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Archived questions from: 4 July, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I don't have her number, should I ask her out on facebook?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - Hello everyone, Well I have a small problem... I'd like to ask this girl I know out but I don't have her number. I met her at my college and I think she's a real nice girl. The only way I have contact with her is facebook. We have had a couple con...

I'm crushing on a co-worker!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4682 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Why do I feel this way about a guy i don't even know;)? am new at my workplace. and theres this gorgeous guy there, my first day i saw him i was like "oh my God hes nice" ive been there for 2weeks now and we work well together, he always come...

Girls like jerks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - My friends told me that girls usually dump nice guys that's why my ex dumped me and I should become jerk. Is it true that girls don't like nice guys?...

Am I being neglected or am I being too clingy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Hi, i have an amazing boyfriend. he is also my first boyfriend; we been together for 5 months and everything is going wonderfully, however due to his uni course, he has to spend one month on a site doing archaeological digging. Hes busy from 9 u...

He said I was playing games but I really do like him and I want him back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - I feel really silly doing this but I don't no what else to do.. Sooo here it goes. I work part time as a barmaid in my local pub, and Friday just gone I worked a late shift as we had a big family reunion party in the Pub, and all night long a guy ...

I went for her sister and it didn't work; will she give me a chance?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - After a checking this girl out for some time I decided it was time to approach her. I walked up to her and asked her out to lunch and she seemed excited and agreed to it. Her mum was standing close by so I said i wouldn't take her number there and...

Overbearing Mother is coming between my 2 year relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - My mom is having a problem with my boyfriend. We've been together for two years, and for the first couple of months of dating I was too afraid to introduce them because my mom doesn't really approve of me dating outside my race. Any who they m...

Could it be possible he picked up genital-warts over 3 years ago?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - HELLPP! Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years and last month we found out he has genital warts. I don't have them and now I'm paranoid he has cheated on me. He is the love of my life and I don't want to put him through me grilling him if ...

Does a girl notice when you suddenly stop communication with her? When you talked to her almost every day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - This girl and I really liked each other. We were considering dating, until she saw her ex, and had an emotional breakdown. So I said I'd back off the dating topic altogether. We still talked over Facebook. She IM'd me every night and we still sky...

Reasons I can't move in with my controlling boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, soo I've been dating my boyfriend for two and a half years. We both know we want each other in our future but today he asked me if I wanted to MOVE IN TOGETHER AND START LOOKING FOR A PLACE! And it scared me for some reason, I did feel ...

Should I tell her how I feel and risk the outcome?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4683 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - Hi, I met this gal at my work place last year but we never talked just normal greetings. About some weeks we got talking and somehow got close but nothing serious happen b/n us because, I'm the shy type and never had any serious girlfriend. So I ...

I get the feeling he likes me but I am worried I could be reading too much into this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4683 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Just want your thoughts on this. I like my friend's brother and I think he feels the same. He's about 5 years younger, met him a few times at social gatherings and just a bit confused. Last saw him at friend's bbq and did catch him looking at m...

He thinks a relationship will distract him....should I let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm confused. There's this guy who I have known since high school. He apparently liked me back then, even though I had a boyfriend and I hardly noticed him. Fast forward four years...I ran into him through a mutual friend's party th...

Korean girlfriend ends things just when I'm ready to tell her I'll go to Korea with her!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - I met this Korean girl a little over a month ago. We started dating, everything was going great. After a couple of weeks she mentioned that she will have to return to Korea in October because her Visa will expire. I thought it over quite a bit...

Does he like me? Or is it that he's moved into my city and is trying to get familiar with the surroundings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Hello Cupid! Several months ago, my female cousin phoned me about her friend whose brother needed a friend/tour guide when he moves to Atlanta in June/July. She said he was offered a job and wanted to attend school here while living with thei...

How can I be sure if I am in the friend zone or not? I really want to ask her out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4683 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - Alright so there is this girl i had met at university who i really liked and coincidentally she lived in the room next to mine in residence so we got to know one another by the end of the year. So here is my problem, for most of the school year she ...

With no money.....how will I be able to change things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - This might a little long and at some point nonsensical... This is the first time i ever write what's really on my mind and it's also the first time i express myself honestly and with no strings attached. I should mention however that i am not a US...

17 and never been kissed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - This is really lame. I'm seventeen and I've never kissed a guy. It's not that I haven't had the opportunity, I just want it to mean something. I've started kind of seeing this guy, and obviously we're going to have to kiss sometime soon. I ...

