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Dating: Help and advice

Why do some Asians find it impossible to date Hispanic men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3536 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - A while ago I was in love with a chinese girl I knew for over 2 years. We were best friends and loved doing everything together. I always kept it open that one day we should try dating and she always found ways to dodge the topic. But whenever we ...

I need your help! Should I tell him how I feel or is he not interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Argh this is long but I really would appreciate some outside opinions. I'm a 16 year old, pretty sensible girl. About a month ago my bf of 9 months broke up with me. It was hard on me as I was expecting us to have sex soon as we both wanted to b...

I have become increasingly concerned about her night time habits!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - I have been living with my finacee for 8 months. We enjoy sex 3 or more times a week. I always ensure she has an orgasm before there is any penetration as I tend not to last too long. I have become increasingly concerned about her night time habit...

1 month late... BABY????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - ok so i am a month late. i took 2 at home pregnancy tests already. when i was a day late and 2 weeks late and they both came out negative but now im a month late and nothing. me and my bf dont use pertection. he uses the PULL OUT METHOD? i want to ...

Boyfriend says my work dress is too Sexy !

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Hi everyone .. A problem about the clothing I wear to work. My boyfriend says that the clothese I wear to work are too sexy and too revealing . BUT THEY ARE NOT! I do like tight body hugging dress / suits which suit my figure, but Im very care...

Making out tips, I want them to be most romantic!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Heya, how can i make my pulls (french kiss) more enjoyable than they alredyvare, and almost more horny like and romantic? thaanks....

Any tips on flirting...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Hey all, ive been single for quite some time now and i'm looking for a boyfriend. any flirting tips girls? thanks...

My ex boyfriend is stuck in my head! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Hello all.. Just the other day I broke up with my boyfriend because he ws using me. but now I can't seem to get him out of my head! i know i shouldn't get back with him he only wants me sexually and that is not what im looking for in a relationship. ...

I've never had an orgasm with him... how can we fix this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - ok so my boyfriend and I have recently started having sex... for the past month, he's never given me an orgasm. I love him to death and I'll never leave him because of that, I just wanna know how to fix this. it's always disappointing to know that ...

Communication troubles...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - I have been dating the same girl for over 2 years. But every time I talk to her she just nods her head or says okay. I tell her how I feel and she apologizes for everything. I know in my head I love her but when I talk to other girls like from work. ...

I thought he was committed to me... but seems not from his answer.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Hello, Apologies in advance, this is quite a long question/conundrum but I will deeply appreciate answers. I asked a question about 6 months ago relating to my disappointment that my boyfriend, of what is now nearly 2 years, won't tell me he...

Girlfriend's male friend with an agenda!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - I have been seeing my girlfriend for just over three months and I have fallen in love with, she does have a male friend who she has known for 13 years and has kissed him, this guy has also confessed his love for her. She has told me that she doesn't ...

Help! How can I get his trust back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - I want to know how I can earn my boyfriend's trust back. I slept with two different men when he was incarcerated, two different times. How do I get the love and trust and him not cussing me? I love him so much and I don't know why I did it... I ...

He text me to say he has "good lean meat now"!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Hi, my partner of ten years walked out on me when I was unwell about a year ago. We kept in touch and we talked all the time and he talked about getting back together. Then he suddenly switched on me. He has always complained about my size. I ...

How can I get her to focus on me more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - Hello, I need some advice about my situation. There is this older woman I am good friends with. We ended up having sex a while back. She told me that she really likes me but the situation is complicated. What she meant was her and her ex-boyfriend...

Is it wrong to assume she's playing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - So basically I have a friend/ friend with benefits and we have been hanging out messing around about twice a week for the last few weeks now. Though when we first met about 3 months ago apparently I got too serious for her and we went on hiatus for ...

Why do guys always seem to want sex so badly???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - hey guys im 14 and for some reason it seems that i always break up with my boyfriends because of sex... the last three boyfriends i had were realy nice but after going out for a few months they just kept asking me for sex and i dont want to have sex ...

I feel like he raped me... he was so aggressive!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - hi so im turning 16 in april and my bf turned 19 a week ago. we have been together 3 months but ive known him since i was very young, about 4. we had sex for the first time the other night, not my first time ever. i had sex with my ex bf 3 times. so ...

We broke up because we fought too much but I can't stop thinking about him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5151 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - dear readers....plz help me. i have been with my boyfriend for more than 3 yrs now.... though few months back we broke up, so technically we are not in a relationship but things hvnt really changed. we both love each other madly.. we broke up becau...

He's lost in the past it seems!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 3 years now. For the past 8 or 9 months it seems he has been trying to get in touch with a bunch of his exes. I understood 8 months ago when it was near his birthday and he needed some ...

He makes me feel like a criminal because of my past. Help?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Hello. I'm at my wits end. I'm hopelessly in love with my boyfriend. The problem is he is obsessed with my past. I have been completely faithful to him. In the beginning of the relationship he said he didn't want to know anything about my past, he ...

What should I do if I give my boyfriend his Valentines gift but he does not have one for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - i want to know if my boyfriend was sick and on valentines day and so he did not get me a gift but i have a gift for him if i give it out and he does not give me one what should i do....

Should I have said "I Love You"? I have not heard from him since and I'm worried I scared him away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for a while now and we get along really well. I have very strong feelins for him and last night I told him that I loved him. I don't think that he could return the feelings. He told me that he loved me too, but I don't ...

