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30-35,
anonymous
writes:...I meet a guy at my fathers auto shop, he was doing co-op there during school..anyway we started talking and became close but when we started talking about going on a date his ex girlfriend who left him for some franch guy comes back out of the blue and wants to get back with him, he ends up with her and now i still have strong feelings for me i dont want anyone else, him and i have never even done anything beside talk and i still feel the same....should i still try and go for him(like wait for him)of should i just give up?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2007): I'd just be a friend to him for now. He's going to need one cause by the sounds of it this other girl seems to have him wrapped round her finger and chances are she's going to do exactly the same thing and go off with someone else sooner or later.
Hopefully by then he'll have learned to get some backbone and not roll over when she comes calling. And he'll know that you've been there supporting him. And who knows, maybe he'll open his eyes to someone who isn't going to play him around. (ie-you)
If you tell him now you could confuse him even more and he may find it hard to talk to you knowing how you feel.
So I'd say wait. But don't wait forever. If it becomes obvious he's never going to leave her despite what she's done or whatever she may do in the future, it'd probably be best to let him lie in the bed he's made and find someone new.
Best of luck.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (24 July 2007):
 He's obviously still interested in his ex. There's not much you can to do change that. You could try waiting, afterall she may twist off on him again and leave him hanging. But then again, would you ever feel good if he returned to you simply because he needed a re-bound girl? I think it's time for you to find someone else. And make sure they're over their ex before you start having feelings for them.
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