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Archived questions from: 27 July, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Help! I am failing for my FWB partner...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Hi I have a friends with benefits thing going on with a friend..we full around once in a while.. I try not to meet up with everytime he calls.. Due to that I'm getting emotional attached to him.. I haven't really opened up to him of my feelings.. ...

I'm lost and confused please help. any advice will help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - My ex and I broke up on new years eve, ever since then he is been going back and forth. He would start seeing a girl they see right through him the she split he would come back to me. one time he was dating this girl we both work with and then ...

He said he was an accident but why was he hiding my little girls underwear in his closet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Hey all. I really need some input. Last November...of 2010, my ex was at work. We were together (in relationship) at the time. Something happened while he was at work, to make me want to search his apartment. Can't recall exactly what it was, but ...

How do I "wow" my fiance' again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - So my fiance' works a lot. I mean... A lot. 80 hours this week. Just this week. He comes home and he is tired.. In which case I do understand. When we first met, I was 80 pounds heavier than I am now, and he says that he loves my body.. and maybe ...

I love him more than anything, but he's not right for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4659 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend (Let's call him Jeremy) and I have been dating for over 10 months now. We've liked each other since we first met, and we'd been best friends for 3 years before we even started dating, because he was dating another girl during those ...

I love him but he can't seem to keep a job...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4657 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - I'm currently in a long distance relationship for almost a year and a half. I'm 25, he's 26. We have both decided to save some money in our current jobs, get things together and then move in together. Originally we thought he would move to where I ...

Her 16 year old son is ruining our relationship. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

27 July 2011 (M) - after 2 and a half years of dating my girlfriend tells her 16 year old son that lives whith his dad about us and he flips out and tells her if she does not break it off with me he will mever hav anything to do with her again. now she says she has ...

How can I get my boyfriend text me more and become romantic again without sounding needy or clingy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Hello there.... I've been with my boyfriend for almost two months now...In the beginning, he was the most affectionate and romantic person in the whole world! He would kiss me and hug me all the time which I really enjoy since I'm very affectionat...

Is my boyfriend's mother too clingy or am I being over sensitive??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year now, he's 20 and I'm 18. He's just about to start his third year at University and I'm about to start my first University year in the same city. He's an only child, and his parents had him quite la...

Both me and my crush are shy, what's the best approach to take?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Hello :) Basically I really like this guy, but he's SO shy. I'm pretty shy too, but i like him so much that I've tried to just sort of go for it. I've dropped some hints so I'm sure he knows i like him, but I think he's too shy to make the first ...

Is this a possible date? Could a relationship come from this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

27 July 2011 (M) - How's everyone doing. I'm 18 yrs old and live in the US. For about 4-6wks I've been/ met this girl who at first I wasn't much attracted to both physically and personality wise. And in the first week or so of meeting her my feelings for her started ...

Is it ok for 17 y/o to date a 15 /yo??

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27 July 2011 (F) - Is it ok for a 17 year old (like me ) to date a guy whos almost 15?......

How do I tell him I don't want anything from him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4660 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - There is this guy that I have know forever. He likes to party a lot and all the girls he has gone out with always end up without him. I have had a crush in him for years now but nothing every happened between us. I recently came out of a ...

I havent had sex in 2 years and scared of getting emotionally attached....should I go for it anyway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4660 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Ok so me and an old friend got in contact through facebook.. We've talked met up a couple of times.. Well I remember I used to have the biggest crush on him.. He was even my first kiss back when we were in our teens.. Well we're older now and we ...

Does he like me or am I getting tricked?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - A really popular guy is always saying hi to me and asking me how I am and he asked me if I wanted to do something with him when my friend left. He's got some friends who are super-popular and i'm a nerd. Is it possible he likes a nerd or is he ...

Would you enter a relationship knowing it would have to end?

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27 July 2011 (M) - Hello, My question is: Would you enter into a short-term romantic relationship knowing it would have to end? I ask because I have seen people do this with no problem and I can't do it and am wondering if maybe I am missing out. At summer cam...

Should I be specific and let him know that I'm looking to finish what we started the other night, sexually?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Went out with a guy twice (but kind of knew him through mutual friends before that). First time, he was a perfect gentleman and only hugged me at end of night. A few days later, he invited me impromptu to hang out at his house w/a few guy friends ...

Should I hold back my feelings out of fear?

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27 July 2011 (F) - I desperately want to tell him my feelings but I hold back out of fear of rejection. I am afraid that he doesn't feel as strongly about me as i do about him. We have never expressed our love but i feel his actions show otherwise. He is married ...

