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Archived questions from: 11 July, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I am a bit perturbed by the fact that she chose to share a flat with one her mates and another guy (male). Am I being petty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

11 July 2007 (M) - Dear cupid, I have been seeing this girl for 2 years now, due to various reasons we cant quite cohabit now, and she needs to move into the city where I live coz she has to finish off her last credits at UNI (where she lived on Uni campus for the p...

Should one end a relationship with old boyfriends, to make a new life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

11 July 2007 (M) - I have a fiancé, and she has had a fair amount of relationships. She still emails and talks to two of them. One she went out with for 7 years, the other one for one summer. It makes me real jealous to know she does it, she doesn’t tell me when she ...

A part of me wants full disclosure about her prior relationships but I don't how to approach it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6138 days ago

11 July 2007 (?) - I've been in a relationship with a great woman for the past two years. We're both in our early 30's. Having been in several relationships, I know she is the one for me. We are compatible in so many ways. We spend a lot nights together staying...

What can I do to help myself relax?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6143 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2.5 years but when he goes out without me, I worry that he will meet someone else. I know that he wouldn't do anything but I just can't relax. Recently he has made excuses to go out with other people ...

Do I break my fiancee's heart and ask him to move out, desperately try to find a way to pay for it, and tell my ex that we can once again be together?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - I am in love with my ex-boyfriend and I know he loves me back, but I am engaged to another man. My ex and I met a couple years ago and dated for nearly a year and a half. He moved to another city after he finished college and I started working....

I really want to have a future with him, but am not quite sure whether it's plausable. Should I discuss it with him, if so how should I approach the subject?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - hey, I've been chatting to this boy for about a month now, and about a week ago, we went out on a date together. We spent the whole night kissing and have since been out again, and arranged to go out again. Everything seems to be going really wel...

Is there hope of saving this? Should I just move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

11 July 2007 (M) - I met a woman online 4 months ago. Our relationship was almost instant. It was very intense and we both felt like we were falling in love. After two months we met face to face and it was great for me but okay for her. A month later we met again. It ...

The new guy shares my interests, but I'm comfortable with the old guy. Who should I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6143 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - me and my on and off live in move out boyfriend of almost four years are off again. i went on a cruise and met a great guy, and even flew back to see him as soon as i got home from vacation. im confused do i stay with the only thing i know, or see ...

How can I learn to trust my boyfriend of 7 months?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6143 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - hey! i have had a boyfriend for over 7 months and we are pretty strong but i have a big issue on not being able to trust him, i ave seen all the people he works with and i get paranoid if he doesnt txt me or works late! i need to stop feelin like ...

After moving away, I flirted with other men. My bf saw photos of it and is now distraught! How can I make it up to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 14 months. We have had an extremely tough time of it- we spent the first 4 months together, fell madly in love, and then I moved away but we decided to stay together. As a result, over the last year ...

Back to square one in getting over my ex after listening to a song she told me to listen to.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

11 July 2007 (M) - I have a problem regarding my ex, basically the backstory is we were together for 7 years, lived together for 2 and two months ago i proposed to her in paris as we had talked about it for years and i felt ready to pop the question, she accepted and ...

I can't control my anger when it comes to my boyfriend! He's cheated on me six times, but I still want to be with him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I had a quarrel. I don't know if i love him still, because i sometimes realize that i've been harsh on him, and i always regret what i've done everytime we're not together. Sometimes I think it's because of the pain he gave me ...

I have a bf, but I have very strong feelings for my female friend. I don't want to detroy relationships or hurt anyone! What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - Ok, im 18 and at uni. Ive had a boyfriend for 6 months who is really great but im not sure if I wanna be with him cos I think ive developed feelings for a friend. I met a girl at uni in September and we got along so well. When we had to move she ...

She asked for a break...but is she stringing me along?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

11 July 2007 (M) - So I'm really confused. About 2 months ago my girlfriend of about a year and a half told me that we needed to take a break. At that time, I was working a lot and going through some roommate issues and I was not really there for her. When we first...

Things arn't as exciting with him as they were with my ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

11 July 2007 (?) - I've been with my current boyfriend for over a year and everyone thinks we are the perfect happy couple. I am lucky as he spoils me and takes me away for romantic weekends etc and you wonder why I'm complaining? My ex was an alcoholic and i ...

I can't stick a relationship past the 3 month mark

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - hi i have a huge problem, i've always dumped a guy before the relationship reaches a three month period. I've been dating this guy who is the most wonderful guy i have ever dated but the problem is, we are reaching 3 months. yesterday i found myself ...

I met a girl through a personal ad and there's 8 years between us; I'm excited but concerned

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

11 July 2007 (M) - Recently,I put a dating ad in the newspaper, and this girl replied who I really seem to like. However there's quite a big age gap. Im 29 and she is only 21. I've not had a girlfriend for 5 years now and have only really had one real relationshi...

Someone told my best friend I fancy him; he said he already knew! What do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - Hey! I have a problem. I finally let one of my friends tell my best guy friend I like him! The problem is when she told him,he didn't say anything other than he already knew! He flirts all the time, like eye contact and smiling at me constantly. ...

Too nervous to ask out the girl I love, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

11 July 2007 (M) - i am going to ask out the girl i love and i don't know how to do it because i always gt too nervous when i try to do it what should i do...

My married colleague and I got close but cooled it so as not to hurt anyone; now I want to move on

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - Thank you in advance to all who respond to this. I became quite close to a guy who I worked with this year. He was married and so both he and I decided to cool everything...I did not want to hurt anyone and neither did he. We have kept up a casual ...

How can I learn to be apart from my boyfriend without it driving me nuts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - i dont know what to do. I have been with my b/f for over 2 years and i think i have changed since meeting him. He is my first serious relationship so i never really got attached to a guy before. But for a long time now--i found myself thinkin...

Which one does he want? Her or me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

11 July 2007 (F) - Me and this this guy been together for two years. I love him and he tells me he loves me but we had a big fall out because he drinks and when he drinks he doesn't know how to handle himself. So I put him out. Then two weeks later we got back ...