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Dating: Help and advice

We have the makings of a wonderful relationship. How should I approach this with him without scaring him off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of almost a year and a half broke up with me 9 months ago. We were long distance (the reason for the break up says he), and now he's moving back. We've stayed friends and get along extremely well, plus I am completely in love with him. ...

She's married now and she contacted me saying she still loved me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

20 July 2007 (M) - Please help. 7 years ago I feel deeply In love with a girl that I worked with, I know she loved me too but I was married at the time with children and she had a partner. We never slept together but our relationship was very emotional, we kissed and ...

How do I get over this fear of being left and trust that not every guy is going to leave me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - As short as I can keep it, I came out of a bad marriage 7 years ago, it was almost 4 years after I felt ready to try dating again, then I met a man who appeared to be all I could want, we got off to a good start, to cut it short I ended up pregnant. ...

I want to know whether it is reasonable to ask him to have no further contact with this other girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and I feel, perhaps due to past experiences, that he doesn't really want to be with me, he say's he does and he has never really given me any real reason to doubt this. However a girl he was seeing before ...

She wanted to wait before telling others about our relationship..should I bring it up again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 452 days ago

20 July 2007 (M) - I have recently begun seeing a girl I met while at a volunteer summer job. We clicked the instant we met and we have been seeing each other regularly for over 2 months now. She was just getting over a very unhealthy relationship at the time I met ...

Hes a flirt and I dont know if he actually likes me as anything more as a friend with benefits. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 452 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - i was rejected by one of my guy friends and this made us a lot closer. now he gets jelous if i flirt with other guys and i spend loads of time with him. my friends said i should ask him out but i think hes gone on holiday now. i cant stop thinking ...

I have trouble accepting dates with guys! Why am I this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 452 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - I am always thinking that I would like a boyfriend to love me and stuff, and I fancy a nice boy, but then when he asked me out i felt sick and couldn't face him. Now i do not fancy him at all, but he still likes me. this has also happened once ...

Is it wrong to hang out with her even though she wants me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 452 days ago

20 July 2007 (M) - update to http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-my-ex-trying-to-seduce-me.html well my ex. has calmed down a bit not trying much anymore but we've started hanging out alot more like the other day we went to the movies and last night a concert, so ...

No replies to text messages and he said he wouldn't be able to see me for 5 months! Should I just end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - i need some advice about my relationship with my boyfriend. We've been friends for about 10 months and been together for 7 of those! we used to get on so well. hes the nicest guy you could ever meet. im at uni so we could only see each other every 2 ...

I am finding out that some of my boyfriend's friends are cheating on their girlfriends, how do I know my boyfriend isn't doing it too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - I am finding out that some of my boyfriend's friends are cheating on their girlfriends. How do I know if my boyfriend will be just like them? Are there signs to look for? I have never thought of him doing this to me but with some of his frien...

Our families hate each other and now that we are engaged-his mother has freaked out. What should we do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - Hello, I have been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs and we are crazy about eachother. The only problem is our families- they dont like eachother, and dont want me and my boyfriend to be together. Recently, we have decided to get engaged, but when...

My bf wants me to be more 'sexually adventurous'...is this a good thing or what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of 10 months wants me to be more sexual with him, is that bad? he wants me to do a lot more sexual positions as well as go down on him a lot more than I do. I dont want to disappoint him so Last night we did it in the middle of the ...

My teacher split up with his partner...should I make a move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - Hi its me again remember before when i said i was in love with my teacher and that he was in a LTR...? Well now they have split up and i really wanted make a move but i don't have the guts because i know almost for sure he'll push me away and thin...

He's on holiday and he hasn't contacted me once! Am I being selfish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 452 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - Is it stupid to wish he'd contact me? This is something which has been bugging me for a while. I have been on holiday in America. Whilst there I made an effort to keep in touch with my boyfriend. A few days before I came home he went away....

We quarrel all the time and he doesn't trust me! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 426 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - i am a girl of 21 dating a guy of 28 the problem is dat we quarrel all the time and he does not trust me.any time we decide to end the relationship,we find out that we cant stay without each other. every body arround us want us to quit the ...

He says 'he loves me but...he's not in love with me". How do I cope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - I have been with this guy for just over a year now. We were best friends before we statred dating. He really took care of me and made me feel more loved than ever before. He was changing his entire life in order to better himself and make himself ...

I'm an Illegal Imigrant! I am scared if I tell him, he'll think I am with him only because I want marriage fior american citizenship! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - Hi I have a serious question.Sorry to all of you that might get offended from this message. I have been living in the states for few years now, but I over-stayed my visa and have been illegal Imigrant for 5 months now.Never planned on it, ...

I love her but how is it possible to find out if she feels the same way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 452 days ago

20 July 2007 (M) - Hello, i am a 22 male living in california united states and i am in love with someone, who is living abroad. But how do i know or how do i tell her the feelings that i have for her in my heart. I cannot talk to her, because our families had a hu...

Is sharing a kiss with another guy and liking him really telling me my current relationship isnt working? Any views?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - I shared a drunken kiss with my boyfriends work colleague. We both have partners although he hasnt been with his long, we have txt each other and agree we both find each other physically attractive and enjoy each others company. We are both in ...

