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Dating: Help and advice

I never got over my ex but I don't want to hurt my current boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - Ok.so i have a boyfriend.but me n my ex never got over eachother.i just needed space.so ive ben talkin with my ex about how we wana get back n how he loves me n im his everything.the thing is i thought he left me cuz he didnt care 4 me.but he told ...

Too much foreplay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 February 2010 (M) - This shouldnt be hard to answer really guys sooo... Basically, when my and my girlfriend first started having sex, i was perfectly capable or lasting a long time. But all of a sudden i started coming almost instantly after penetration...i ...

How do I get to the bottom of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - ill make it short i was in college when a girl on my course said " i said to Ashley hey your going out with Kim aren't you? (that's me by the way and yes he is) and he just mumbled yeah a put his head down well she said she asked him what kind of...

I love her and she's worked so hard to get her life together, but can I get over her past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

11 February 2010 (M) - Should I stay with my ex-girlfriend? I am 24 and she is 27. I love her and am miserable without her but her but her past bothers me. Before she was with me she had sex with at least 15 people (I've been with 7) and even had threesomes. She was ...

Who should I lose my virginity to...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - hi. im 13 14 on valentines day and im a virgin. i was going to lose my virginity to my ex. i loved him so much and i still do but i just wasn't working very well. i could only see him about 3 times a week so we finished last march. we were going ...

How can I make all these feelings fade away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

11 February 2010 (M) - well i am 16 and i have this huge crush on this boy he is in the same class with me we became friends for a littel bit but we're not that close we hung out together a lot this days i can't hold it i feel like i am going to explose with my hidden ...

I don't trust him at all and worry for my friend. What should I do to help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - A friend of mine is dating a guy that I think I may need to talk to her about. I have had concerns about him before, because, while he is a nice guy, I've learned that he has over $30,000 in cc debt and had this much 2 years about but rolled it over ...

This guy despises my family...what would you do in my situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 February 2010 (?) - Female here, 54. I have a bf who is 52, never had children. He and I have been dating, for 4 years. In Sept 09 he moved to go to work, at the other end of the country. Where his own family (brothers, neices, nephews, aged father) lives. The ...

Is it normal for a man not to send their loved one, a Valentine's card?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - Should a man you are seeing send a Valentines? Hi - well my guy has never really been Mr Romantic and he does send Xmas and birthday cards - but last year there was no Valentine and this year he said he hasn't got round to getting me a card yet (so ...

Everyone else has relationships and I feel alone! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 February 2010 (M) - Hello. I'm a senior in high school and I'm 17 years old. I've been depressed lately because I don't think I'll ever be happy in a relationship. I've had two official girlfriends and many unofficial ones. I am usually excited and interested to be ...

Pictures of couples make me feel so alone. What to do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 February 2010 (M) - I get jealous when I see pictures of couples (like on facebook)...I just realize I'm alone. :( I then get mad at the thought of thinking how this one girl played a bunch of games with me 5.5 years ago. I really haven't had a gf...I get angry and ...

I like this guy, but around him I sweat like crazy and can't concentrate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - So I'm 14 and there's this guy in my class that I have a crush on. I've liked him since 5th grade actually. I've never told anybody I like him because he used to be the kind of nerdy guy that didn't have any guy friends and was friends with mostly ...

Why can he be all over other girls but when I talked to a guy innocently he won't forgive me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I dont know what to do. I have a boyfriend. Hes a great guy and he really cares about me. He has his flaws and faults but who doesnt? I love being around him. He makes me feel loved and special. However he is very insecure and thi...

Should I count the condoms and see if he used any?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - I'm not one to constantly seek being in a relationship and my past (and only) three relationships have resulted in heart ache purely for me. That being said I have an air of being promiscuous (a misconception) due to my large amount of gentle...

I'm worried his ex is his ideal woman that got away! Is he settling for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - I'm dating a military guy, He's in the Navy and this is the first time I've ever been involved in a military relationship. Next month will be our one year! We're living together, but of course he's not home right now, he's out to sea. Back in 2006 ...

Hi libido verses low libido... help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a while now.. almost 2 years. Lately he's been very stressed with work and other things.. we manage to have sex maybe 3 times a week, but i initiate this every time. He says he never pleasures himself because ...

Tough Decision! My boyfriend or my new love???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - Hi, I have a big dilemma which is ruining my life right now.. I have been in a relationship for four years with my boyfriend that I really love. However we got in a big fight and I moved out. It's been two months since I have been living on my own. ...

What can I say to my mother to give him a chance despite our age differences?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - I'll be 16 in 2 months and the guy im talking to, steve, turned 19 yesterday. im a sophomore and he graduated last year. hes soooo sweet and just everything i could ever want in a boyfriend. the thing is, im scared to tell my parents. especially my ...

He keeps putting a lot of pressure on me, should I date him again or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - Ok so im a 14 year old girl. this kid i went out with before is 16. he keeps trying to go out with me again. he used to text me to try and get me to send him a pic of me naked and would get mad when i refused. he would tell me im weird and no one ...

Have I got my boyfriend enough for Valentines day?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - For valentines day I got my boyfriend a necklace and card. I was wondering if that would be enough?...

