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writes:So I recently am going through a break that happened about 2 months ago or so. I was with this girl for about 8 months and I still miss her. The other night I got drunk (yes stupid) and texted her. I guess I just wanted to text her when I was sober but never really got the courage. Anyways, we don't talk at all so it was kinda random. She responded with "why are you still texting me?" She knew I was drunk but I just played it off. I just told her I wanted to know how she been and stuff. And she told about hows she been and stuff without a problem. And then she told me "and I met a nice guy." obviously that got me upset but i responded with "aw thats cute. thats good to hear." and after that she didn't me back. When she said "and i met a nice guy" is that her way of trying to get me trying to get me jealous? or another way of saying please leave me alone? It kinda got me thinking and for about a good hour or so I was really upset (next morning) Now it kinda bugs me a lil but not as much. So what did she mean by "and i met a nice guy"
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (24 October 2011):
 I think she's moved on and so should you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2011): Sorry to hear man but you need to go no contact with her and just try and move on and learn more about yourself in the process. You might be able to get back together but it's a long shot. If you need a good book to help you out with all this I'd check out http://www.truthfulreviews.net/get-your-ex-back/
Good Luck!
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (24 October 2011):
 It means she has moved on and you need to delete her number and move on as well.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (24 October 2011):
Well judging by the, "Why are you texting me?" comment and the addition of "and I met a nice guy" pretty much means it's over. I think usually if a girl wants to make a guy jealous she'll find a way to contact him and just mention that she met someone else. But by what you described about your text convo...sounds like she's moved on. But hopefully this will help you move on as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2011): i would take it she wants you to leave her alone. most would not want to go back having been told that.
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reader, natasia  +, writes (24 October 2011):
 Sorry but she meant she has moved on and now she is with someone else, so if you can't handle that, don't contact her, but if you can, ok. For all she knows, you might be with someone else. You might have replied 'Oh, that's good. Actually, I have met someone as well.' - and that would leave things open for the two of you to be friends. But since she has someone and you don't, probably best for you to leave well alone.
Sorry, as this is hard to take at the moment, but it will get better. It always does. Find someone else.
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