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Dating: Help and advice

Can it really be true love at 14?

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23 February 2010 (F) - I'm sure to myself that i'm in love with this guy, we've been together for a almost a year, we broke up once but got back together. So lately he's been having money problems and his mom just had a baby, and he's been sooo busy with everything, he ...

His last text was positive, but I have had no sign from him in a week. Why?

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23 February 2010 (F) - Met a nice guy all was going well from our first date and after. Lots of phone calls and texts, both enjoyed each others company or so it seemed. No contact from him in a week. His last text was positive which I replied to. Why? [Moderator's note...

Should I take Him Back One Last Time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I dated for about a full year, on-and-off. Our breakups were always stupid, sometimes because of rumours/misunderstandings, and once because he lied to me about himself. Afterwards, though, he explained it was only because he ...

She had sex with 3 of my friends and I can't get past it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - Hey everyone, I have been with my girlfriend for over a year now, but recently I started feeling differently due to some issues with her past. Basically without jumping into too much detail she had sex with three of my friends,one which she "dat...

Is it a bad thing to get so jealous over the little things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - heyy okay so i really really like this guy and he talks with other girls and walks with other girls. and i get really jealous but then i realized that he talks and filrts with me way more. but i cant help that i get so upset. okay so my question is ...

After five years I've reconnected and wonder if I should try to rekindle the old flame

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - I've recently reconnected with an old friend via facebook. Back in college we were really close. We had on and off romantic engagements but managed to stay really good friends despite the rollercoaster that our trying to be involved with eachother ...

I had a deeper level of understanding with my ex, I want the same with my current girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for over 2 years and we both love each other but we may have personality conflicts. She has a lot of trouble understanding me and a lot of the time we're not on the same page. This is frustrating especially since in my ...

I like this girl on Facebook!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - Mod note: 2 postings from this user, based on the same topic. 1)I like this girl would like to get to know her more as only get the chance to say hi and chat on facebook. if there was anything ever to bcome im abit worryed because i know h...

What is this guy's true sexual orientation? Help me figure this one out!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - I have a good friend who I love very much. I would like to have taken our relationship further but on the occasions when we have shared a bed he has not made any move other than a cuddle. The last time we shared a bed I took all my clothes ...

This guy just uses me and I am struggling with ending this once and for all. Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - How can I end an on-off relationship? I really really really like this guy, but he's using me and the only thing I should do is to end it. I'm struggling to do so, and when finally do I know I'm going to struggle to get over him. Please offer any ...

I'm 15 and want to know what will happen now...if I do happen to be pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 21, we have been good mates for about ten years. we have now been going out for 3 months, and i think i am pregnant. what will happen if i keep the baby? please help me ...

My fiancee wants to go see her ex bf..without me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - Okay, Never done this before but I need some advice and really want to do the RIGHT thing here. My fiance and I are due to get married this May, we love each other, care about each other, but we don't always see things in the same light. Things ...

I want to make it work with my husband but can't stop thinking of this other guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - Me and my ex-lover Steve broke up almost a 1 year 6 months ago. Since then I have tried so hard to move on and get on with my life but I am finding it really difficult. I hate to admit but there is still a part of me that loves and cares for Steve ...

How can I deal with an emotionally hurt girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - So please let me set the sence- My Gfs mother died 2 years ago, in her sleep, which obviously mortifiyed her! than 2 weeks later her than current BF hung himself! fast forward to today! the other night she was telling me what a terrible day she...

How can I make him more into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - DEAR CUPID! There's a guy at work I have been messing around with secretly for a little bit now. The thing is, he doesn't want anything serious and my problem is that I know this but still really like him... I think about him all the time .... I ...

Can't find the right one! Am I too picky?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - I have trouble relating to a lot of girls......so I am 20 Years old and to put it bluntly most girls 18-20 aren't exactly the brightest ones around my parts. I have gone through my "partying" phaze and all of that and yea of course I still party ...

