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Archived questions from: 28 July, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

After a year, what are your thoughts of meeting up even though she has another man's baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 441 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - We used to date but not anymore. were both 17 and havent met in year. What are your thought of us meeting up again now that she has a 6 month baby who is not mine....

Is it wise for me to get involved on a serious level with this guy who has kids?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Help: Iam recenty dating a guy that has been split up from is girlfriend 3monts ago, they were together just over a year, he has two kids from 2 diffrent women, one is 6yrs old and the other has just turned 7months, the ex girlfriend is 30 but looks ...

We're both too shy to make the first move!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Hey The guy i love has recently told me he likes me, he says he has never loved anyone this much before, so all is good there. But the problem is we are both to scared and shy to make the first move. I txt him all the time, but when it comes do...

This guy I like says he loves someone else, but lately he wants to be close to me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Hey theres this guy i really like, but im really confussed, he says his true love is some other girl, but she turned him down. We have always been really close but recently he keeps hugging me and wanting to be close to me. Weve just been camping ...

There definitely seems to be something between us but nothing's happened so far; I really want it to

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - HI me and this girl have been best friends for ages and afew yrs ago i developed feeling for her but i wanted to make sure it wasn't just a crush as i didn't want to hurt her. I've also ben told by afew of out best friends that she loves me but ...

She needed space to work out her feelings for me and her ex; I've heard nothing back from her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

28 July 2007 (?) - Hi, I met a girl about a month ago. She is almost everything I could want in a woman and we spend alot of time talking things over about how drawn we both are to each other. She had only been apart from her ex' of 4 years for a couple of months a...

He wants to start dating me when he starts driving, but that's 3 years away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - the guy that i like, likes me also but he doesn't want to go out right now. He says that he wants to wait untill he can drive soo then he can see me everyday. I think it's pretty logical buut i'm not going to wait thaat long for him that's like 3 or ...

Should I try again for the sake of the baby??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 314 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I'm 32 and have been with my boyfriend [he's 36] for 5 months. He has 2 children from a previous relationship. I have found out recently I am pregnant, it is my first child. I have always lived a very independant life but since meeting him, I have ...

I feel she's pressuring me into marriage but I'm just not ready yet.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - We're almost breaking up with my gal now since I requested her to wait since am yet not ready for marriage as I feel my self. I am 25 she is 30. She says time is running out and she is ready. We've been dating for the last year and a half now. How ...

At first sex was fine and wasn't an issue but now she dosen't seem interested in it at all.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - I've been going out with my girlfriend for going on 2 years now but somthing's not right at all. At first sex was fine and wasn't an issue but now she dosen't seem interested in it at all. We still get on really well and are very much in love but ...

Am I being selfish here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 6 years had a row. We lived togetheher (house in his name). Both decided I should move back to my parents. I did. He also bought me a car (he is self employed and earns a comfortable life). That was left behind. At the time...

I keep lying to my boyfriend and it's now getting out of hand. How can I stop this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I recently met this guy that I like a lot, but I don't know what's wrong with me. I keep telling lies. Like I made up this guy to get him jealous and I ended up making up that he went too far so I hit him. I even cut my hand to make it look like I ...

My ex contacted me saying she had made a terrible mistake, thing is I still love her but can't hurt the new girl I'm with.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - I wrote in a while ago because my ex fiancee and myself split up, we was together for 3 years and I still very much loved her and I was advised to give her space because the split was her choice. In the time apart we still spoke to each other but I ...

Recently he rung me asking me not to get in contact for some bazzar reason but then after 2 weeks he rung and I was so happy for about a week..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 441 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Hii... I'm 17 years of age, and I was in a 5 month relationship which fell to pieces and then I got over it when somebody else came along. He had a girlfriend and I asked him about her and he told me he had left her. We started seeing each other ...

He wouldn't use the words "breaking up" or "dumping", but that's pretty much what happened. I'm distraught.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Hi all. I'm new here, and in need of some advice. My boyfriend (my ex now, I guess) and I have been together for 10 months. Things were a bit rocky when we first started dating, in that I knew he was very different from anyone I'd dated and I wasn...

