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*inker x
writes:i have been with my boyfriend over two and half years, i love him so much but he smokes weed all day which doesnt really bother me but it seems now thats hes only ever nice to me when he is high, when he hasnt had any weed he is really angry with me and calls me ugly n tells me he hates me. Then most the time says he didnt mean what he said when hes high again. I dont know what to believe because he calls me names again when hes not smoking it? does he even care about me?
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reader, tinker x +, writes (9 February 2010):
tinker x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthis all happened jst yesterday i spoke to him on the night about the way he spoke to me and he says he cannot controle the anger.but today we have woke up and he has been really nice even though he hasnt smoked a splif yet! So weired but only takes something small to set him off. Sometimes i think he cares and other times i dont! I smoke weed sometimes with him but i feel really paranoid not just when have some but when dont have any. We split up for three months and he got back with his x who he has a child with only a few weeks after we split tha also plays on my mind alot because how could he do it so soon even though we got back together again i always feel what if he still wants her but why would he be back with me. Sorry to go on folks my head thinks all sorts! X x
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reader, adamskidude +, writes (9 February 2010):
 He smokes weed, bad boyfirend choice.
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reader, tinker x +, writes (8 February 2010):
tinker x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhen he says sorry i always ask if he cared why would he say stuff like that. It is always the same reply. I just get angry and say anything to hurt you. I feel so weak i keep telling myself maybe its the weed making him so horrible but then why is he so nice when hes on it!
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reader, Sydnee +, writes (8 February 2010):
Dear Tinker xyour boyfriend is probably suffering withdrawal which causes angerweed is illegal and has been reclassified he could face a jail term if caught by policehe needs to get off it to guarantee a healthy lifeif it is withdrawal talking chances are he is taking out frustrations on you because hurting the ones you love the most is a natural reaction you hurt the ones you know will be with you no matter what talk to him about itwhen he's soberif he doesnt change leave him it will be easier on you and may shock him into waking up to what he is doingGood LuckSydnee x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 February 2010):
No, not at all. He calls you names and tell you you're ugly when he's sober. What use is that? None at all. He doesn't' care abut you at all.
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