We've been dating 7 months and he's pulling away! What do I do about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - Hello, A question for guys please. I feel sick and feel like crying my eyes at the moment. I know I shouldn't let anyone make me feel like this. I know I don't deserve this, but I can't help it. I've got a lot going for me, I'm attractive, succ...

Two guys fall in love..so why do others try to prevent this from happening?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

20 July 2007 (M) - if two guys fall in love and are meant to be togther why should other people prevent this from happening?...

I have a violent bf who treats me like dirt behind closed doors! Any advice?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - I'm in a three-year relationship with a guy five years my senior. He's great in public, always kind to me, my family and friends plus very affectionate but behind closed doors it's like he's had a personality change. He treats me like dirt, forcing ...

When should I kiss this guy, I like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - okay, I like this boy and he likes me but I don't know whan to kiss him. ...

How do I safely break up with a jealous, paranoid bf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - Hi, thank you for taking the time to read this... I really want to break up with my long-term boyfriend, mainly because I don't think that our relationship is healthy. He is jealous and paranoid. I have tried my hardest to make him feel secure about ...

Can I ask my sister if I can kiss her? Any advice?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

20 July 2007 (M) - Hi, I am 5 years younger than my sister. I find her attractive. i have never kissed or anything with anyone. Can i ask her to kiss me? If so how far can this go?...

I've gained 4 pounds and I feel fat! How do I lose it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - i need some advice. i am 19 years old, female. i feel like i am getting to fat for my boyfriend. he says i'm not. but i have put on 10 kilos (4 pounds) in the past 12 months. does anybody have any advice on how i can lose some weight? what has ...

He looks at other girl's naked bodies...and I'm jealous! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 445 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - my boy friend and i have been together for about 2 years, this is also his and mine first relationship i have never been the jealous type untill my first love {him} i know that some of the things i get jealous about is stupid but it also makes me ...

How do you trust someone after they slept with an ex gf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 452 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - My bf and I have been together 4 months. My previous relationship turned out to be emotionally and verbally abusive, which caused a lot of issues for me. I was holding on to the hurt and fear of what my ex put me thru (2 yrs prior to meeting ...

Would it ruin our relationship if I tell him I was sexually abused?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - I was sexually abused when I was a child. I really like this boy, but I don't know if I should tell him. Should I tell him about my past? Would that ruin our relationship? Would he look at me differently and never want to come too close to me?...

I'm heartbroken. He dumped me for his online gf! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - I have a problem my boyfriend of over 8yrs broke up with me.we have been together since Jan 3rd 1999, and I was his first love,and sex partner.I was his first everything and the first serious relationship.all he said was that you loves me and cares ...

Love my bf but his immaturity is starting to annoy me! what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - i love my boyfriend to bits! he is nearly 22, but he keeps acting immature. like he talks in a little baby voice sometimes. it really annoys me because i am attracted to him most when he is being really mature. i have repeatedly asked him to sto...

We have a shaky relationship--Is there anything I can say that would make her reconsider, before walking away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 452 days ago

20 July 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have recently been trying to save our relationship but she is now saying she doesnt know what she wants. Is there anything i can say that would make her reconsider before she throws away the last 13 months and every thing we ...

I'm lesbian and just realized my straight friend, whom I really like is homophobic! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 452 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - So i recently posted a note saying i was in love with my best friend who is straight. Things have changed slightly and she has been wanting to hang out a lot more. Everyday since about 3 months ago i have been wakimng up to her text messages and ...

Is it possible that my ex is my online stalker on MySpace?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

20 July 2007 (M) - Back in October, somebody appeared on MySpace and started stalking me. They kept telling me all these things they knew about me, including where I had gone to lunch that day etc. I figured it was one of my friends, but I saw fairly decisive ev...

He looks at skinnier girls! Does he want a girl, that is better looking than me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - I have been with my guy for about a year and a half and he always looks at other girls that look better then me. They are skinnier then me and they are hot and I get jealous but i just feel like he dont find me attractive anymore and it hurts. I ...

It's like we are together, but technically we are not! How do I know if he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - Theres this guy. And i really like him. And we flirt all the time but i know that doesnt mean that he likes me. but we get along so well. and he tries to make moves but teachers will come or friends will interupt and i think he gets a little ...

How do I get him to the next step--commitment and marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - I want to move my boy closer to commitment and marriage and i want to ask what's more important to a guy --to focus on appearance, being sexy etc., or to be more vocationally successful? I thought he wanted me to clean my apartment more, ...

Dating me again is not what she wanted. So how do I rekindle what we had?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

20 July 2007 (M) - my ex fiance broke up with me about a year ago.even after the breakup i,m still in love with her and i think about her all the time.recently i was told that she would like to make things workout...she states that she was afraid and that after going ...

He's more experienced and I am a virgin. Not ready for sex yet, but do I take this further?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about five months now and I guess things are going good. It's tough because there is an age gap and he is ALOT more experienced then I am. Anyways I'm still a virgin and as of right now I'm not ready for sex. I'm still ...