Is it ok to have friendly phone sex with a classmate when I have a boyfriend?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - well...im in a committed relationship...its been 7.5months..me and my bf really love each other..i want to ask that is it ok to have friendly phone sex with my classmate?(we actually don't mean it,its just 4 fun)i mean is it ok or whether i will be ...

I've got no money to buy my girlfriend a Valentines present!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 February 2010 (M) - Valentine is three days away and i have no money at all to buy anything for my girlfriend,this is our first valentine together and my first ever. What should i do?...

Should I date her again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 February 2010 (M) - Ok so I dated this girl during hoemcoming and I left a stupid text on my phone saying I was going to hug this girl friend thats just a friend and she ditched me for her ex right in front of everyone and she tore up a 20$ corsage that I did hours or ...

Waiting to be struck by Cupid for Valentines Day!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - How long after you date a guy for him to know that he is ready to be in a committed relationship or dating u exclusively? What does it mean if he say, "You may not know it. But, you may already like me. We seem to click and should be in a ...

How can I get past my fears of being in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - Dear cupid, I am a 27 year old woman, virgin, and has never been in a relationship. My longest relationship was for 2 months. Every time I meet someone, I freak out and end the relationship. I hate this about myself. This is the one thing I am m...

I love my boyfriend, yet I miss the way this "fling" guy used to hold me and kiss me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - Alright, I am a college gal (junior). I started dating this guy in high school, then we went to two separate colleges in different states. We continued a serious long distance relationship, visiting each other every few weekends and such... seemed ...

I still can't get over him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - Here's the situation. The guy i've liked for months knew I liked him, and told me he liked me back. (This was a few months ago) But like eventually, he told me he had family problems and problems with his friends and didn't have time for a relat...

How do I ask a 12th grader out on a date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 February 2010 (M) - hey how do i get a date with a 12 grader girl i am 14 and there are hot 12 graders that i want to go out with? well what i want to know is how to ask a 12 grader out on a date? ...

Does he behave this way because he is jealous or because he loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - since my boyfriend doesn't like when i smile at people ,who smile at me do you think he is jealous or because he loves me?...

We used to be good friends but now that we are dating we fight all the time ....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for close to 6 months now, and before that we were very good friends for quite some time. Now that we're dating all we ever seem to do is argue, and although I do truly care about him, I know this is not the ...

Does kissing a guy make me a whore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend, we`ve been together for about 20 months now and + he is the best and most sweetest guy I have ever know. The problem though, is not him, it`s me. I have very strong feelings for this other guy. This other guy has a girlfriend ...

I feel like I am a push over for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - I feel like I sold out. Basically, around 2 years ago I started a new job in an office working for an insurance company. It's a great job with great pay, and great people, I'm really happy there. One workmate i bonded with in particular was a...

I've never been kissed and worry that I'll be bad at it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - So this guy and I have been talking for a few months now, and hung out twice. We both like each other, but are not dating yet. The thing is I am 17 years old, and have NEVER been kissed!!! I kissed boys when I was like 5, but Ive never been truly ...

Depression and love

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

11 February 2010 (M) - Okay I admit it. I am at a stage in my life where I am the typical Nice Guy. The one we hate to love. I'm the nice guy because my situation in life makes me insecure, lonely and very needy for attention and affection. Because of this when any girl ...

Should I explore life and leave my current boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - Ok, i have a BF and we've been together for a year and a half. He is about 8 years older that i am, im 21. Do the math. Our relationship is good and strong. The only thing that is kinda bad is our sex life. There isn't 1.. 1 night a friend of mines ...

He dumped me for being too prude!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - so my boyfriend of 6 months dumped me for being too prude... he is now all flirty with his ex gf whos a whore...i feel broken so hurt. i feel like apart of me has died. i have delet with break ups before but not one like this. i loved him with all ...

A Valentine's Poem!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

11 February 2010 (M) - Is this valentine's day poem good enough for her? she's pretty romantic so I'm hoping she'll like it You’re more beautiful than a starry night The sight of your smile clears away all my fright You’re far smarter than the average bear You put f...

What do you guys think... Should I tell him I love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - I was dating this guy a couple years ago and during the summer he kissed me. The next day he told me that he regretted kissing me. After that summer he stopped talking to me. The next year my mom invited him to my graduation party. When we were ...

Boil the kettle before you read... I Need a lot of help!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

11 February 2010 (M) - Like the title suggests boil the kettle before you read this as it is going to be a very long story asking for advice. About 3 years ago, I joined the army straight out of school and had met a girl had an ok relationship but to be fair i was quite...

Boyfriend's behaviour might be giving me second thoughts...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for three years now and i thought i loved him with all my heart. In my eyes he could do no wrong, hes gorgeous funny trustworthy and my best friend in the world. The only problem in the relationship was that he can't ...

How do I crush these desires before someone gets hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

11 February 2010 (M) - Hello, Basically I have a pretty big problem that has been on going for nearly 5 years now. It concerns my ex. I won't go in to detail but basically I went out with this girl on and off for about 4 years, the relationship was always shaky, partly ...

Are You Settling in Your Relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - There is currently an article in the Atlantic entitled, "Marry Him!" where long-time author Lori Gottlieb discusses why women should be willing to settle for a man who's not perfect. My initial thought just hearing this was, "honey, you've fooled ...