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My parents would freak out if they knew about my 'bad-apple' boyfriend and I, yet I don't want to keep it a secret

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Question - (24 July 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 July 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i really do love this boy even tho i am young! my parents dont like him because he is bad bt they dont no him like i do they just go by what they hear. i am scared to say to them that i have been seeing him for 3 months because they will go of the head. but then i wouldnt be lyeing to them so any 1 got any ideas on what to say to them??? please help i feel sick just thinking about it!!! should i go and see him behind my parents back or should i stop seeing him because my parents dont approve?? sometimes i feel it would be easer to just leave him but its the sex that makes me not want to!! but if i tell my parents they will never trust me again!! But i really do love him!!

help!!!!!

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (24 July 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntThe sex makes you not want leave him...hummmm. I think you should listen to your parents on this one dearie.

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A female reader, lah mouw United States +, writes (24 July 2007):

lah mouw agony auntWell if you love him, you need to do what you think is best. And you need to tell your parents that.. You are you.. and you primarily, know what's best for you. You should talk to your parents about this.. Tell them how you feel about this boy. Tell him they you are their daughter and question them like "shouldn't you be happy..? Because I'm happy." I mean... that's all most parents want. But, you should talk to them... maybe all of you should get together (meaning; including your boyfriend) and tell them how it really is. Because you know what's true... But don't lie to them, don't go behind their backs.. because eventually you'll just be making it worse for yourself and them. If you tell the truth, you will be rewarded. Luck.

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