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Dating: Help and advice

Dating a different race...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - Okay, so here's my problem. I'm 16 and have always been attracted to all races, it's never been an issue until recently. I'm white, and have become really close friends with this guy.. who's black, we're very flirty with each other. I like him and ...

Even more confused..what is he thinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - ***UPDATE*** Now I'm even more confused.... after him breaking up with me and me asking him for space he noticed this morning I was on yahoo messanger for a while so he felt the need to question who I was talking to. He got really mad wh...

Are we damaging my cervix?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - Is it dangerous if my partner repeatedly hits my cervix during intercourse? its uncomfortable and sometimes painful, but the good makes up for the bad. i'm just worrying that we are doing some damage. i don't bleed and it only aches a little bit ...

My boyfriend and I get along great... but I kissed my ex, do I tell him and risk losing him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I have been dating a guy for about 4 months and it is pretty serious. We are planning on living together. The guy is sweet, caring, everything a girl can ask for. But the thing is i have kissed my ex-boyfriend and I'm debating if i sho...

Why Start With Sex?

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2 February 2010 (F) - Lila here ~ This is for those of you in a relationship already. Maybe you’ve been in it for a while, and things have gotten boring. Maybe you think you can’t even stand being in the same room as your partner, never mind having sex with her! You ...

The Etiquette of Casual Sex!?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - I would appreciate only responses from people who are not going to offer their own moral judgements on the following situation... Recently, I experimented with one of the 'casual dating websites' - no really seriously at first, but then I start...

Single for 4 years now it's starting to get to me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 February 2010 (M) - ive been single for 4 years now and its really starting to get to me, all my friends are dating and going out on coulpes dates and im getting left behind. im also completly usless when it comes to asking girls out or giving hints that i like them...

Can friendship turn to a romantic relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - Is it possible to be with someone romantically that i have been just friends with for years and have it actually work out?...

What to wear when having sex for the first time...?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - hello! as im sure you know, its valentines day coming up and me and my partner will be having sex for the first time! i know i want to do it so please dont tell me to make sure im ready as ive already been through all of this in my head and i am ...

How can I let her see texting her ex is hurting our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 February 2010 (M) - lingering ex bf this girl I am dating tells me she isn't talking to her ex. I notice her texting someone who I am certain is her ex bf while we hang out but when I ask he about her relationship with him she tells me she doesn't talk to him. wh...

Why do guys confuse women all the time! Come on guys, let me know your thoughts

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - I am so very much confused. I am in a relationship that is not the greatest and hasnt been for such a long time now. Recently i have been talking to my partners brother a lot as i lean on him a lot for emotional support and he knows this, this has ...

Am I just their cook and cleaner?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - I have been with this man for three years taking care of his teenage son, cooking, cleaning, helping feed and so on, with the understanding when he turned eighteen this man and i would be alone. now i find he's going to be underfoot till who knows ...

How do we deal with people who are jealous/envious of us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

2 February 2010 (M) - My partner and I are in an age gapped relationship. I am the older woman, 38 and he is the younger, 21. We have been together for 3 1/2 years now and have never been so much in love! I left my disfunctional marriage to be with him. I have 2 children ...

Is my boyfriend lying about cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - There are rumors going around that my boyfriend cheated on me... I am scared that they Aren't just rumors... What do I do? I already asked him and he said they weren't true but he has lied before... he can lie again. Do you think he is telling me ...

How can I help her raise her self esteem and let her know that I care for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 February 2010 (M) - Last night my girlfriend told me that she believes that she is not good enough for me. She told me that she likes me. But she said that she has low self esteem and feels that her life is not going to be a good one because of past decisions she has ...

When should I give him his prezzie?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, My fiances' birthday is the day after Valentine's Day. Okay, my question is: should I give him his Valentine's Day gift(s) on his birthday, or just give him everything on Valentine's Day? ...

Friend to a boyfriend. Am I being used?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - I am currently dating a guy who i have known since high school and that i was friends with for a while. Hes older than me hes 24 im 19 and i know even though i am young that i am a very mature for my age. he asked me for my number while i was at w...

My boyfriend is a pushover but I want him to become strong and confident.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - I have been dating a great guy for the last four months. He is intelligent, generous, kind, loving, considerate, responsible, very nice to everyone. We have lot in common and we have a lot of fun together. The thing is I think he is a pushover an...

One minute... and it's all over!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been togther a little over a year. We have been friends for almost 6 years and while we were friends we did sleep togther. When we first got together we were on fire but know let's just say it's been 3 months and the last ...

Would a man forego the SuperBowl for a first date with an attractive, successful woman?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - I met a man that is very charming. He lives out of town. He seems to say all the right things. He claims he had tickets to the SuperBowl in Miami this weekend but would rather come out and visit me and will cancel his plans. My questions is to the ...

