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Dating: Help and advice

Seems I can't managed any other way. Is a vibrator the only way I am ever going to orgasm?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4683 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - I can't orgasm with my fiance. I am afraid maybe he is too small or something. I have never orgasm'd before with a man, but within 10 seconds of using a vibrator I can orgasm quickly. I feel like i'm cheating.. I'm not satisfied without orgasming. ...

I'm engaged but I am wondering if this girl likes me. Does that suggest I might be gay?

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3 July 2011 (F) - I need advice on whether or not this girl likes me. I work opposite her, so see her regularly across the road and such. I go see her a lot of the time but she's seems distant? I'm 26 and engaged to my boyfriend but I seem to find myself going to s...

If your senses of humor don't always coincide, how does affect the love?

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3 July 2011 (F) - I realized the other day that my significant other, a man I love dearly, sometimes just cannot see the humor in a situation. Perhaps it's a cultural thing, although we have similar educational backgrounds. He seems to emphasize problem-solving ...

Moving in together but get the feeling b/f isn't excited about it

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3 July 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend four years, we are both in our forties have been married previously and I have teenage children. We now plan to move in together. I had felt this was long overdue but my boyfriend did not seem in any hurry. The ...

Should I Assume It's Over?

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3 July 2011 (F) - My SO and I have been together for about 2 years. About 5 months ago, his phone calls ceased completely. He's called me thrice in the last 5 months??? He sends texts regularily but I told him we're going to have to be a bit more proactive with the ...

I feel like he should know better about how to please a woman and am thinking of dumping him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - Well, I am dating a new guy. We have had sex about four times, it only lasts maybe 2 minutes (premature ejaculation) the problem is I really like him but sex is important in a relationship for me. He does not perform oral sex on me, or seem to ...

He says he misses me so why wont he make time for us to spend alone?

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3 July 2011 (F) - Hello All, I met a guy on a dating site, seemed very nice, genuine, went out a few times - its been a month now since we have been seeing each other on and off, but he always seems too busy to meet properly or spend a day together, he has already ...

I want to give her a night to remember with no sex involve. Any advice?

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3 July 2011 (M) - I want to give my gf an instance night of passion that will leave her shaking in pleasure. Only problem is we've agreed not to have sex and I'm not that good at foreplay. Any thought on how to give her an awesome night. Nothing for me to get of...

We have an open relationship. Does that mean he doesn't love me?

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3 July 2011 (F) - hi ok i have been in an open relationship for a year now.i know pple may critisize but it works for us we r both not ready to propaly settle down i am not jealouse if he goes and sleeps with other girls cause i know that to him its just for fun for ...

Do you think we could get married someday?

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3 July 2011 (F) - so what if im only 15...i have been dating this guy for over a year ALMOST 2 years. he is my third boyfriend. i love him so much. none of my other boyfriend were like him. he is original. he loves me. he proved it to me so many times. we're not like ...

Crushing on my friend's brother

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3 July 2011 (F) - I seem to have developed a bit of a crush on one of my friend's brothers. Have met him a few times at social gatherings and not too sure if the feeling is mutual? Was at a BBQ and he did seem quite jokey with me, and made sure I knew he was talk...

She's hot and cold, and stares at me and then looks away. I don't understand what's going on!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

3 July 2011 (M) - Hi ladies. Just got a quick question here. I went on a couple dates with a woman almost a year ago and still see her around often. We basically have only said hi to each other and keep moving when we see each other. She dumped me by the way. Anyway, ...

Should I break up with my lying and cheating bf for good??

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3 July 2011 (F) - Hey Agony Aunts and Uncles! Okay, i'm dealing with a terrible situation right now. My boyfriend and i been together for 2 years now and throughout those 2 years, he has cheated 4 times, he mistreats me, he hid things from me and lied to me. Okay, ...

I want to know how he feels!

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3 July 2011 (F) - For a couple of months I've been talking to a boy who i get along with really well, we can talk for hours until very late. I really like him and he's even told me he likes me too but he's confusing and plus my best friend once liked him a few years ...

He says I'm gorgeous, does he like me maybe?

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3 July 2011 (F) - a couple weeks ago i broke up with a guy and we are still on good terms, we still talk and it dosent seem to be awkward. but anyways this other guy who im not really close with but i kind of like told me he was glad because i was way out of the ...

There was a lot of suspicious noise in the background when we spoke ...

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3 July 2011 (M) - I just got off the phone with my girlfriend.... and as painful as this is for me to admit something did not sound right. When there is break in talking on the phone there is not a lot of noise, but I heard what sounded like moaning from her, among ...

Devastated after going though his phone ....

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3 July 2011 (F) - was with my man for 2 years until he left me in may 2010 as he had met someone else although we kept in touch.2 months later we started meetin up as friendsm him sayin she was out his life,and he had only done it to push me away.We were gettin on ...

He caught me fliriting online, and now I've caught him flirting online

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3 July 2011 (F) - So ok last week my boyfriend caught me flirting online sexually suggestive like, no i didn't send pictures, my number,or ever met up with these two people. From that day i cutoff contact with both guys, gave my boyfriend all my passwords and even ...

I know I can get very controlling, I don't want to yet I don't know how to stop!

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3 July 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years now, and I know its about time that I should stop feeling so obsessed and passionate. I am so controlling in our relationship and I don't know how to fix this problem, there were things that hap...

Is he holding me back?

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3 July 2011 (F) - OK here's my situation. I'm mainly venting, but other points of view would be nice. I'm engaged and we have been together for a little over 2 years; we've got a house but the downside is that there's nothing in the town we live-most people make a ...

At 18 I am bored with my fiance of four years!

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3 July 2011 (F) - We have been together for about 4 years. Were supposidly engaged,I love him to death, and and i wanted to marry him....but now im doubting this...hes immmature, lazy selffish and an asshole....he doesnt go anywhere with me maybe besides walmart, ...

I want to ask her for a date, but feel there is a far distance between us. What should I do?

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3 July 2011 (M) - It all started when I saw a girl in the university about a year ago .. From the first moment I felt it was a different girl .. We did not talk a lot just to say hello as colleagues. She had a lot of friends and was very popular within the univ...

Does everyone have a type?

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3 July 2011 (F) - I have heard before that people can have multiple "soul mates" or people that they are attracted to or fall in love with. I have also heard that everyone has a "type", and the one they end up with falls into a mold of a person that is their ideal. ...

Date during the break? Or sit in my room alone all the time?

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3 July 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I after having been going on / off about ten times have decided to take a three month NC break to see if the issues that were facing us around both our sets of kids, her insecurities with family and friends knowing how we met ( we ...

When men start to like me, I start to dislike them, why??

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3 July 2011 (?) - the moment i get close to a guy and realise they like me back, i start to dislike them and they begin to annoy me. i don't know why, it is starting to really aggrivate me, does anyone else get this? or know why? because i liked them before and it's ...

I am lonely and vulnerable, but should I accept what he brings to the relationship??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - I was seeing a guy for 2 years and we got on really well. About 3 months before he started texting my best friend's mate after they met briefly once at a party. I confronted him and he assured me they were just friends. He then broke up with me ...