Since he confessed he loves me he has backed off! What is going on here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4660 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - hey, a guy recently confessed that he has been in love with me for around four years and that he never had the guts to ask me out because i was in a relationship during that period. the guy is very cute and i just cant get how he has loved me for s...

Do emo boys go for non-emo girls?

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27 July 2011 (F) - I'm not emo and find some emo boys attractive. Do you think straight emo guys would go for a non-emo girl?...

How many months should pass after a serious relationship ended before a new relationship is not consider a rebound?

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27 July 2011 (F) - So almost everybody tends to have a rebound relationship after a serious relationship ends...my question is, how many months should pass after a serious relationship(Like 1-2 yrs relationship)ended before a new relationship is not consider a ...

I'm pregnant and want a family but BF doesn't want to get married, although he says he loves me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4661 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend always said that he loves me, that i'm the girl he wants to be forever with but he doesn't want to get married, now i'm pregnant and he still doesn't want to get married. Honestly i feel he's never going to change his mind and i really ...

Does he like me? Or am I getting "played"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4661 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - There's this guy. I like him and we hooked up when we were drunk. Instead of us becoming awkward though, we started talking more and got to know each other. I've told him before that I think he was a "player" but after a lengthy discussion, I took ...

How can I help my sister deal with her BF and a potential LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4645 days ago

27 July 2011 (M) - My sister's bf decided that he wants to move away to place A which is in state X. He is from place B which is in state Q. He felt that he was unable to accomplish anything in state Q and he has expressed how sick he was of this state and the people ...

Am I wrong in thinking that we're too far along in this relationship to play hot & cold "thrill of the chase" games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Still negotiating through my 1st relationship (9 months so far). Here's the situation: I adore my boyfriend. I love him and love to take care of him--I want him to succeed in life, to feel loved and cared for, to realize the potential he has. ...

Is he breaking up with me? Does he just want a break? Is he waiting for me to respond?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together four and a half years. We had a huge fight last week (about a lot of little things, both of us wanting attention, affection, more time together, etc.) and he told me to give him his house key back and he threw...

I was mad and cheated on her, but now her family and friends hate me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

27 July 2011 (M) - My ex and I got into a fight while we were still dating and I was mad and cheated on her. I felt horrible and told her about it the very next day. She was mad and we broke up. A few weeks later we got back together and I cheated again. This all ...

How do I talk about sex with a man who was sexually abused by his father?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

27 July 2011 (?) - Dear Cupid, I am dating a guy that told me he had been sexually abused by his dad. I knew he didn't have a great relationship with his family, but he brought it up in a strange context. We were in bed after he had stopped me from going down on ...

I'm having second thoughts about moving in with my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been planning on moving in for a couple of months. Last month two of his friends asked him to stay with him for a while until he was. They're a couple. He allowed them to move in but did not tell me. He said it was a short ...

How long do you think a guy waits to pop the question?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Ok so I am 20 years old and my bf is 25, we have been together for a year and a few months. We both love each other a lot and we have made it a point to include each other in our separate lives since we started dating. I know all of his family and ...

It's really hard to spend time with my bf because his roommate always tags along

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - my boyfriend is bestfriends with his college roommate they are going to be Jr.s this year and have been rooming together every year and both summers they take every class together, and join all the same activities if one jumps the other jump...

My boyfriend is really self-concious?

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27 July 2011 (F) - So the other day, I asked my boyfriend to wear a t-shirt I liked. He agreed, but instead of changing shirts in front of me, he went into the washroom and put it on then came back out. I've never seen him without a shirt, but I didnt realize he...

I don't want my parents to know I lied to them about my boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Okay, so I broke up with my ex a few months ago. We'd been on and off since fourth grade, and i still like him Some people told me he was spreading rumors about me, but he said otherwise. I was upset, and didnt want to break up with him just because ...

Do I tell my boyfriend how badly depressed I am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - We've been going out for awhile, but he's not used to me sharing emotional issues. Or knowing how to comfort them. I appear happy and normal to him. Inside, my depression is very severe. When we dont see each other, it's even worse. I feel...

Is it weird that my friends and family think my girlfriend is perfect, but I don't?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4661 days ago

27 July 2011 (M) - ok, so my everyone thinks my girlfriend is perfect. they all think she is smart,funny,nice and beautiful, the problem is i'm not so sure. i find a lot of the things she does annoying, i mean sometime i really think i like her, but other times im not ...

I am starved for in depth conversations?

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27 July 2011 (F) - I really like my boyfriend. Physically, we have good chemistry. But conversation wise, I cannot get him to talk extensively. He is so quiet, I have to drag conversations out of him everytime I feel like discussing something.And the problem is, Im ...