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Archived questions from: 6 July, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I give her time and space to work out both her feelings of stress for that situation and her feelings for me, or should I just leave this situation completely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

6 July 2007 (M) - Well I started seeing someone I've known for about 6 years now. WE are in a long distance relationship and I know I love her. The problem came when her brother had a heart attack. IT was as if over night she decided that she didn't know what she ...

My boyfriend of 5 years (he's 34 years old) is my best friend. The problem is that he has given up on everything.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 428 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 years (he's 34 years old) is my best friend. The problem is that he has given up on everything. He lost his job three months ago and he still isn't looking for one. He just sits all day long in his room, browsing the net or ...

How do you know when you're really in love with someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - how do you know when your really in love with someone? Me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time if you count the on and offs. We say we love each other on the phone and he does really care for me and is sweet and has done nothing wrong ...

I am finding it hard to accept her love/trust her but I don't know why.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 428 days ago

6 July 2007 (?) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 months now and just recently both told each other that we love each other. I had said it first a couple of weeks before and knew she was not ready at the time but couldn't help it. I am finding it ha...

Can anyone please help me to stop being so controlling and trust her??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 428 days ago

6 July 2007 (M) - Hi, my name is Andre I am currently in Portugal and my girlfriend is in Canada we have been away from each other for 9 months but I will be back in about 3 months. Anyways I really need help, I know that I am controlling I don't like it when she ...

My boyfriend says he loves me every 2 minutes, is it a true sign he loves me or just habbit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 428 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend says he loves me every 2 minutes, is it a true sign he loves me or just habbit?...

I'm afraid that she'll cheat on me again. How can I stop feeling paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 428 days ago

6 July 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year now. She has split with me a few times. She always said she didn't really know whether she wanted to be in a relationship. In February, she convinced me that it really was me she wanted t...

My girlfriend is taller than me and I feel very uncomfortable about it.

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

6 July 2007 (M) - Hi. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 4 months now and I love her. However, I have just noticed that she is taller than me. I'm 17 and only about 5'7"ish and I'm really insecure about my height. My girlfriend looks like she is about half an...

I feel hurt and angry that I have to compete with an unobtainable woman from his past who put him second after I've already more than demonstrated my complete commitment to him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 428 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I met over seven years ago. Initially, we had a long-distance relationship and didn't see each other often, although we were very close. When my boyfriend spent longer in the UK, we committed to a relationship and discussed the ...

It's only a matter of time until we will have to move it up a level and to be honest I'm really scared because I don't have a clue what I'm doing when it comes to foreplay.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - I'm 17 and I've just started going out with my boyfriend who is 19. The thing is I am about as unexperienced as it gets. We kissed last Saturday and have done since but I don't think he knows that it was my first kiss. He said I was really good ...

How do I know if I really love him or if it is just a convenient way for me to have a house and live closer to my job.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - I have been with my other for 5 years. We now have a kid together. I have left my boyfriend on 3 different occasions in the past years. We are being civil now since the last break in March - how do I know if I really love him or if it is just a ...

I love them both and don't know what to do about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - Well I have a dilemma!!! It started say two weeks ago. My ex-boyfriend's best freiend told me that my ex-boyfriend still loved me and wanted to be with me. I didn't believe until I heard it for myself. Well me and my exboyfriend had a phone ...

I find it very hard to trust him on the internet.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years, but I find it very hard to trust him on the internet... We met each other on a dating site 2years ago and I left my partner to be with him. Things were going well, but I have a bad case of p...

Recently she has started taking things further, she asked me last night if I would do her with a fish!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

6 July 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have a very close relationship and when we first went out we both had a very high sex drive. I would play with all her sex toys with her. We started experimenting with fruit and other shaft looking objects. it kinda turned me ...

According to my friends I should just go round, get all my stuff out, and post keys through letter box.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been having problems recently - he's been backing off because of trust issues, problems with his daughter etc - but we were supposed to be going on holiday this week to sort things out. He backtracked a couple of weeks ag...

I really like him but have no true sense of whether it is just a casual thing for him or if there is any potential in it developing into something more serious.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 4 months now. He is incredibly busy and travels away a lot so we have only actually had 10ish dates. The dates are always great but we never speak or text between then and I generally initiate the meeting up. I really ...

My boyfriend and I haven't had sex but I'm scared I could be pregnant cause my period is 3 days late.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I haven't had sex but I'm scared I could be pregnant cause my period is 3 days late. I've heard you can get pregnant from rubbing against each other or even if say some of his semen from giving him a hand job accidently ends up near ...

He's been great towards me after cheating in the past but how can I ever learn to trust him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - Let's say you have been with someone for many years. You can tell he loves you because of his actions. He treats you the way a man in love treats his lady, but in the past he did cheat on you and now he is trying fix his ways to win you back. But ...

