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Does he just want to hook up? What does he want from ee?!

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Question - (29 June 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 June 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

A male perspective would be appreciated in this..What does he want from me? Me and this guy were seeing each other for a few months at the end of last year to January this year. We kind of just stopped talking after that, but since then we've had at least one mini texting conversation a month, always on his initiation. Last month (May) he ended up asking me if I wanted to meet up sometime (after not seeing each other in 4 months) but I was busy so I couldn't. We ended up seeing each other at mutual friend's place 2 weeks later, where we hooked up (we were intimate when we were seeing each other btw).

He's been out of town since then, and has just got back. He texted me a few days ago saying that we should hang out. I guess the only real way of knowing what he wants is to ask him, but guys, from what I've told you what does it seem like this guy wants from me? Does he want a friend? Does he want to start seeing me again? Does he just want to hook up?

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A male reader, MANswers United States +, writes (29 June 2009):

He just wants to hook up. Generally when guys really like someone, they tend to call and text a lot. Probably about once every 3-4 days when just starting out and becoming more frequent as things progress. If you're intimate with each other you guys really should be talking almost every day. All that aside, here's a very simple rule all ladies should learn: If you're asking yourself whether or not he's really into you, he's not. Sounds kind of harsh, but accepting the truth of that statement will save you a lot of heartbreak.

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A male reader, PeterPan United States +, writes (29 June 2009):

PeterPan agony auntWithout much more information, it just seems like he's trying to re-kindle the spark and possibly start seeing you again... but the best way to find out is to get face-to-face and then be direct... and you best be prepared for any answer given... like this is just hanging out to he wants to start seeing you again...

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