I fall for guys really easy and have 2 that like me just now, I just don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 441 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I'm 14 and fall for guys really easy. I have a guy back home wanting to make a go of me and him but I was back in England (in Spain atm) we always hit off, got along and everything but earlier this week I met a guy and he´s eveything I want. He is ...

A while ago I found out my girlfriend kissed another guy at a party, she didn't tell me about this, I found out through a friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 441 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - A while ago I found out my girlfriend kissed another guy at a party, she didn't tell me about this, I found out through a friend. She said he kissed her and she didn't kiss him. I'm finding it hard to believe because she didn't tell me about this, I ...

I'm bussing everywhere. But I'm scared witless, as I've never travelled more than 50 miles on my own.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I'll soon be going on holiday with my boyfriend and his parents. Let's call him P. He lives in Kent now, his parents live in Birmingham and I live in Cornwall. See the problem already arising? The original plan was: P picks me up, we go back, ...

He spends far too much time round at his ex's house and I feel I can't put up with it any longer.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 441 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, we don't live together but we spend a couple of nights each week at each others home. I love him very much. He is very quiet and I'm the opposite I guess. I'm beginning to get bored as he rarely makes me ...

I'm afraid to tell my friend I like him but I'm going mad not being able to

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 441 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I would appreciate some help. I am having difficulty telling a male friend that I have feelings for him above friendship and I am concerned that if I tell him it will put him in a very awkward position if he doesn't feel the same way. At the same ...

I like my sister's roommate but I'm afraid of spoiling their relationship if something goes wrong bewteen her and I

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - What should I do: Date my sisters roommate/best friend or forget about it and find someone else. I really like this girl but I am afraid of ruining my sisters friendship with her if something were to go wrong. ...

I've told my crush I like him but he hasn't said how he feels

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - hi. i met this guy maybe 3 weeks ago at the mall and we've been talking on aim and all and im starting to get this huge crush but sometimes when we hang out at the mall he walks offcuz of another guy friend but if i would pass him he'd come to me. ...

I like my best friend's younger sister; should I tell him, or her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 441 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - ok i have liked one of my best friends younger sisters for awhile ( me and my best friend are both 14, and she is turning 13 in august ) i was at his house today and i was flirting with her in there computer room well my friend was with are other ...

What are his true feelings for me? How do I figure this guy out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 441 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - In 2002 I met and fell in love with a guy who was recently separated with 2 kids. For the first year he wasn't really sure what he wanted. He went down home for 2 weeks and I went there to visit on my holidays. Before he came back he mentioned about ...

Which is safer? Online dating sites or a match making agency?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - which is better and safer online dating or go to a match making agency ? i want whats best for my daughter a good man and her safety ....

She has so many problems..but I can't get her out of my head! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - I met a girl who I posted about here: http://dearcupid.org/question/i-met-this-girl-about-4-months-ago.html and now she's even more f**ked up then I thought. On top of being bulemic, anorexic, suicidal, self-harming, she's also appar...

I get too serious-too fast! How can I stop doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - Hi all. Just wondering, since I have come out of a serious relationship, when I finally get into a new realtionship, is there anyway that I can settle with the idea that the relationship will not start seriously? I have only ever really been i...

I'm 20, in university and I want to start a family so badly! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Hi, I wonder if anyone could help me. My partner and I (both 20 years of age) have been together for over 5 years, we have been engaged for about 1 1/2 years. We have both just completed our first year in Uni and plan to marry afterwards. Howe...

Does she mean it when she says we're too good friends to bring in intimacy, or was she just rejecting me nicely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - OPEN TO ALL AGONY AUNTIES. i had a girl i had held as a friend for over 6 years coz we had gone thru the same primary school. This girl is remarkably well behaved but has some problems arising from the unstable marriage her parents have had since sh...

Does he want to break up, or is he unsure? Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 441 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - He does not manage to break-up... why? I have been dating a guy for about 1.5y including 1y on a distance relationship. We now live back in the same city. Things are not going well. We are getting closer and closer to breaking up. Still, he does not...