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writes:There is this new guy that just moved into my hall in college. After I met him. in a couple weeks he is starting to flirt with me and it looks so obvious to everybody. He does not want a commitment/girlfriend right now but after he told me this he continues to flirt with me and it is starting to annoy me because now he knows I like him too and I feel like he is using it against me. I don't know what to do.
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reader, raw1106 +, writes (17 February 2011):
this sounds like a similar situation im in. this girl started working with me a few weeks ago. i had seen her a few times before coming into my store and always wanted to talk to her but couldnt gum up the nerve. since shes started though i can definitely feel the chemistry. weve even kissed a few times but a few days ago she tells me she doesnt think coworkers should get involved, so i stated my case that i liked her and was mature enough to handle it, and would accept if she didnt want to, but she still said she didnt think it was a good idea. the very next night were working together and she flirted with me the whole shift, so much so another coworker said something to me about it. I dont know if some people just get off on playing head games, but I think thats whats going on. All we can do is be ourselves and dont let em get to us. I would recommend if this guy keeps it up, to set some boundaries. let him know that if he doesnt want a relationship that you might be uncomfortable with all the flirting and gauge his reaction from there. I hope this helps and wish you the best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2009): im in a sitaution sort of like yours except its worse because i have a bfit is really annoyingdont flirt back with him sometimes.... see what he doesand get a bf someone that will actually commit!maybe then he might feel a want and need to commit?do it ...otherwise you will just continue feeling annoyed
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