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We've been together over 4 years, but he says he's falling for someone else...

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Question - (26 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 July 2009)
A female Nigeria age 30-35, *emmieola writes:

I have being dating my boyfriend 4 1 and half years,now he is falling in love with another girl but he claim he loves me and cannot leave me,since i discovered he is cheating on me:can i quit the relationship or still be patient with him

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009):

I know it is difficult , but you need space away from this relationship. You deserve better than not knowing where you stand , after all you don't want to be second choice to the new girlfriend even if it does not last. Keep your distance , but text or write a letter saying you feel let down, hurt and betrayed . Let him answer . If he is sincere he will beg for your forgiveness . If he does not , and wants to continue with a lack of respect for you ....end this. It will hurt , but you can move on and you will . It is not your fault.

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (26 July 2009):

starfairy agony auntGet out!!!

Why should you patiently wait by his side while he sleeps around and decides if he prefers this other girl to you?

Think of your self respect and dignity...You can do better than that xx

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