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Archived questions from: 9 July, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Partner of 17 years dumped me and then found someone else within three weeks. Will I ever recover from the hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

9 July 2011 (M) - I was with my ex Partner for 17 years, when she dumped me and then found someone else within three weeks. It's had really hurt me and it been a few years now but I still think about her. Will I ever recover. She hasnt made contact since the day she ...

I love the girl but I'm just not sure that she is sincere and honest with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

9 July 2011 (M) - Hi All, I've been dating a girl for 7 months now, she's two-and-a-half years older than me, and the time with her so far has been great.. except one thing. I am jealous quite often. Jealousy started when she by accident mentioned a guy she was...

Does my boyfriend's behavior mean he really doesn't care about hurting me, or is he just callous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

9 July 2011 (F) - I've jst moved back in with my boyfriend, after a few weeks away for studies and a couple of years of on off, because of this. I love him but I'm really not happy back with him. The reason for this is, he seems to be carrying on his life as if I'm ...

I fear that my distrust will show and ruin this relationship, and I don't want that to happen.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

9 July 2011 (M) - Please help me?? Has anyone got any advice for me? I have reached a point in my life, thru previous relationships and so called friends who just used me for their own gain that i am finding it hard to trust anyone i meet to be a genuine person a...

Did he just break up with me? His Mother is against us. But I thought we had something

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

9 July 2011 (F) - Heyy .. My boyfriend of 5 months and I had some trouble, due to his mother over our whole relationship. he always fought with her to tell her to back off and leave me and him alone. Before we started dating me, both he and I and his mother were grea...

I am confused by all of his actions, can anyone help me??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

9 July 2011 (F) - So... this guy i'm dating. He's perfect.. in theory... but then he does stuff that confuse me big time. He wants to go out with me but he wants to go home 10 p.m... (and why? i don't know since school is off for the summer and he doesn't have a ...

He said he loved me, wanted a family...now he says he does not want anything serious, what gives?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

9 July 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I decided to come on here and write my feeling/thoughts because I needed someone to talk to and perhaps some encouraging words to get me through my heartbreak. My story: I've been seeing a guy for almost 2 years now. I knew...

Hard to trust him with so much going on between him and his ex, what should I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

9 July 2011 (F) - Hello everyone! I need opinions on this please! Is there such a thing as lying by omission or is it just flat out lying? If someone doesn't tell you ALL the facts and you find out later is that lying by omission or flat out lying? I'll give yo...

I love her & don't want to hurt her, but I am unhappy, how do I get out of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4678 days ago

9 July 2011 (M) - Ive been dating my GF for over a year and past couple months she haven't gave me any affection and we ve been repeating same things everyday,school, talk at break go home and text. and ive been VERY irritated and tired of her these days. couple of ...

I dumped her before but I like her more now, how do I mend things??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

9 July 2011 (F) - I´m going to be a sohpmore girl in high school. In eigth grade I breifly dated a seventh grader. I was severly depressed at the time and struggling with my orientation. We ended up dating for only two days befre I cut it off. She says she holds no ...

Anytime my crush is around, I freeze up and can't talk!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

9 July 2011 (F) - Hello, I have an important question. I met this guy (I knew who he was beforehand though) at church and immediately developed a crush on him. This guy is perfect, and I mean it. He has the best taste in music, books, and is a real man of God. My p...

Why did she kiss me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

9 July 2011 (M) - Me and my ex [both 18] go out clubbing together a lot because we have the same friends. Last night we were out and were both quite tipsy, and I bought her a drink. She said 'thank you, sexy' and quickly made out with me, not too ferociously, ...

How can l show him am attracted to him without telling him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

9 July 2011 (F) - l am a lady aged 26. I am attracted to a guy l work with. How can l show him am attracted to him without telling him?...

My step-sister and my boyfriend make out behind my back, should I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

9 July 2011 (F) - last night i was have a convo with my boyfriend and i was asking him if he was eve going to cheat on me please tell me so i can stop wawating our times? i know i dont have the best past but nor does anyone else he told me i wish i could just get...

