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She seems to be using me to break up with other guys, does she really need me? Or is she messing me around?

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Question - (24 October 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 October 2011)
A male United Arab Emirates age 26-29, anonymous writes:

i met a beautiful girl at a family party at someones house one night.....then on, my life changed. We facebook each other to the extreme and like it alot. I love her company on fb and we flirt quite alot as well. The problem is.....she was in a relationship with a guy for 3 years until he moved countries....then it didnt work out for them much. When she got into fight with her ex bf....she made me pretend that i was her bf to make him jealous and we used to do lots of crazy stuff. Since they both dont get along with each other anymore, we have become quite close to each other, phone calls everyday etc. Apparently, over the past few days she has been in a new relationship with a guy in her school (she claims that she wasnt very intent to be in this relationship).

Now she wants to break up with him for freedom but shez afraid of doing so because her bf threatens her that he would just go to her house and tell her parents everything. She is now turning to me to help her break this relationship. However on facebook, they both seem to get along well and she looks happy with the relationship....but then again he complains to me. Im really starting to like her.....i dont know whats the truth....does she really need me? or is she just playing around? what do i do?........

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A male reader, shameless United States +, writes (24 October 2011):

shameless agony auntYou are being used pal. She is not interested in you or in anyone but herself. Stay away from that girl, if not you will be hurt, stay drama free buddy.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (24 October 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntshe sounds very drama laden... she already used you to make her boyfriend jealous... such game playing....

and this boy she' wants to break up with.... he says he will tell her parents everything... what is everything?

after a few days what could he possibly have to tell about her?

Personally I think you need to evaluate if this drama is worth it.. what happens when she tires of you or fight with you?

will you ever feel secure with her?

will you trust her not to do to you what she did to her then boyfriend with you?

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