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writes:So this guy like at work have been giving me a ride two times (cuz I don't have a car on campus and i have to walk to work and to my classes) The last time he offered I said no thanks. (i felt bad bc he has to drive me)he was like r u sure? and then i was like ok, i feel bad. He ended up giving me a ride but that was the last he offered me. Did I screw up? I mean I like the guy!! I turned him down cuz i felt bad for him bc he has to take me, but hey he offered right....wtf was wrong with me?? So now i have walk to my classes, while he just passed me by. What should I do now? I mean we're just friends/coworkers. I mean i can tell that we are attracted to each other; however,he's taken. So should ask him for a ride next time? I'm scared and nervous that he's gonna say no.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (16 October 2011):
 The guy was just being nice and offering a ride. Did you offer him any gas money since he was kind enough to drive you around??
Just because he offered you a ride, doesn't mean he was trying to get with you. He probably didn't offer you any more rides, because you haven't given him gas money. Or maybe he's was busy, and didn't have time to give you a ride. There's no telling. The guy is taken.
How about you save up enough money for a car?
I wouldn't ask him for a ride again, unless you have money to give him for gas.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2011): Let it go. He is taken. He is not open game for you to be going after. He was offering a ride as a friend. Youre reading too much into this. I have given many friends rides and not because I like them or want to be with them but because its nice to do. He stopped offering because you made it clear it makes you feel bad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2011): He is taken? So , u like him as a friend. Then no big deal, just say hi, may be jokingly say why no more rides. But if he is taken, no real flirting should be going on.
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