Did he like my surprise hug because we are just friends, or did he like it because he 'likes' me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - How would you know that your best friend liked your surprise hug or liked it because he likes you? I've been wanting to know if he liked me more than a friend for a long time. my crush was blushing a lot more. I walked bye him and his back was ...

My parents want me to stay away from him after his drunken outburst, but he wants us to get back together! I really don't know what to do...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - hi! i'll try 2 keep this as short as i can, i've been seeing a guy for about a year and a half now were not anything official but we dont see other people sounds complicated i know! anyways we have been finished a while but last night we had a drunk ...

He called me his "casual friend" at the end of our date! How can I talk to him about this without appearing to be clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - A couple of weeks ago I met up with a guy I've been online friends with since last summer. I've had feelings for him for some time. We had a great day, typical date- cinema, meal, then to finish we went on a walk and got to know each other some more ...

How can I get her to love me as more than a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - IM A MALE/FRIENDS A FEMALE Ive been desperately in love with my best friend for a year now. We started the relationship terrible as i came to find out that she was my best friends ex girlfriend. Then out of the blue as soon as i start talking to...

I've dreamt of being in a relationship with her but now there is a chance of it happening I'm scared I might be a rebound or it might not be the right thing for her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - I met this girl in my college biology class. I remember the first time we met like it was yesterday and yet I can't seem to understand how it has been only 5 months. We clicked it off immediately. We were suppose to be studying but we'd chat about ...

Why aren't we "Official"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - I've been "seeing" this guy for a few months. There is a slight age gap -I am 20, he is 25- but we get along very well. We hung out very often before it reached this point. From what I've seen, he's kind of shy; I made the first move on him, and it ...

Is it wise to move in together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - This May I graduate college. My boyfriend of 2 years has found a job at the other end of the country. I haven't started looking yet but besides my family there's nothing to keep me where I am. I think it'd be exciting to move somewhere new. I'm just ...

Does he like me or should I forget about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - i've been texting this guy none stop for about 3 months.i've known him but never talked to him.we never hung out and i dont know if he likes me.. he texts me none stop, always says what i'm doing but when it comes to hang out he always bails ...

I feel like he is my soulmate but he is moving away for a new job, is there any hope for us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Hey Yall thanks for answering; i'll try and only give you the important info so i posted an online personal ad, and the first thing i said was that i want a monogamous relationship.this guy responds, i totally don't think i am going to like hi...

We went on a break but never got back together, how can I get back into the relationship now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - I once went out with this girl a while ago, it ended last october, but not on a bad note, we just had a break and never got back into it and i kind of want to get back into the relationship with her soon, but i don't know how to go around it or that ...

He likes being sought after, but it frustrates me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (?) - I had attention issues with my boyfriend from the time we started dating eight months ago. He was always too busy for me. I complained several times but he did nothing, and actually seemed to enjoy the chase. He would however treat me very well and ...

Depressed about being lonely

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - I need help, No one seems to approach me to date... I'm fairly attractive, I take time each day to fix my hair nice ,put some makeup ,lip gloss all that good stuff..am currently eating healthier and working on losing weight.. Im not horrible looking ...

What does he really want from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5149 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - I was seeing a guy for about 6 weeks. I'm his first non one night stand since he and his long term girlfriend broke up a year ago. We were friends for quite a while before that. There were a couple times when I was drunk and had a bit of a freak out ...

Did I look crazy for getting angry? Did I look like a wuss for apologizing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5188 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - I was exchanging some emails with a female friend of mine who I like. We'd been teasing each other about some things and she made light of something that had happened earlier between she and I and some other friends of mine in which people's ...

How can I find out what he wants without scaring him off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - I really like someone and I can't tell what he wants. I'm hoping a third party could have some insight. Here's the basic timeline of events: About a year ago, me him and another guy would hang out a fair bit. I knew the other guy had a thing for ...

A little peeved on Valentines Day

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Okay so, I've been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now. We have a sort of long distance relationship going on... him being in North Carolina and me being in Maine. It's been kinda rough being away from each other but we do make a point in ...

I think I might be a bad kisser!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Well, pretty much the title says it all. I know that it's really hard to stay with someone that's a bad kisser, because you get those urges. I do NOT like using tongue while kissing, but most guys do, i know. How can I tell if I'm bad at kissi...

What are my chances of making it work with this new guy? Or should I go back to my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - I am 19 and had been with my bf thats 21 for over a year. We are at college together. About three weeks ago I met this other guy. He is like the exact opposite of my bf and I was really attracted to him. My bf is basically quiet and dependable ...

Would it be a bad idea to date my ex's best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - So, recently this guy that i've liked for a while has started telling me that he really likes me and wants to date me. But when i see him at school, he just nods or says Hi and walks off. Then when i sit by him he never really says anything...

What do I do now? I want to take it further but I'm worried she only seemed interested because she was drunk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Hi i would really appreciate some advice. I think im a lesbian and im attracted to one of my very good friends. She is a lesbian and is literally the most beautiful girl i have ever met in my life. she is amazing. We met at uni and have just be...

I'm not sure if I can call this a relationship anymore....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - I have a girlfriend. we live together though I'm not sure I can call it a relationship anymore. There is no physical contact whatsoever yet she still wants me to buy a place and for us to move to. She cries sometimes about getting older an...