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writes:Been in the relationship since the past 9 months. It's my 1st ever. Things weren't easy. She was scared to be in one after a pathetic and disastrous 1st experience. We realised we were really in love in about 3-4 months.I know its a short time. But she did make me feel really good and strong. She told me how much i helped in bringing her out of a 2 yr long terrible phase after a bad 1st relationship. Now she has moved to a different city, and she says for some strange reason, she doesnt feel love anymore. not just for me, but for anyone, including her family. Yes, she was very very scared i would leave her, and even broke up twice. But that lasted only for a few hours. This time, she says, she just doesnt feel love anymore.Says her life is in a mess. And she wants to be honest to me and dats y she is saying all this. I fail to see the light, because its way too difficult for me to take. I dont see any explanation behind this. she says there isnt. Does anyone know, how one can just stop feeling love all of a sudden?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni know she isnt humiliated or in pain. She did change once v began dating. she was happy, we were happy. I dont get why she would give things dat meant so much any thought. I feel i've lost a friend..a close one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): There is no real one explination. She probably is going through either a depression or a growing phase, where is trying to find out who she is. Talk to her about what is going on in her life. It will help you find out which is the case, but you shouldn't stress about it. Stressing an already stressful situation only makes it work. This isn't something you can fix by pressing the issue. When it is time she will work out her issues.
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reader, RSB  +, writes (29 June 2009):
i want to suddenly not to feel love anymore. since all i get from loving someone.... is pain and humilliation... why don't you take it slowly with her. talk to her... maybe she feels too lonely and scared of being alone...
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