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Archived questions from: 16 July, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is the pharmacist interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - hi i am having a little struggle not sure what to think i have been seeing a pharmacist at a drug store and he is showing me he always comes to me right away and always talks and stares in my eyes as we talk about meds that i need just recently he ...

Do you think hes truly afraid of telling me he loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 419 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - He's stopped saying "I love you". I don't know what to think. We're closer than ever. He's never been one to say "I love you" very much- he said it was overused (I knew the bullshit in that statement, but thats another story). I said it first,...

My friend and I both like the same guy and he likes me, not her! Should I go out with him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 99 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - My best friend likes this guy, but he likes me, not her. I like him too. So should I go out with him, or not? My best friend says I can, but I'm not sure......

He said bad things about me behind my back. I like him, but is it worthwhile to clear the air?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - hope i can get help...ok so this guy who is a friend of a friend,told me he likes me and he didnt know but i have had a crush on him for awhile now.so we began talking on the phone and he invited me and my friends to a barbeque at his house.the ...

Why is he reluctant to take me on dates even though he still appears to be very keen on me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - I see a man at a bar every Tuesday and Saturday. His friends tell me he is mad on me and say he tells them to butt out if they try to chat me up. He always takes me on the dance floor to dance to the smoochy dances.He took me out for lunch 2 weeks ...

What does she want? Is she really wanting to be with me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

16 July 2007 (M) - I have a question for you guys. I've met a girl and we've had wonderful times together. Recently she went to a different city for work. We still e-mail each other. In one of her e-mails, she says she is so happy she finally has a friend who will ...

Will he eventually see that he wants a relationship with me? Or should I move on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I were together for 9 months. We are both 17, and it was are first serious relationship. Things were great! But then he started to hang round with some new older mates, because people his age were too ''immature''. Suddenly he would ...

I love him but the sex has waned on my part! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year, and we live together. Everything is fantastic with our relationship, apart from the sex part. When I first started seeing him, I wanted sex with him all the time, it was all I could think about, and ...

I have a bf but is it okay to be friends with this other guy I have a crush on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - Ok, so my boyfriend is away for the summer and yes we are remaining together. The problem is, i went away for a few weeks - gals holiday, and we met these guys that were great fun to hang out with! i found one of them very attractive and although ...

Does he really like me or is this just a friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - I know a guy at work. Although I'm not sure if he likes me. He is white and I am Indian. We get along quite well, although he always teases me, about me liking some weird looking guys. How will I know if he likes me? Is it just a friendship?...

I love her but I worry about her and her guy friend! How do I cope with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

16 July 2007 (M) - Hello. I have been going out with my girlfriend for over 2 years now. We moved in together this past January and things are going well. The thing is I am insecure about the fact that she gets along better with guys and therefore has many guy fri...

I cant stand to see them together and I'm so miserable! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - This guy i liked (who i dumped my boyfriend for) fancied me, but now hes got a new girlfriend and says he doesn't anymore. Shes so beautiful and is everything Im not, I cant stand to see them together and im so miserable at the moment (im on ...

I love here and have been with her for 10 years but I still don't know if she's "the one" and I'm ready for marriage!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

16 July 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly 10 years. We love each other and many things are great. She's made it pretty clear that she's more than ready to make the commitment of marriage, and I'm not denying that that's where we might head, ...

Dated 2 men but now I'm wondering--did I choose the wrong guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - i was casually seeing two guys,but iv just started dating the guy who is the same age as me,21, and he's a lovely guy and we have lots in common but there not much of a spark, the other guy is 33,we have fun and he makes me laugh and i get him out ...

I'm 16..is it right to date a 14 year old girl?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

16 July 2007 (M) - I like this girl and she likes me but I am 16 and 17 in october and she is 13 going to be 14 in september. I always thought that 2 years gap for my age is ok, but i really like her and i dont know what to do!!! I know that i will get alot of ...

Since the abortion in January I think my character has changed: I feel insecure about EVERYTHING

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - Help! I had an abortion in January, after getting pregnant by my first ever boyfriend who I was - and still am - madly in love with. We both got through it, mainly by keeping it top secret from everyone apart from my parents, who paid for the ...

He showers me with compliments and tells me I'm his one and only.. and it all seems a bit much. Maybe it's because I've never been treated like that before and I'm finding it hard to believe. Please help me sort this out.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - I have a problem. It's not a big problem but I just need a bit of advice. I've just got together with this bloke, he's 18 and I'm 16. The age doesn't bother me but I think it bothers him a little. We have only been together for about 3 days and he ...

