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What do you do with a boyfriend who cheats and talks bad about you?

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Question - (5 April 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 28 April 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, *URTandCONFUSED writes:

What do you do if you date a guy and have been with him for almost 3 years that tells you he loves you and only you,but he talks behind your back and sees other women he leaves and doesn't call for days then calls back and makes excuses and denies it all? I am miserable without him!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008):

im sorry girl he must be the last man on this earth or incredible rich....get the hell out of that and dont look back for a second ...dump that looser in a heartbeat..no girl deserves that ever from anyone there are a million men in this world that will make un laugh and love you back.

get rid of anything that reminds you of him and delete his number dont answer when he calls. he doesn love you he is just saying whatever he has to,to make u think he does. go out w ur friends meeet new ppl. dont waste ur beautiful on him

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A female reader, carebear United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2008):

carebear agony auntDUMP HIM!

Better to be miserable about something, you will heal, get stronger and be happy.

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A male reader, Ordinaryrisktaker United States +, writes (5 April 2008):

What do you do is show him the door and let it hit his ass on the way out it is what you do.I mean you yourself answered your question right there if he talks behind your back and sees other women then obviously he cheated on you and maybe worse.I'd say dump his sorry ass and find that special someone who will cherish you and dedicate his life for you.

I wish you the best of luck and find that Mr.right!

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (5 April 2008):

Danielepew agony auntWhat you do with such a person is that you show them the door. I'm more concerned about you. You don't have to take all this. You think you'd be miserable without him, but I think it's the other way around: he makes you miserable. You will be much, much better off without him. Just be brave.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2008):

What you do is realize the guy is a sociopath and is using women for what he can get out of them, no one tells a woman he has been with for three years that he loves only her, and cheats with other women and lies behind your back and talks bad about you if he is not manipulating everyone to get what he wants....The guy is a LOSER. You are miserable with him, what the HELL are you talking about that you are miserable without him....Get real, and get serious, kick this guy to the curb!

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