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Archived questions from: 5 July, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Help me out of the 'friend zone'!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - The guy I like I have known for around eight years, our parents are best friends and I have practically grown up with him. I have really strong feelings for him but i'm worried that he only thinks of me as a friend, help me get out of the friend ...

I simply cannot see him stepping up to the plate and being a man.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - About eight months ago, I met a guy on facebook. We chatted, started talking on the phone, and eventually decided to meet. So I drove to his house (Which is convienent because he lives about three miles away) to meet him and he asked me to be his ...

Almost 25 year old guy.... never ever had a girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

5 July 2011 (M) - I'm turning 25 in a couple of months and have finished university, seeking a career in the business/IT consulting field. Never had a girlfriend in my entire life, no girl has ever been interested in me and have come up empty all the time. To be ...

What can I say to get a conversation going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

5 July 2011 (M) - Hello everyone. I'm a 29 year old male and a bit shy. I've always been described as the tall dark and handsome type and haven't really had much difficulty having a girlfriend or anything. Like I said though, I'm a bit shy. It's only at first. Once a ...

Is this girl messing my mates about or is she interested in all three?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

5 July 2011 (M) - Someone please explain is this girl messing my best mates about, or actually interested in all three of them? I want to know she's not toying with them like some girls do. She's my mate also and is a really nice girl, we went to college together...

I haven't been enjoying being with my gf as much and its putting doubts in my mind!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4682 days ago

5 July 2011 (M) - I have been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years now but i dont live with her but lately in the last couple of moths i havent been enjoying being with her as much in the last couple of months. Which has put doubts in my mind. And recently...

I have never gone further than kissing....and feel really inexperienced!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

5 July 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for awhile and just kissing and stuff and recently she told me she has done foreplay before and I have never done anything but kissing. I feel really inexperienced and a little nervous because she said she might ...

I don't think my bf is cheating but why was she so awkward?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - I've been dating a guy for nearly a year. We were casual for the first 6 months, both dating other people while we dated each other. About 6 months ago, we started dating more exclusive. During the first few months of commitment, I was sceptical ...

Care package ideas for my LDR boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4682 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - I've been in a LDR with my boyfriend for about 15 months now. I got to see him last week and I've been in an extra lovey-dovey mood since soooo I decided to surprise him with a care package in the mail, but I'm lost for ideas. I've searched the ...

Should I ask her out or wait a while?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4682 days ago

5 July 2011 (M) - So here's my situation: I've been single for about 6 months now, the problem is, I've never gone on a "blind date" before because for the last 5 years I've only been in relationships. I'm kind of a shy person and it's hard for me to talk to a wom...

Why is she so mean to me? Is she just jealous because she likes the same guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4682 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - This girl confessed to me of liking the same guy though he doesn't know and considers her as a friend. The guy and I went on dates though we weren't officially gf/bf. We got into a huge fight and aren't on good terms atm. This girl came up to me and ...

Has she put me in the friend zone? And was her comment a sign that she wants something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

5 July 2011 (M) - Alright this is kind of a 2 part question, so there is this girl i had met at university who i really liked and coincidentally she lived in the room next to mine in residence so we got to know one another by the end of the year. So here is my ...

He says he's not ready for a relationship - is this just an excuse? Should I wait for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - hi everyone i was just wondering what to do about this situation. i met a man at the beggining of the year, i really like him he has been very hurt before and says he,s not ready for another relationship yet. should i wait for him until he is ready ...

I'm feeling emotional. Last week I had a miscarriage. So why is he not supporting me and still watching porn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - Hi, I need some advice on how to stop feeling angry with my bf and to understand his actions. We've been together 9 months, and a few weeks ago, we found out we had an unplanned pregnancy of 7 weeks. We spent a lot of time trying to decide whether ...

Do you think he could like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4683 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - there was a guy i knew from grammar school and now i am 26..i think a few years ago we may have liked each other..we hung out once to catch up but then i think he wound up in a relationship with another girl from the same school. I met someone as ...

My girlfriend of 19 years doesn't ever want to have sex. Should I leave her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

5 July 2011 (M) - I met my girlfriend 19 years ago. You might think that's a lot time for a woman to remain a girlfriend, but the primary reason I never married her is that we have not have had a sex life since about Year Two. I have told her several times that I l...

What is going on in this guy's head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - I would love to know what is going through this guys head. Him and i kinda had a thing before and then it basically stopped cuz he didnt seem like he had wanted anything. So then i moved on with someone else and been happy. I been seeing him at the ...

Should I play hard to get?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - back in feb i started to like this guy who i was working with. sad thing is i moved away after i started liking him him and i stayed in touch and we started heavy flirting thru text messages almost everyday. Iv grown to really like this guy over...

What should I do? Is this truly normal to be confused about one's feelings after a year together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4682 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - I was wondering if anyone could help me out. I have a boyfriend who's 20 and i'm 19. We have been together for a year and for my 1 year anniversary gift he got me a gorgeous ring that i really love. He said it was a promise ring to me that we will...

These Long Term Crush situations are confusing me. How can I find a girl who really cares for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

5 July 2011 (M) - Well, i'm 14 and i've been in love with a girl for ages and this year i declared to her, but after two months (wish we were not in a relationship) she said by facebook she didn't liked me. However, in the middle of those two months, my best ...

He only tells people that I'm just his friend, never his GirlFriend. Is he playing me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - How can i tell if he's cheating on me, he doesn't want people to know we're dating, and when he's with me and he's on the phone, he says oh that's jus my "friend" he never calls me his GIRLFRIEND!!!!!!!!!! What do i do, i need help plz...i want...

I feel like I'm missing out, knowing that he has had 12 partners before me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - ok heres my story... im a 22 year old female and my boyfriend is 24 years old. he is my first EVERYTHING (i lost my virginity to him at 22 by the way). and i recently found out by him that he has been with 12 other girls before me. i already knew he ...

I like this boy and can't get him to notice me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - Well I like this boy and I can't seem to get him to notice me .. I have his number and the first day we texted and it was good but as time passed I try to text him but he's barley replys.. We don't know eachother like that but I have a crush and i ...