Should I be leery of my boyfriend after all he's done?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now with a break. the break was caused because i had been told he was talking to girls online seductively, so i went online on a fake account and he then did things on webcam etc. thi...

Scared of getting hurt!! Please Help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - Ok so heres the story. I have been talking to this guy everyday for the past few months and we are meeting up when im off work for a weeks holiday which is in 2 weeks(Its the only time we will both be free cos the days he has off i work and vice ...

He's sending a gift to my house and I am afraid my Mum might see it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - my long distance boyfriend is sending a gift to my house through the post and i`m worried it might be something sexy like a thong or something and that my mum will see it. he said that he hasn`t put his name on it but he would love to see me wearing ...

His friends hate me, so we've kept our relationship a secret!

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23 February 2010 (F) - i went out with this boy for 4 months but one of his best friends liked me so once me and my ex was over me and his best friend started going out but we had to keep it in secret because his two friends hate me and they were going to fall out with ...

Why are men so cruel when it comes to dating us curvier women?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - Ok..I previously posted a question...I went on a blind date with a gentlement who I was talking to for 2 weeks..we were constantly on the phone and texting galore..It felt fantastic, he learned about me and I of him... I'm not big, but I'm not a ...

Why do people have such big regrets about losing their virginity?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - I'm an almost 18 year old virgin, and I've heard other women say that they've regreted their first time and wish they had waited. I don't understand. Why did they regret it and what did they wish they had waited for? I've been a bit upset about wh...

He relies on me for his 'fun'...is he using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - Okay, so I'm kind of seeing this guy from school. I say kind of because we're not officially a couple, I have no idea what we are! We don't talk about it much, and I don't really want everyone to know anyway, my friends wouldn't approve although my ...

Dating 5 years and he never has invited me to his house to meet his roomies!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. A year ago he moved into a house with 3 girls and 1 guy. He never once asked me what I thought about this arrangment. A year later it still bothers me and we fight about it at least once every 2 ...

I like having nights to myself, but my girlfriend wants to be with me, all the time! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - Hi, I have a bit of a problem with my girlfriend... I can't remember the last time I went a night without seeing her. It was probably about 8 days ago now. I'm the kind of guy who likes time alone, or in the company of guys (this is common, right...

Devastated...my gf is flirting online! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - Girlfriend is flirting online Today i found out an email by my gf sent to another man. asking him to visit her. and how much she is sorry for not talking to him. i was devastated because the date and the time showed was the time i am sleepin...

Is she using this 'parking arrangement' to sort of flirt with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - This might be an unusual question but I have been having some fun with this one lady I am attracted to where she works I don't work there only visit when passing by the area. It has to do with the parking arrangement in the parking lot but ...

Both my ex and my current boyfriend want me to have an abortion, but I want another child. What do I do?

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23 February 2010 (F) - I am 8 weeks pregnant and I know it is my ex - boyfriend's kid. He and my boyfriend wants me to have a abortion. my friend wants me to keep the baby and she promised to be there for me. I dont know what to do. she had an abortion from when she was ...

I wonder if he's trying to tell me if he just wants to be friends?

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23 February 2010 (F) - I seem to be in a current situation where things began fairly straight forward yet has come to a weird conclusion. I have a crush on this guy who at first seemed like he liked me back (I've known him for a couple of months now). There were several ...

How can I make myself irresistible to my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - Hello everyone, Ok so im a 16 yr old girl...got a nice boyfriend who i really love. I just thought that maybe you could give me some tips on how to make myself irresistible to him. I dont mean anything like sex but just getting him a bit horny an...

Think before you jump, because there might be a good reason

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - Okay so this valentines was the first one for my bf and I. I've known him for years but we only got together 10 months ago and I was determined to make it special. So valentines week comes around and he's having serious money problems (as was I to...

Does he seem into me, or was he just being nice?

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23 February 2010 (F) - I need some advice on my status with my brother's roommate, who I increasingly suspect might be interested in me, but has yet to make any moves. I am a little hesitant myself with the fact that he's my brother's roommate and if we did date, I would ...

