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writes:I met "busy bee" a year ago, we hit it off right away and the chemistry was just wow. at first he seemed excited i was excited he was my first of everything, my first real explosive kiss, we connected!! we would link up here and there, I thought he had lost interest but he would just pop up out of no where and back in my life and then he would disappear like a magician. this would be on going but we wouldnt go more than 2 weeks without speaking. i call him busy bee because he is truly all over the place working, and having side jobs and being involved in so many other things (trust me im not making an excuse everyone that knows him says the same) but I knew and accepted this amd i wasnt looking for a relationship. everything was going great till one day after one of his performances, where i was informally introduced to his mom, he sent me the greatest text saying how much he appreciated my presence and then new years came and he was gone, he texted me here and there until one day i deleted him from life thinking that would help me get over him. it didnt but just like a magician he came back around 3 months later and popped up again.i was stunned i couldnt believe he came back because none of the other men i've had in my life ever did .. he texts me at random and said he wanted to see me but never does yet hes sending me text saying how he still looks at me as more than a friend. i know hes the one with an issue here but i dont want to give up cause for some crazy reason i believe what we have is real. i've met other guys and tried to work it with the others but it never works out something always goes wrong. so its not like im waiting around for busy bee. what do you suggest.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (25 October 2011):
 Have you told him to stop playing you like a yo-yo?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBlocking him doesnt work, he knows how to get in contact with me, we have mutual friends and he knows my family. I have tried moving on and sort of have and I accept that this is the way he is, I will be changing my number soon switching providers not because of him. Thank u for ur advice I'll keep trying to move on I'm sure something will come my way, I know my worth but I believe in being open hearted if I'm wrong then so be it
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 October 2011):
I agree with Honeypie. This is who this man is, and there's no real way that he'll change. You can either accept that this is all you mean to him, or you can realize that you can do better and just move on.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (24 October 2011):
You either accept that THIS is how it is or you tell him you back off, block his number and move on.
He is not going to change any time soon, this seems to work well for him.
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