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I want to sneak my boyfriend over when my mom is away...any tips on how to not get caught?

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Question - (5 April 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

my mum is going away for a few days and am wantin to have my bf down to stay over. we've both agreed on not rushin into anything and takin things slow but am on the pill already the only thing am worryin about is my grandparents as they dont know am seein him and they have a habit of appearin to check up on us when my mum is away at random times that am wary about being caught. anyone got any good plans to get around this as i was thinkin of havin him come down late but leavin early morning just to be sure though i know this isnt the best way for him. any advice would be really helpfull

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008):

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thanks for all your advice but i've not really got anywhere he could hide in my house though :S i think the idea about comin down at 10ish really could though cause they usually check up on us in the afternoon but they might fone at night

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A female reader, Stayc63088 United States +, writes (6 April 2008):

Stayc63088 agony auntOk well when i snuck my boyfriend in, he would park his car aways down the street. Or you could pick him up where ever he is coming from. When you hear someone approaching your house or opening the door, have him hide in the bathroom shower with the curtain closed. Thats about the best advice i could give.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008):

Just keep the doors locked and the curtains/blinds closed and have your boyfriend over but don't have his car be in your driveway. If the grandparents show up to check on you, have him a designated hiding area so that he can hide there until the grandparents leave. Of course, if they have a key then it will be harder, if they just walk right in the house. It is a bit risky but if you make sure no one sees him come over or leave and are quiet, I think you can get away with it. PS the pill isn't 100% effective so if I were you, I would use a back up form of birth control.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008):

well if your boyfriend came over a little later, 10ish, this would be too late for your grandparents to check up wouldnt it? then just stay upstairs out of the way if they do turn up, leave the doors unlocked and tell anyone who asks that you stayed at a mates house, either that or hang out in a garage or a shed, why would they check there? my boyfriend used to stay over every weekend, saturday night and sometimes friday night as well, my mum and dad were in the house and even they had no idea lol. bedroom windows are awesome things :)

good luckk x

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