How do I get the man I want and let the other one down gently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4683 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - i met this man 4 month ago, he stayed with me for the first week we met then we saw each other at least 3 or 4 times a week, but then he kept asking me if we could be sex budddies. i said no i deserved better and he understood. we didnt speak for 6 ...

Why do I fall for guys easily?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4683 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Why do i fall for guys easily? i met this guy from a friend and i immediately agreed to be his gf and then the next day we met and i had sex with him. When i went home my dad got angry and learned that i went out on a date and grounded me so i never ...

What should I do? I'm doing things I normally wouldn't do and wouldn't agree with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - I'm involved with a married man who's still with his wife. we have a 1 years old baby we've been apart for 10 months because he lied about being married and I couldn't take him getting his cake and eating it too. But now we've been back together on ...

I'm hopelessly in love with a guy that doesn't love me back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - I'm hopelessly I'm love with this guy. He's one of my closet fit friends, even though I don't see him that much anymore. He's like my brother and I'm like his sister. Iv been in love with him for 2 years but he's realy hot so he has girls typifying ...

Girls like jerks and reject the nice guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - I posted this a week ago but didn't get any replies. So I am trying again today cause I want some advise. I m really down. After being dumped by my gf of 4 years for another guy 5 months ago and after most of the healing process, when I tried to ...

This guy is the opposite of the type of man my parents want me to date!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4684 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - I'm 18, just finished my first year in college and during that year, I met this amazing guy that really cares for me. He's such a great person and the first person to be so introspective and concerned about me. I've met his dad and brother, but he ...

My girl friend is worrying me. What can I do to stop her doing all these exhibitionist risky things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I weve been with each other for about 7 months now were both in year 9. we have had a few break ups but we love each other! i wanted to ask a quite important question,my girlfriend has quite a lot of boy mates which i know a few of ...

If you are not beautiful? Beauty is so useless. Why do people give such a damn about it?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - I hate my body and can't accept it! let's just say that my body looks nothing like the 36-24-36 ideal of the media. And sure people say that it's the inside that matters but people are so hypocritical! Especially men! Because they say they want a ...

Help! I can't find the right words! How can I maintain a lot of online contact with him successfully?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Hello Agony Aunts, Uncles, cousins, sisters, brother, etc. Please help! I have been in a relationship with a really sweet guy for about a month now and we'd been good friends awhile before, and we drive each other crazy and talk for hours and get on ...

Partying with my Girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4683 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - Im a high school student and ive been with my girlfriend for 4 mouths and im really in to her shes got a sexy body and loves me like me crazy and says she could see us lasting for a long time and says we should have sex soon (and were both vergins) ...

What makes her tick? She's not demonstrative in public. In private all she wants to do is cuddle

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4684 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - I'm honestly not complaining. I love the feeling of cuddling with my girlfriend on the couch. I'd just like to know why exactly she might like it so much. However, she seems to prefer to do that more than anything else, and though I've offered to ...

Am I smothering her? Need some tips please on how to handle my new love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4684 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - Hi there. My girlfriend and I only recently started dating and this is the first proper relationship I've even been in. Because of that, I'm worried that I'm perhaps doing too much too early in the relationship. So far, I've written her a le...

Why me? What is it with girls who want to cheat and then want to start again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4684 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - I have been in a relationship with this girl for 6 months on and off we first got together on a party night. We had our fun and that was it. Then we met about a month later and we seemed to be quite right for each other. At least that's how i felt...

Can a girl like me just because of my personality, please help me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - I've always thought that looks are perhaps 90% and personality is just there like bonus points, so I never thought a good looking girl would ever seriously like me. To break it short though: I met my cousin's cousin (my age) and she seemed to like ...

If we do get back together, does it mean we won't have the exceptional chemistry we had earlier?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4683 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Dear Aunties, I have recently broken-off a two-year relationship, so I'm in no hurry to get involved with a new guy. That being said, I have started to wonder if an ex is considering trying it again with me. I'd be all for it if it's not too soo...

Why is he like this now? it's like he cant be bothered with me, which is confusing

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4684 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - My ex and I got back together 3 week ago (we split last time because of distance) he said things would go back to how they used to be. however, we havent done one thing that we used to do last time. He's never got time for me. he is either working,...

Haven't met anyone as good as my summer love. Is it worth the time to try and start anything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4683 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - i really liked a guy last summer, we hung out a few times, then i went to school. this summer, we've been talking a lot more and we're getting pretty close. but fall time is coming and we're going to different colleges. Is it worth the time to ...