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Dating: Help and advice

Outside of the bedroom, we don't communicate well anymore; how can I break this monotonous routine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6129 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and I love him to bits. But we've slipped into a bit of a routine and don't really communicate alot about anything unless something big happens. I've tried starting random conversations with him, I've even ...

I have strong feelings for my boyfriend but I'm not sure if it's love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

24 July 2007 (M) - 1st off im female using my boyfriends account. im having some problems knowing if i really love him or not. i KNOW he loves me and would do anything for me and i have very strong feeling for him but i dont know if its love or not. what are the ...

I think I have feelings for my best friend but I don't want to tell him incase he doesn't feel the same

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - My best friend (of 2 years) and I have been talking for a long while about his past relationships and I have decided that I dont think anyone would be good enough for him. Im not sure why, I would be happy for him if he got another partner as he ...

I'm with my first ever boyfriend and can't help wondering what else is out there

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - Ok.... Im 25 and have been with my boyf nearly 5 yrs - before him I havent been out with anyone. Our relationship is good, he makes me laugh, I find him attractive. He does annoy me at times because he can be really headstrong and likes to wind ...

My male friend flirts with me even though he has a girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - Hi im in a sticky situation here this is my problem. there's a boy in my class he has a girlfriend i really get on with him like mates but i always see him looking at me and flirting with me, my friends tease me when he comes and sits near ...

Is it selfish of me to want to be his first priority? I don't get the emotional support I crave

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - I asked a question on the 17th of July about what I should do about the situation I have with my boyfriend of 2 years that is not tending to my emotional needs. I got some great advice, thank you! My situation unfortunately still stands. I am trying ...

I'm almost 29 and ready to settle but so far my relationships have failed; why could this be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - Hi, after so many relationships obviosly not succecful I am alone again, the reason why i am concerned is cos i am 28 soon 29 and despared for settling with the right person and have kids, but for some reason seems I do push people away, is it cos I ...

She's becoming distant after a mistake I made, how can I draw her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6130 days ago

24 July 2007 (M) - hi, um i like this girl and she likes me but things havent been the same recently. weve been on and off for about 2 months. shes acting kind of bored like she isnt interested. at one point i was very confused wit her and with some family problem...

I started sleeping with a girl I really like while her boyfriend was away; he's coming back and she doesn't want to see me as often. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5822 days ago

24 July 2007 (M) - A few months ago, i became friendly with a local girl who moved over here. She was stunningly good looking and way out of my league, and i found out she had a boyfriend who'd gone to australia for a year. But as we became friends i found out she ...

I'm needy in my relationship, how do I stop it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6130 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - how do i stop being to needy in my relationship?...

I started dating my ex's friend; now my ex doesn't speak to us and is calling me a slut

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - my ex broke up with me in Dec after a brief 4 month relationship. very shortly after our breakup, i was out and I met one of his friends that he talked about all the time, but Id never met this friend..me and my ex's friend hit it off right from the ...

I like one of my best friends who has a girlfriend now; I won't make a move while she's around, so should I just wait and hope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - Hi, My problem is probably quite small and easily solved, but its at the forefront of my mind at the moment. I've recently discovered feelings for one of my best friends and he certainly gives off the impression that they are reciprocated, as...

Update on the guy at the gym; he's acting even friendlier now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6130 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - hi all, yesterday i posted a question about this guy i like from my gym, well today i saw him again and was talking to one of the others about my crap day yesterday, he was standing thre the whole time, and smiled at me a couple of times, then w...

Do i do it when he's hard or soft?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - hi, I'm about to go out with this guy and he is more experienced than me and i wanna kno how to give a blow job. and when you do is he hard or soft when u start?...

What does he mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - If a guy starts talking about his co-workers teasing him about weddings, and the two of you talk about it (jokingly), what does that mean? They always say that behind every joke is a grain of truth (OK, aside from the elephant jokes). I'd ap...

