mum willingly put him up he doesn't have his own space - 'his roo...

Please help and suggest something about this guy I love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - yesterday was valentines day. and it was all very freakn perfect! me and my boyfriend went to the movies but the problem was my sister. she came along. my mom made me take her since she was going to be all alone. now me and my boyfriend are 15 and ...