He said he could feel the same way about me, but now he is with my new best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm Jodie and I'm fifteen. I moved schools at the start of January and I've started to chalk into my friendship groups. But there is a boy there that I would say I am now very fond of, and maybe even love if I thought about it enough. I to...

Can I wear the same jeans again for a third date or will it look bad?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - I am seeing a guy i met online for a 3rd time..he seems really open and interested..we met saturday night for a drink and then he offered to go to dinner and then we got another drink afterwards at a different place and then he drove me home..and he ...

Is his flakey behaviour normal?

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23 February 2010 (F) - Known this guy for 4mo.we've hung out a handful of times - he msgs all the time to see what I'm doing/how I'm doing.the thing is he's incredibly flakey.he's invited me to see him at work 2x and canceled both times..because he claims he couldn't get ...

How can I cheer her up and show her I do trust her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - Hello well Me and my girlfriend been dating for 2 months and we're having a really great relationship right now, then one day I ask her will she ever cheat on me? She said no, but she said "what would you do if I do? never know right?" well then i ...

How should I approach my girlfriend about changing her attitude?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - Hello, I'm having this problem with my girlfriend of 7 months, she is really obstinate, or pigheaded any way you wanna call it. Although as pigheaded as she is, she is really good, and nice. She loves me a lot, I can really tell, even with my ...

How can I get him to trust me again after I lied to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - So I've been going out with my boyfriend for seven months. We'd been acquaintances for four years, but had only seriously started talking and hanging out since the middle of June. He'd been in two other serious relationships before ours and I'd ...

What did he mean when he said he doesn't want me to be his rebound girl as it would not be fair on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - Ive recently been getting close to a guy I have known for a while. We have been flirting and I will admit that I like him a lot. He broke up with his ex before Christmas but he said that he didnt want me to be his rebound girl as it wouldnt be fa...

How do I start talking to him over the internet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5166 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - So there was this guy on my brothers hockey team (who is one year younger than me) who kept kinda flirting with me at his hockey tournament . i was seeing another guy at the time , so i didnt really flirt back much . remember im only 15 !!! so im ...

Does she want me? Or does she want to have sex with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - Hey it's Rocco again, I got another question people! Well I gots the girl issues :-) I invited you to a hotel to go with me in 4 weeks and she don't deny wanting me but she is willing to share a bed with me and she doesn't deny wanting me becau...

How do I play it cool with him and wait patiently?

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23 February 2010 (F) - Hi! 4 weeks ago I left nyc and relocated to a new job in my hometown, there is a guy who works with me--- we knew each other casually through mutual friends, before this work thing. Well needless to say, since working with him I developed a majo...

I feel so helpless, my boyfriend has had to leave to continue access with his daughter

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23 February 2010 (F) - This is a difficult one. Me and my partner have recently seperated but still love each other very much. We had been together for 6 years and lived together for four. I have 2 daughters and he has one that lives with his ex. His daughter had been ...

My boyfriend has changed and he wont talk to me about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. We started off really close. He could even get up to go to the bathroom without kissing me first. He used to always cuddle with me, hug me, kiss me goodnight. and since he only works 4 days a week we'd ...

My boyfriend cheated on me with his ex and now she is pregnant

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23 February 2010 (F) - ok so my boyfriend of about 7 months cheated on my with his ex. they had sex and now she's pregnant . I can honestly say he was my first love so I can't hate him . but I'm mad at him . I can't get over the fact that he cheated . I need advice o...

How do I ease my feelings of guilt?

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23 February 2010 (F) - So,I did some bad things. i been dating my boyfriend for over a year now . .well for a few months i was seeing another guy.what i mean by that is that i would hang out with him. without my bf knowing. and just talk. i didnt think i was cheating bec...

I accused my fiance of cheating and now she is thinking of not marrying me

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23 February 2010 (M) - This past week I accused my fiance of cheating. I really hurt her feelings wit dat, and now she is having seconds thoughts of marrying me. What can I do to fix it?...