How can you tell if they like you or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - How do you find out if a boy likes you ,and when u do find out what do you do?...

I have a mad crush on a customer

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - I work and I see frequent customers. There is this one main guy who comes in about every week, and when i see him, i get sooo red. Expecially when i communicate with him. And I'm sure he notices too!! I've seen quite a few attractive guys,...

Just as we were about to start dating his ex came and stole him right back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - ...I meet a guy at my fathers auto shop, he was doing co-op there during school..anyway we started talking and became close but when we started talking about going on a date his ex girlfriend who left him for some franch guy comes back out of the ...

How can I be more relaxed and confident around boys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - Hi How to i become more comfortable and confident around boys? I get quite alot of male attention and when i walk down the road quite alot of boys stare at me but i can't smile at them instead i just give them an evil look- but not on purpose.I...

We like each other, I think, but all we ever do is look at each other

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - I am 16 . I have liked a guy who I only shared 1 class with for 2 years. We are both extremely shy but I got the feeling that he like me e.g. His friends would let him know when I entered a room or he would show off in front of me and things like ...

What can I say to her before we depart on our separate holidays to prevent her from cheating, but not sound too desperate or suspicious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

24 July 2007 (M) - hello. Me and My girlfriend are going away on holiday in a couple of days but is its not the same holiday. we are both going with our families. this is her second holiday if the summer. anyways the problem is thing aint to smooth at the moment, i...

Is it ok to stay in a relationship that has not commitment until I find something better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - I am involved in a relationship that has no commitment. I have been questioning whether I should continue or go find a guy that is willing to commit. I get my self all worked up to tell him that Im not going to keep having sex and this ...

My boyfriend goes out with his buddies and dances with other women

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - im always uneasy about my boyfriend going out with his guy friends and brother. they are all single and he is the only one with a girlfriend. i dont see why i cant come along when his guy friends are interested in going out to dance with and meet ...

I need to be sure she is marrying me for the right reasons. She doesnt show me affection!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

24 July 2007 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have been going out with my partner for bout a year. I really love her and care for her greatly but I find myself fighting for her attention. She seems to care more for her family then she ever would me. I find myself doing sil...

How can I stop hating my boyfriend when he's away? I love him to pieces when we're together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - when ever my bf is at home (we long distance) i start to hate him every small thing he does i hate him for. if he forgets to put xxx in his texts i hate him. when he tells me he be online when he knows im at work i hate him. when he takes 6 weeks to ...

She's meeting me for lunch - does she actually like me or just think I'm a nice guy?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

24 July 2007 (M) - Does she like me? Some people may have seen previous posts about me and a relationship break-up that has been really tough. I'm hoping for a bright new future and being a little out of practice on the dating side wondered if I could have a few ti...

I'm a male, but I want to be a female - what steps are involved?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

24 July 2007 (M) - I'm male, 19 and I want to be female. How could I go about this? And would I have to be with other guys or would it be possible to be with women?...

I think about having sex w/ him all the time, but don't want to do it when he's actually around!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, im a 19yr old female and i just need some general advise really on my thoughts and feelings - well ive been with my b/f now for a month (we dated for a year but then broke up, now were together again) well i think about having sex with ...

Sex with my boyfriend is a bit awkward; where could we go for some proper privacy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - Well, I'm in love with my boyfriend and vice versa.. We've had sex... But it had been rather awkward. I do believe we would both like to continue, but, we both feel nervous about feelings, atmosphere, and I was just wondering.. If you want to be ...

My 'friend with benefits' has started seeing someone and I'm mad at him and feeling used

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - How do I let go of my feelings towards my roommate (friend with benefits)? I currently live with my friend with benefits and he started to date and of course I am feeling used. After last night I am so mad that I can not look at him in the eyes. He ...

This girl I recently got to know told me she likes me; I don't feel the same way but I feel bad about rejecting her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

24 July 2007 (M) - Hi Everyone, I'm sure there's been numerous topics like this but, there's this girl that's in my summer school class that I just got to know. She just told me that she liked me, but the problem is that I don't feel the same way. She confesse...

