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Was his non-reply a sign to stop?

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Question - (25 May 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 May 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Okay I like this guy, but he doesn't know me. He actually knows my sister's boyfriend. While we was texting he asked to see a picture. I sent the cutest picture in my phone. I'm really not ugly okay. So he said he couldn't see my face I was told to say Well look harder there is a zoom. Now that I read over the text I really see that was harsh to say. Any who after that he didn't text me back. I'm wondering should I text him hi or something. I'm scared though because what if the text non-reply was a sign that he didn't want to talk to me. What should I do because I really like him?????

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2011):

To be honest if someone replied to me like that, i would think they were rather vain and sarcastic.

If i SENT a text like that, i would send another and explain i was checking texts before deleting. And it occurred to me that my first text didn't sound jokey when it was meant to be! I'd say sorry, do a smiley face and wait to see what happened. If he replies then hes interested. If you hear nothing back then you know to move.

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (25 May 2011):

Jmtmj agony auntText him to say hi and ask a question so that he's inclined to reply. No response after 2 days and yeah, that's your cue that he's not interested.

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A female reader, SweetSmoochy United States +, writes (25 May 2011):

SweetSmoochy agony auntGo ahead and text him hi. Be maybe a little extra sweet (not over kill) and he will dismiss any thoughts he may have had of the harsh text.

Guys really don't over analyze what people say like girls do. Chances are, he just had to go do something. Keep your cool, relax, and, yes, go ahead and text him hi.

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