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30-35,
*oviefan
writes:I have a problem, well here it is guys, My friends have been basically sick of seeing me alone without a girlfriend for so long. And have decided to try to hook me up with a girl. Well from what they have told me and my one friend who i really trust the most has informed that she is alright, nice, good personality, not bad looking. Everything seems ok. But the only thing i question which maybe its because i have never really done anything sexual, I haven't even had my first kiss. But one of them and possibly two say that they have had sex with her at some point when they had dated her in the past and say that she has a hell of a sexual appetite. She graduated last year so she is 19, but these are the only people i know of that have done anything with her. One of them had pictures of her on their cellphone that were of her chest. I'm afraid that she may be sex addicted and will have sex with any of her friends, and i have yet to ask anyone bluntly this.They have made it clear that she would probably try to get me to have sex reasonably fast, i don't know if im comfortable with this situation if she is kind of easy. Should i tell my friends no if i find out that she is easy or what, they seem to be really trying to help but I think they may be going about it wrong.What do i do, aunts.
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (12 February 2009):
Moviefan is verified as being by the original poster of the question I had the same feeling, and you guys just verified it, thanks. I was just worried that I was overreacting for some reason, and i didnt want to tell my friends to take hike without making sure i was right. Thanks guys
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2009): easy girls= sluts= insecure= not trustworthy= not relationship worthy= not dateworthy...dont waste your time or money on her...
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reader, lovelynightmare +, writes (12 February 2009):
 Fast girls = never goodShe sounds like a female player, she'd just use you for the sex then break it off.And tell your buddies that, ultimately, you call the shots in your own dating life. When you get a decent girl, you can brag you DID NOT fall for her or your friends' advice.lovelynightmare
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reader, Quiet.Kisses  +, writes (12 February 2009):
 From the sounds of it you aren't too interested in this particular girl or too comfortable with the idea of dating her, maybe ask if your friends know anyone else?
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