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Is this too fast?

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Question - (29 June 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 July 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *razykira22 writes:

This is quite long, sorry but please bare with me cuz i really need advice!

Since my last question i have dumped that guy and are now with someone else.

Me meet a few days ago literally, just as friends! as he HAD a gf! But we instantly fell in love, sounds corny but true. He hates wheres hes living and is moving Brighton and i have no idea whats going on in my life atm. So he dumped his gf to be with me, there realtionship was pretty much over anyway but is it weird that he dumped his gf for me? As i have nowhere to be or do etc as im jobless and dont think im going to attend UNI next yr he has asked me to get a flat with him and live and work in brighton with him. Is this too soon?

Im thinking that life is too short and while i have an oppurtunity for happiness i should grab it with both hands, but what are your thoughts?

I have a really close in Brighton and know that if anything were to happen etc i would be ok with accomadation etc, and having her there will help alot, and i already live away from home so am not worried about missing family and realise i can visit Southampton to see my mates down here etc. Also i know i will make new friends down there so thats not really an issue with me, but im frightened we havent known eachother long and theres so much i need/want to tell him b4 this move if you get me?

Help please, thanks x

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A female reader, krazykira22 United Kingdom +, writes (10 July 2009):

krazykira22 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

krazykira22 agony auntBasically were moving to Brighton in about 3 weeks time, i have job oppurtunities down there and hes working til the end of the 3 weeks but hes started job searching already with my help. Thankyou to everyone for there help and guidance x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009):

you dumped your ex, stole another girls guy, don't know him at all, sleeping with him, wanting to move in with him, moving too fast? of course you are. you are like a run away train, just becare you do not get run over in the process. what is the rush. why the rush. immaturity at the highest level. soon you will be writing to tell us you are back with your ex.

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A female reader, Lilly Rose United Kingdom +, writes (29 June 2009):

Lilly Rose agony auntIf you think this is love and it will work....go for it...you only live once and your young and have no responsibilities yet (kids etc) so enjoy and have fun....and i hope it works out for you!

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