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writes:I am 18 years old and have yet to have a first kiss let alone a first boyfriend. I do feel really bad about it especially since most of my friends have fwb's and hookup buddies.I wanted to wait until I have a boyfriend to have my first kiss, but I'm beginning to think I should just get it over with.What advice can you give me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (24 October 2011):
 I think you have to figure out deep down what you really want.
You can go out there and have meaningless sex, kisses and hook ups or you can take the time to find the guy you really want to share this with.
I just don't see the point of doing it, JUST to do it. At least not on a deeper level.
And jsut because everyone else is doing it, does it mean you HAVE to do it as well? DO what's right for YOU. Screw the lemmings!
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx  +, writes (24 October 2011):
 I can tell you now having your first kiss with someone you love (or atleast someone you fancy) will be an all together better expierence than just kissing a stranger.
Please don't be put off because all your friends have fwbs and hookup buddys its ovbious that you want to save yourself for your first boyfriend so keep to what you want.
If you want to get a boyfriend then you have really got to get out there and find yourself one, go out to clubs or even join a dating site if your kinda insecure or shy then try and work gradually to get over that simpley by meeting new people.
Try and really let go and just be yourself if you go out and catch a boy looking at you smile at them and even go and talk to them, im sure if you really get out there then you can find a boyfriend you have got to remember sometimes love won't come to you you have to find it.
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reader, Claraw1  +, writes (24 October 2011):
 Hi, I know how you feel as I didn't have my first kiss until I was 21 years old. It was frustrating and I felt like I was the last girl left who hadn't been kissed, so I just "got it over with" and it was the worst experience of my life. I regretted it for a long time and still do a little, I wish I had waited. I didn't get my first boyfriend until i was 24 years old, and I was glad that I waited until I met someone who I wanted to be with. It is hard and you do feel as though maybe you should just get it over with, but honestly it is better to wait until you find someone whom you care about and can share that first with, so you won't regret it. just keep reminding yourself that you are special and you are worth more than just giving it away. Good luck.
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reader, theaviator +, writes (24 October 2011):
I know exactly how u feel. I say get it over with. It's not like your sleeping with anyone.
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