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Archived questions from: 11 July, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I need some opinions on whether I am being used by my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - Hey, I need some opinions on whether I am being used by my bf...I feel like I am at the moment, but need some perspective. We've been together 7 months, don't live together, both work shifts, full time. But I find myself feeling used by him at ...

Alone and pregnant???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - I've been seeing someone for around 2 weeks now and there is a chance i may be pregnant already, however we have used contraception each time and i am going to take a home pregnancy test tomorrow to be sure, i need to get a chance to tell him that ...

Do I have a right to be morally offended by the way people are reaction to my display of affection to my boyfriend over the internet???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - I was on facebook and posted on my wall about how happy I am and how I think i am even more in love with my boyfriend then before.. the problem is all of his friends are commenting on it and saying thinks "like how is that possiable" and "I want ...

He's telling people on Facebook our problems!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, If a couple is supposed to or better yet, if a couple SHOULD keep whatever happens between them, wouldn't that include not chatting about your problems to other people on Facebook? Yesterday, me and my boyfriend had several pretty s...

Would it bother you if your gf called you by the same pet name she called her ex-bfs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

11 July 2011 (M) - ok maybe some of you will think this is a stupid question but it bothers me to no end somehow. this girl i have been dating for a while now has a pet name for me. the pet name is (dont laugh please) babykins. yes i am serious. anyway, when s...

Did my hymen break again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - This is a really really weird question and everyone I've asked doesn't have any clue! Today I had sex with my new boyfriend for the first time. I was quite sexually active with my last boyfriend so it wasn't my first time. HOWEVER, when havi...

Scared my boyfriend's parents won't me because of my parents divorce!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4670 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - My bf of 3 years had decided to tell his parents about me and he plans to introduce me to his family. He has already told them about me and my family situation. My parents are divorced for about 3 years now and that is a problem for his parents. ...

What should I get my girl to show her I've missed her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

11 July 2011 (M) - Well, my girlfriend and I have been together for four months. She went on a road trip across the country for two months and a I haven't seen her since. She gets back in September...and I want to surprise her with something, Like a gift...but I don't ...

I don't know what I want, and I don't think he does either

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - I have just gone through a divorce after 16 years of marriage. I met this guy that is also going through a divorce. We started talking for a couple of months. We had a good relationship then we had a argument and things never went back to how they ...

My GF wants me to remove a tattoo from my chest which spells my late sister's name, because my ex had the same name, and my GF doesn't want to be reminded of my ex!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4670 days ago

11 July 2011 (M) - My twin sister died a few years ago in a car accident. I was really affected by her death. She wasn't just my sister but my best friend. I got a tattoo of her name on my chest so that she'll always be next to my heart. I have been seeing a...

What do women think of past FWBs'? Does he fade from memory? Do you just fondly remember the great sex once in a while? Do you ever miss it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

11 July 2011 (M) - I'm curious what women think of men in their past who they had FWB relationships and how it compares to loves in their life. I've read here many times how women almost always prefer a loving relationship to just a sexual one, but when you finally ...

My boyfriend was staring at another woman!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - Am I the only woman to think it is disrespectful for your date to be staring at other women while out on a date with you? I have never had a man do this before. Most men are smart enough to at least hide it. But my boyfriend of several years and I ...

I thought we might end up together, but he left without saying anything! What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - its a long story ,but im gonna try to make it short as possible, there s a guy that i like so much,i ve liked him 4 almost 2 years ,and he likes me too ,we r both in college ,and he always sits behind me in class and tries to find any excuse to talk ...

I'm in love with my friend's girlfriend and she's giving me the impression that she loves me too. Could this be true?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

11 July 2011 (M) - so im in love with my friends girlfriends. and to make it clear im not doing anything to break them up i don't want to ok. right so i told this girl that i liked her and that i had really strong feelings for her. but what im wondering is doe...

BF not a virgin and I know it shouldn't bother me, but it does

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4676 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - I met my boyfriend just over two years ago but at the same time met someone else who I liked better. So I told my boyfriend that I couldn't see more happening between us than friendship. We didn't communicate after that. A few months later, af...

I really have my heart set on a child but my fiance is not ready. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - So I have a fiance that I love dearly...We live together now but we will be moving into our very first apartment on Friday:) the problem is,I really want to carry his child..he has me on birth control but I'm not really happy with it..I'm just doing ...

Do I really know my guy? Now that I know he looks at Gay'Tranny and SheMale porn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - My baby's dad and I have been together off and on for 6 years. It hasn't been a good past 6 years. He has 2 children with another woman and yes, they were both during these last 6 years. We are currently not together but he has come over and...

We want a baby. How can we when our sex life is kind of difficult?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - My fiance and I are trying to conceive a baby. however we are both little over weight and well...he is kind of small down there. I'm not very comfortable being on top, but everytime we have sex, his penis doesnt stay in. We both very much want...

How can I gain his trust so he can say 'I love you?'. When it's painful to say "I love you" for a guy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - I was hurt by something he said. He was referring to his last "love" who broke his heart and left him shattered. When I told him about how it made me feel he said that wasn't what he meant and that he does love me. It's been 8 months of excl...

What can I do? He has expressed increased feelings of love, but a decreased need for sex? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4677 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - okay...so I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and we have had a very successful and healthy relationship. We are both in college and have spoken about the seriousness of our relationship,moving in together, and possibly even ...

Wouldn't it be lovely if an STD/STI protocol operated? How does one confirm if a new partner does not have an STD or a STI?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - So,I just got out a long term relationship. So long that we were both virgins before we met and never had to worry about stds/stis. My question is, when I'm ready to get back into the dating world, how does sex work, in terms of, do most couples get ...

We have a child together and another on the way, but he's always looking at other girls and hanging out with his friends. But then he insists he loves me! Do I just need to get over this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for going on 4 years now. We have a 2 year old and another baby on the way, so it's safe to say we have a pretty serious relationship. I am 22 and he is 27 so there are a few years between us. I have problem...

I need to stand my ground this time and not take her walking all over me, but I still love her! What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

11 July 2011 (M) - First off my name is James, yesterday me and my girlfriend and her daughter went out to go eat. To celebrate our anniversary. We've been together for about 16 months. Lately i've been feeling unappreciated. I feel like i do everything in this ...

I think I'm a great catch, yet I'm single! What am I doing wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - i am 24, college educated (have a bachelors degree and starting my masters in a couple of months), I get a lot of compliments from guys so I think that I am good looking, I am athletic so i keep myself in shape and always dress nice, I am very clean ...

Despite telling me that she was sexually abused as a child, the relationship is getting physical. What should my next steps be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

11 July 2011 (M) - Hi I've been dating a girl for a short while, we have been on 6 dates so far and have spoken on the phone every day. I really like her and when we are together we enjoy each others company. Things were going okay but we still hadn't kissed ...

I left my alcoholic boyfriend 4 months ago, but it really hurts all the time to be without him. Please tell me I'll eventually be able to move on...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - It's been four months now since I walked away from my alcoholic boyfriend of two years. I have not contacted him once, nor have I been anywhere near where he might be. This space is well needed for me to get my head straight and not get back on the ...