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writes: well my boyfriend is going to peru for a year becuase he needs to learn better spanish (he's hispanic) and his grandmother is sick or something. im 13 and weve been together for 4 months now. i dont know if i can wait for him like that. cuz im going to high school next year and im sure there will be new guys to like and stuff. should i wait or no?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): You are only 13 and a lot can happen at that age. Agree to keep in touch and see how you both feel by the time he returns. Maybe you both will be with someone else, or maybe you will wait for each other, but personally i think you both shouldnt wait for each other. If you two meet up in the future then hey that will be cool, but for now, just go your separate ways and enjoy your youth and dont settle down with one person yet, you are way too young. Enjoy life.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (30 May 2008):
 Hi hon, is this the boy who fingered you and made you cry and run off?
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-asked-my-boyfriend-to-stop-fingering-me.html
Maybe it's a good thing he's going away for a while, so you both have a chance to grow up and get a bit more mature. I wouldn't recommend waiting for him, because he doesn't seem to be worth it, based on your other post.
In a year, a lot of things will happen and you'll both meet new people and learn more about life. You're still young and have your whole life ahead of you!
All the best, and do take good care of yourself.
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reader, :):):)  +, writes (29 May 2008):
Ah this is a difficult time for you.
No-one knows what the future holds so dont make any quick assumptions.
Stay in touch with this boy and agree to be friends.
When he comes home, you can then re-address the sitauation and see if you both feel the same as before.
If not, you still have a great friend.
If so, your relationship can bloom again.
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