Could he be jealous of my ex? Does that mean he really likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6131 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - hello my name is shaniqua well ur site seems interting and the reason y im using it is because i really need love advices, i like this guy n he knows it when i first told him he said i like u too and we had a thing going on but when we got back to ...

I love my boyfriend but we're completely different people, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is a very hot-tempered person. A lot of times he can be disrespectful and rude. He's very jealous and possessive and always thinks i'm lying to him. He loves me alot but at the same time he thinks very differently. We're always arguing ...

My girlfriend of almost 2 years has told me she can't date anyone right now and that we can maybe date again when she's ready. What is it she's feeling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

24 July 2007 (M) - I have been dating a girl for about a year and eight months. One day she tells me she doesn't want a boyfriend right now in this time in her life. She says that she still loves me she just cant be with me right now. She also said that i just have to ...

I love her very much but she has taken a sudden dislike to physical contact and I feel a bit rejected

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

24 July 2007 (M) - Hi all, can somebody please help with some objective advice... I'm going out of my mind! To cut a long story short, I'm in my late 30s, and have a fairly long distance relationship (100 miles) with my girlfriend. When we started out, it was brillian...

My girlfriend cheated on me when she was drunk but I don't want to dump her; how should I handle it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

24 July 2007 (M) - My Girlfriend admitted she Cheated on me!!! She was very drunk when she did it and i don't want to get ride of her. i want to make sure she doesn't do it again! , but how??? Do i not speak to her for a bit? Do i shout at her? Do i forgive h...

My girlfriend told me she's had many flings in the past; what is a fling exactly, as opposed to a serious relationship? I'm worried our relationship might turn into one now

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

24 July 2007 (M) - hi, this question might sound pretty basic but it's been bothering me for some time. When I asked my girlfriend (of 2 months) how many relationships she's been in prior to ours, she said that she's been in 2 serious relationships and had a whole lot ...

I'm too embarassed to buy condoms but I don't want to end up being a daddy; what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

24 July 2007 (M) - Hello im 15 and im a WIMP i have a girlfriend and we have sex as often as possable. the thing is im to much of a wimp to get condoms. i just get too embrassed. i have recently been stealing them off my brother and about a week ago i was lucky an...

My parents would freak out if they knew about my 'bad-apple' boyfriend and I, yet I don't want to keep it a secret

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - i really do love this boy even tho i am young! my parents dont like him because he is bad bt they dont no him like i do they just go by what they hear. i am scared to say to them that i have been seeing him for 3 months because they will go of the ...

I'm confused about what my co-worker wants

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6131 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - Ok...So im a little confused... I've been seeing a guy who i work with and im very fond of him, we've been seeing eachother for just over 5 months now and things seemed to be going good, just recently i told him that i'd fallen for him and at some ...

I didn't see my girlfriend for a few days, when I did she was acting differently and says she has a big thing on her mind

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

24 July 2007 (M) - Hi im 15 year old and i have a 16 year old girlfriend and we have had sex many times using protection. she recently went away on holiday for 10 day and then as soon as she got back went to a music festival during the holiday she was sending me t...

While we were briefly apart, my boyfriend got a single-status MySpace account; there was a hot blonde on his list even though he says he didn't add her. I'm still hurting over it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - Hi all I would really appreciate your opinion. I have been with my guy for nearly 6 years. About 2 months ago we split after a huge row. (we started to talk not long after)I went on holiday for 2 weeks. We love eachother very much. We text ever...

My male friend I like has started seeing someone but he texts me when he's drunk claiming he loves me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - My friend always texts me or rings when hes drunk sayin that he loves me? we have only bin mates for bout 3/4 months.. but im really confused.. because i really like him! and 1 of my mates finks he likes me too! and shes seen all the texts he sen...