I do really love my boyfriend but if I loved him that much I wouldn't have feelings for other guys right? I'm so confused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - Hey, I cheated on my boyfriend with another lad. I feel so bad, it's just my boyfriend spends too much time with other girls and for this one night this lad paid me attention and made me feel like it was only me and him in the world, sounds stupid ...

My 11 year old son disrespects me - now my partner said he will not sleep over when my son spends the night because of it!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - Im wondering what to do, ive been in a relationship for 16 months with a man i love very much, ive got a son who's 11 from a previous relationship, my partner has his own house but stays at mine most of the time, he's recently told me that he was ...

He doesn't show me his love the way I need him to show me! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 4 about 2 1/2 years. Im very in love with him but he doesnt take me or the relationship seriously.He doesnt pay enough attention to my needs and I have emotional needs.I know he loves me but he doesnt show me ...

When we aren't together he acts like he isn't interested in our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of 1 year has recently started to neglect our relationship. When we are together he is like his usual self though and everything is so good. But I hate it when we arent together because it's like he isnt interested. What will I do?...

He says he loves me and doesn't love his girlfriend (who he has three kids with) anymore - but he hasn't left her yet!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - im 25 with 3 children and have been seein a man for 4 years he has kids and a girlfriend,he has been telling me since just before xmas that he loves me and doesnt love her anymore wants to be with me but finds it hard to leave cause of his kids, i ...

I am 15 and dating a 27 year old

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 410 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - i am turning 15 and i am dating a 27 yr old i dont know how to tell my parents i really love him...

My unrequited love for him is taking over my life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - i feel so alone and all i have is this pc screen to talk to. i've been separated from my long term partner for 18 months,i wasnt to interested in meeting anyone,but christmas 2006 i met this guy while out one evening with my friend,he kept on at me ...

I am unable to feel 100% emotion, it is like I'm numb, and I am sabotageing potential happiness

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 413 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - I am in such despair as I feel I have such emotional baggage from 14 years in a difficult marriage that now I have the opportunity to be with a good, kind and loving man I'm unable to 'feel' 100% emotion - its like I'm numb. I knew the man I ...

My boyfriend is suspicious of me for no good reason

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - I don't know what to do about my boyfriend. we always have disagreements because if he's stressed or had a bad day he gets really supicious. I don't know if this is because of his depression or his personality. he knows i'm not the type of girl...

We dated on and off; now he has a girlfriend but still acts like he wants me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - Dear whoever will answer this, So I need some major advice. I've dated this guy on and off for a year, and now he has a girlfriend but he still acts like he wants to be with me. He's one of my best friends and I hate the thought of losing him b...

I met him on a forum and really like him; how can I take it further?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - Ok this is kind of complicated so please read through the whole thing. I'm 16 and have never been in a relationship before - I've never even been asked out so I'm really confused as to what I should do. Well there's a forum on the internet tha...

I have low self esteem and I'm afraid to ask girls out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

16 July 2007 (M) - I am rather shy, and I have very poor confidence in myself. I'm the tall,skinny,quiet kid who is good in school, I'm sure you know the type. I'm afraid of asking girls out, and what they would think of me if I did, although I have no problem talking ...

Am I expecting too much even after all this time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now, 3 years ago, we did our OE together, however we have been back in our home town now for over a year, and our relationship doesnt seem to be going anywhere. I dont know whether i am being too high main...

Should I be worried about another girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - i was with my b/f watching tv and i had a movie on for a few seconds and changed it and then he said i thought you liked so and so(he said the name of the movie) and i said umm no..i never saw the movie. And he said oh i thought you said that...i ...

My friend feels like he's been replaced since his best friend got a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

16 July 2007 (M) - A friend of my girlfriend has a problem. We will call him Bob. He has been best friends with a guy for over 10 years. We will call him Joe. They did everything together. Anyway, recently Joe had started dating someone and all of a sudden he doesnt ...

We're not exactly dating but I'm not sure if he really cares for me, he kissed another girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - i have been kinda seeing this lad for 3 years, we are not going out because of the distance! and when we are together we dont go on the pull and that...how ever the other night we went out, everything was fine, i came back fro the bar, and he was ...

I've been burned before... should I try again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

16 July 2007 (M) - im not sure if im being daft but i just want to know peoples opinion. i was with a girl from the age of 16 to 20(still my age). she was 15 when we met and broke up with me when she was 19. i was absolutley gutted, my head really was in a mess. i...