It all seemed like a wonderful dream, now it's turning into a nightmare.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - Did I overreact? I've been with my boyfriend for seven weeks but because he lives quite far away we've only seen each other seven times. When we do meet it's only for a night and a bit of the morning as our work shifts clash. He told me he loved me ...

I have a boyfriend, but have always had something with this other guy, like a weird connection.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 426 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - There is this guy. He has been my friend since we were 6 years old say. We always played about and flirted when younger. He always came round to see me and my parents regularly. He has recently gone to uni and come back with a new girlfriend ...

I am with another guy, but still have strong feelings for my ex, but I'm not sure if he feels the same and I don't want to make a big mistake.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 429 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - I split up with an ex 3 years ago, since then we have been seeing other people. Although we aren't together he still texts me occasionally. I am with another guy, but still have strong feelings for my ex, but I'm not sure if he feels the same and I ...

I've started seeing this guy and I really like him but there's one problem, his best friend is my ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 429 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - I've started seeing this guy and I really like him but there's one problem, his best friend is my ex. He finished with me three weeks ago and told me to move on so I have and I'm dating his best friend but they're falling out over me and I'm being ...

Not sure if I'm ready for marriage and kids with this guy! Does that make me weird?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - I don`t know whether I am in love with my boyfriend. I dont know whether I am in love with my boyfriend , I think I love him. We firstly moved in together when we were just mates and he kept asking me out and asking me out and I said no unti...

Are her e-mail 'kisses' ..a true sign she fancies me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

6 July 2007 (M) - I really fancy a female colleague of mine, and we have been flirting quite strongly for a couple of months now. The other day we exchanged email addresses and the other night i sent her a mail, and at the end of what i wrote i put a kiss next to my ...

What do I do about this flirty 14 year old girl, who has a crush on me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

6 July 2007 (M) - ok im 17, im a start senior year after this summer, but i have a friend who ran track with me, one day her sister met me, and well she's really into me. shes going to be a freshmen after this summer. so makes her 14. i like her and she knows and she ...

I'm in love with someone who is very overweight and won't try to lose it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - What do I do if the person I'm in a serious relationship with, desiring marriage mostly on their part, is 135+ lbs overweight and despite my encouraging request to my significant other to lose weight and eat healthier has done almost nothing, if ...

I have a hard time trusting people so does my bf want me or just the sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - do my boyfriend really cares deeply about and love me. are just wanting to have sex with me? it's hard for me to trust people. what should i Do? ...

Why don't I feel so in love I'm gonna burst ALL the time... ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

6 July 2007 (M) - Sometimes I feel so in love with my girlfriend I could burst. Other times I feel like I really can't be arsed. I know that I love her and she's just perfect. But I can't help how I feel. Is expecting to feel "bursty" 100% of the time unreal...

She's 11, and I'm 15! Is this age gap wrong?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 404 days ago

6 July 2007 (M) - Hi.. I'm 15 and I like this girl 5 years younger than me but she's about to turn 11. Well, I know that relationships with an age gap of even 10 years are often accepted, but still I can't seem to decide on what I should do. What I know is, we're ...

Do I stay put or emigrate to be with my bf? What is the best thing to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - I am 35, separated (after 13 years of marriage) and have no children. I have wanted to change career for years and have just taken the plunge now to start on a degree course as I regretted not doing a degree in my late teens / early twenties - many ...

I love my boyfriend but I don't fancy him anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - I love my boyfriend and have been with him for 4 years, but i just dont fancy him anymore. I dont want to leave him i want our relationship to work. Hes sweet and kind and he loves me too. How can i get the desire back for him physically....

Could our relationship work if we started again or is what we had...lost forever?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 429 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - Hi Everyone. Your help is needed - again! My partner and I split up in February after just over 4 years of being together. I have a son (12) from my previous marriage and he has two lads (13 and 17). We didn't live together so the split wasn't ...

He's 34, I'm 21 and still live at home. My parents found out and went proper mental... !

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 428 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - I am a 22 year old who still lives at home with her parents. I met this great guy through a woman that I know (he works for her). He is 34 and that is no issue to me, but when my parents found out, they had a heart attack. They freaked out on me ...

I don't know if he loves me like I love him, advice please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - i emailed my crush and at the end of the email i put love ya and then i checked my email and at the end of his it said love ya 2. but i dont know if he loves me like i love him....

My gf and I can't go a day without arguing! She says being around me makes her angry. What should we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - My girlfriend of 2 years and I have been fighting alot lately. We can't seem to get along and not argue for more than a day. She says lately being around me makes her angry and in a bad mood. I really want this to work but I am not sure on what to ...

We've broken up a couple of times and there's no real spark; should I try once more anyway?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 430 days ago