Fiance just doesn't seem to want sex! Instead watches porn and takes care of himself!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - I am a 25 year old, my fiance really doesn't seem interested in me in bed. He kisses me all the time grabs my butt but just really doesn't seem interested in sex! Just recently I found out that he has been wathcing porn on the computer. He is 38 so ...

Does he mean it when he says he never wants to get married again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - PLease help! I went on a date with a man that is twice divorced and 50 years old. His first wife cheated on him and the second wife took him for everything financialy. We met the other day for a casual meeting. He is nice and funny. He was with a ...

Her bad attitude cause me to break up with her, did I make the right decision?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

2 February 2010 (M) - me and my girlfriend were together for about 7 months. I decided to end it last night because i feel like enough is enough. Every time i go out into town she has a problem with it, she is off with me when im in town and off with me the day after...

What do men think about a woman moving in with them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - What do men truly think about a woman moving in with them? Does it reduce "the chase"? Does it reduce the chances of asking her to marry you? Do men see it as "Why buy the cow when you're already getting the milk for free"? would you...

I feel stupid and unable in everything I do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - Hello, I feel for a few years that Iam stupid and unable. I suffer from a social fobia and I go to psycholog and also have here pills which I can take. I am trying to overcome this in small steps. For example I found a job where I have to communic...

My mother is making life so difficult for me and I'm 26!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - My mother is making things really difficult for me. I've been with my BF for almost 6 months...it's my first serious relationship. He's a great guy and treats me well. I also live with my parents as I bought a property with them last year. I ...

How do I approach the first guy to tell him I've met someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - I met someone about a month, saw him probably 3/4 times and text him a couple of times a week. Last time I saw him we were in a group and he pretty much ignored me all night then left without saying anything to me or anyone else. Because of that a ...

I dated a known cheater and now he has cheated on me I have trust issues.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - I apologize if my question is long, but you must know all the details for it to make sense. I also changed the names of the people. Thank you for listening I really need advice. . Spencer and I met last year in May,(we have been together for alm...

I like her but I don't want to interfere in her relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

2 February 2010 (M) - Okay, I moved churches a year ago, and day one, I met this girl. First thing I did was ask my older (and wiser) sister who's 32, to find out about her. She's a country girl (we live in Alabama lol, what else do you expect?), and she loves to express ...

How can I get my male friend to take a chance and date me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - I really like my guy friend and he likes me, but he does not want to date me since he has a kid which Has always complicated his relationships and made them end bad. So how can I get him to take a chance with me? Should I get closer and show him...

I feel as if he is holding me back from finding someone that is going to be a more energetic boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - well this is really weird i am 19 years old and a female. i have a boyfren of a year and one month that cares so much about me but i do not feel the same. my bopyfren is an amazing friend i feel like we can b bestfrens cause he is always there for ...

My parents would not approce of the age difference, ..and her parents wont let boys over until she is 18.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 February 2010 (M) - I have a slight problem, i started talking to a girl through friends and she is one of the few girls that i have enough common interest with that i can really have a good conversation with and have fun with. Everything seemed awesome till i asked ...

Is dating someone who is financially unstable with stress and anxiety issues worth it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is broke. After working as a stock broker and earning a very high income, he began suffering medical issues from the stress and pressure of the job. He eventually quit this job so that he could improve his health and found something ...

How much money will we need?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - How much money should me and my boyfriend save up before moving into a place of our own? I currently live with my mum, and he lives with his mum and step dad, but i'll be moving in there in the summer and we'd like to get our own place as soon as ...

Should I go with him to the dance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - ok i found out from my friend that my boyfriend is going to ask me to a dance for valentine's day. By that time it will be five days before our one month but i have known him for almost a year now. Should i go with him to the dance and if so what ...

Valentine gift???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

2 February 2010 (M) - My girlfriend is 21 years old. She comes from a rich family and has pretty much everything she needs. Valentine is coming up and I'm struggling to find a perfect gift for her. It has been suggested sending flowers but I felt that's not ...

Why am I still so shaken up over this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

2 February 2010 (?) - hii, im 16 and my new boyfriend, steve, is 19. we`ve been together for 2 months. i did not lose my virginity to him but we had sex for the first time together last night. he is the second guy i have had sex with. so let me give you a little info ...

Did you have to train your boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - I recently got into a relationship with a guy. Although he is much older than I am, I often have to instruct him in proper behavior. This is anything from wearing a belt (so the top of his rear isn't showing) to making mature conversation (so he ...

I am very confused and not able to forget her past.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

2 February 2010 (M) - I recently found that the girl i am going to marry had sexual relationship with 8-9 people. I asked her before we got engaged about her past relationships but at that time she told me that she was a virgin. But somehow i got the password of her ...