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writes:So I am 17 and my issue is that I am not into high school boys, I have never been with an older man but I am more attracted to the idea of being with someone older! Most men that i am attracted to are between the age of 25 and 27. Does that make me slutty? Well not really slutty but is that looked down upon. I have a boyfriend whose 20 but i still think of him as a boy. I am manly just looking to see what people think about this! Would i get someone in big trouble if i slept with a 25 year old man?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2009): thats not so bad.. my first boyfriend was 22 and i was 14.. even now that im 19 im still sttracted to guys that are 25-27
i hardly date any one my own age..if maybe like 22and up
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reader, Smellyellie  +, writes (15 June 2009):
 This is perfectly normal and is nowhere near classed as looked down upon..
Most men at the age you like are really at the same maturity level you are and this is probably why you look down on your boyfriend as still being childish.. X
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (15 June 2009):
 Depending on the laws in your state, it could get him in trouble.
I've been told by a girl that she found 25 year old men to be less confused than younger years. That's why she was attracted to them.
People will always have something to say about you regardless of what you do. Unfortunaltly, it's rarely positive.
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reader, meg2989 +, writes (15 June 2009):
 Well you wouldnt get in trouble but they would!!! That is statuatory rape. And you are only 17. I would say wait until you are 18 then you wont get anyone into trouble. This doesnt make you slutty its just a prefferance. I mean look at Celine Dion and her husband Renee they are nearly thirty some odd years apart! Just be smart about your actions. Once you are 18 you can try looking for any older man. I understand what your going through because I like older men too! lol. But I waited till I was 18 so as not to get anyone int trouble. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009): Perfectly normal. Alot of women prefer older men, me included. My boyfriends 28 and i'm 19. If that makes one a slut then shoot me. Age doesnt mean a thing. You can be attracted to who the hell you wanna be attracted to! Theres no restrictions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009): It's perfectly normal for younger women to be attracted to older men. Just wait until you're 18 to start sleeping with them because yes, if they have sex with you when you're still 17, they could get in big trouble.
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