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Dating: Help and advice

How do I be kinky during sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - Alright so recently my boyfriend has asked me to try doing different things during sex, like being rough with him. At first I wasn't comfortable with it but I eventually got over it and tried. I sucked. Really hard. He wasn't mad over it but I could ...

Pregnant by abusive BF who drinks every night and tried to get me to strip for his friends... but I love him and want to help him change

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been living together for 2 months now after 6 months of being together. The 6 months where incredible best 6 months of my life and he really and truly did treat me like a princess but ever since we started living together...

Is my bf being overprotective or just very caring? And should I stay with him even though my family & friends hate him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - My relationship with my boyfriend has been great. He is such a great guy and he is my first love. We have recently moved in together but since the move he has started becoming weird like becoming over protective and making excuses for me to stop in ...

She says she wants to be friends but I feel like she is blowing me off all the time!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

1 July 2011 (M) - So, dated this girl a while back, but I always tried to keep in touch. She said she wanted to still hang out and stuff, but she never initiates contact.(none of my friends ever contact me, not unless they need something or something bad has ...

Should I set my heart on this one girl if I am doing 'bad guy stuff'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

1 July 2011 (M) - Hi everyone, basically i need some moral advice on how to act to women. I'm 18 and so far have been lucky enough to be in love twice. I was with my first girlfriend for 18 months, i was head over heels, wanted to have a future and all that..th...

Is he being truthful, is there hope or should I just walk away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - I recently went through a break up with a guy I was with for 3 months. We knew each other for about 4 months before we dated, but only through a coffee house and as much as you can get to know someone at karaoke once a week. I knew the whole ti...

Shall I give him the silent treatment after him not replying to my text?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

1 July 2011 (?) - I've been seeing this guy pretty regularly for the past 6 months now. We normally go out 2-4 times a week and text every day or so. Anyway, we last met on Mon and he said' we'd meet on Fri, late afternoon. Cool. So, I organized my chores and duties ...

Should I stay with him until I leave or leave him now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - I'm leaving my boyfriend of about 10 months to go to school in October. I decided that it was too painful to be with him knowing I was leaving and I wanted to break up. It's not the only reason, but it's the main one. I also found out that he slept ...

How can I find out if he's actually into me, or even my gender for that matter, without coming right out and saying it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - I met this guy about 2 weeks ago, and he is absolutely adorable in every way. The last time we hung out, we were extremely intoxicated, and things got a little intimate. We did not have any form of sex, but we kissed and touched. I was euphoric and ...

How do I start? Are there ways to recognise if the signs are right for it to become a relationship or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - I don't know how to start relationships. After a few dates I always find I want more. This time I went on a date to the cinema and we chatted after. We are now apparently boyfriend and girlfriend but he has only text me once today (we started bf n ...

What are the best ways to gently break the news to my Bf that I'm not having this baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - I need advice on how to break the news to my bf that i want a termination of our pregnancy:( We've been together 9 months, and despite being on the contraceptive pill, i've found out i'm 6 wks pregnant. My bf was initially stunned, but having had ...

How do I prove to him I'm not going to cheat like his exes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4686 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - i met this man in march at first it seemed like he wanted us to be a proper couple i went for a night out with my friends i was texting him while i was out but he seemed like he didnt want me texting him so i stopped and the next day he texted me ...

We hardly spend anytime together and when we do we jump straight to sex..what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - I started messing around with a guy in April, we started dating in May. It's been almost 2 months goin out with him. But when it all started everything was PERFECT and it was amazing. 3 weeks after we started goin out things started changing...

Should I just leave it now and wait? He is driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - I met this guy Jake at the start of March this year. We got together on the night that we met and from then on he pretty much tried everything to get me. At first i was a bit standoffish because i had just been messed over by a previous guy. After a ...

FWB who has moved to another state, wants to take our relationship to the next level. Now he wants nude pics of mine. Thoughts?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - So here's my dilemma, I a 20yr old woman and last year I left a 4yr relationship and I knew I wanted to be single for a while but as we all know not everything goes as planned. A few months after my break up I met a 23yr old guy in November...

BF is lying to me and using my money!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - i became close friends with a guy 3 years ago and helped him loads, financially and wih work. hes always told white lies but thryve become black lies. for example 3 weeks ago he asked me to check his resume on his email and i did but also noticed ...

Any advice for talking/dancing with girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

1 July 2011 (M) - I've recently turned 18 so I've been going out clubbing and to pubs more often. I'm single, and I see a lot of girls there that I am far too shy to talk to! I have REALLY low confidence and I think I'm too ugly for anyone to notice me. Plus, the ...

He still hasn't kissed me! Should I carry on waiting or make the first move myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - okay so my bf and i have been dating for 2 months and we still havent kissed!! isnt that weird? anyway hes told me he wanted to many times but he knows im waiting for him to kiss me first and make the first move.. im just wondering if i should ...

Should I start dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

1 July 2011 (M) - Ive been wondering for awhile if I should get into the dating world or not. Ive been mainly focused on college, work, and building my career and lately ive been thinking since im young and such what should I do? Iam 20 years old and iam a virgin so ...

Am I doing the right thing by cutting him off?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - I'll just jump right into it. I dated this guy. I completely fell head-over-heels for him. In a few short weeks I was infatuated with him. We dated for about a month and a half before breaking up for complicated reasons. He said he wanted m...

We have a great relationship except for the fact that I am just his girlfriend, and he doesn't EVER want to marry me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - I hope someone can help me with this problem. I am back in the dating scene after 10 years of marriage. I NEVER thought I would want to get married again, but I have found someone that I don't want to live without. When we began dating, I made i...