Moving on. Is two montha long enough to wait before I start dating again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

9 July 2011 (M) - I have just broke up from my girldfriend of 1 year, but to be honest the last 2 months I may as well have been single. The first few months went well, but then I started to get very judegmental about her past, and I was nasty to her about it and aske...

Are there any tips to help improve our situation? My GF and I have attitude issues.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

9 July 2011 (F) - Ok, so my girlfriend always makes me so mad. She makes fun of me by calling me names like: freak and dork - all because i don't like harry potter? It gets annoying. I try not to but i always give her an attitude about that. Also she's always m...

I'm really not sure why her feelings keep changing, and I think she's not sure either... any advice??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4678 days ago

9 July 2011 (M) - there is this girl I met, we became really really good friends, and as time passed i fell in love with her, I told her that and she said that she wants to stay friends. I agreed and after a while we had to seperate, it's been 3 years now and we keep ...

Can I make it through life without learning how to drive?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

9 July 2011 (M) - every one i know including my family thinks i am unintelligent just because i can not drive a car. Ive tried and tried and just cant grasp it. i have not even made it past the permit part yet because the test to me is so confusing and the answers ...

My girlfriend says "Sorry" constantly.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

9 July 2011 (M) - Hi. This other day I was checking mine and my girlfriends chat history on facebook. I searched for "Sorry" and I noticed that she says "Sorry" almost all the time. Should I consider this as a problem? Please,help. Thank you in advance. PS: ...

I'm scared to hold hands or kiss with my boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

9 July 2011 (F) - Okay , so me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a month now and we've already kissed and made out. He's 15 and I'm 13. And we don't see each other all the time, we see each other about every other week. And every time we hang out i get ...

After I realize I love her she says she got tired of waiting for me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

9 July 2011 (M) - Here's my story. A year ago, I met a girl that was a few years younger than me. Well I didn't really like her as a love interest then, but she was crazy in love with me. We hung out everyday and most people thought we were dating. Well that was ...

Is it ok to stop seeing someone when they put pressure on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

9 July 2011 (F) - I've never dated nor had any real relationship before. Is it ok to stop seeing someone when they insist on trying to put pressure on me to let them touch me?...

Does he not introduce me to his friends or go out with me at night because he is embarrassed of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

9 July 2011 (F) - Me and my bf are in a distance relationship and only see each other one month at a time... the thing is that, we go out everyday...but to parks,movies,malls and things like this, but never clubbin, out to drinks, or romantic dinners. Sure we go to ...

I can't say anything when b/f does things that I don't like!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

9 July 2011 (F) - Hi aunts... Need some advise... Ive been seeing this guy for six months now and things are going well even though we sometimes have our ups and downs. My problem is ME, i cant tell him how i feel especially when he did something that i dont like. ...

G/f suddenly giving me cold shoulder and saing it would be easier to date someone of her own race

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

9 July 2011 (M) - dear cupid, my girlfriend spent the summer in colorado for an internship where she is having the time of her life which is awesome, but i never here from her anymore and any time i ask her what she did i get one word answers and just talks about...

How do I ask him (again) how he sees me without scaring him off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

9 July 2011 (F) - Okay so I met this really cute guy a few weeks ago while we were both working at a Trade show in L.A. I thought he was cute, but also didn't think he'd go for me. He ended up asking me out and our first date was super fun. He was constantly ...

I'm gutted. She split up with me and I didn't see it coming. How can I fix this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

9 July 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have just recently split up. I moved overseas to live with her after she lived in my country for two years. She told me that she dislikes the way I have spoken to her sometimes, she said she is changing and she wants to be ...

My GF seems uninterested in the relationship,and I'm doing all that I can. Should I stay with it or call it quits?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

9 July 2011 (M) - Im always doing what i can to make my girlfriend happy. I take time out of my day to do things for her when she asks me to, and im always loving, caring, and very romantic with her. I love this girl soo much i try not to give up on our relationship. ...

Does it make me out of the ordinary that I prefer guys with a solid build? Even a touch chubby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

9 July 2011 (F) - Hi again my loves :) I was just wondering, if it's at all odd that I am attracted to chubby lads? Every one I know, apart from one creeper who makes it an embarrassment, likes fit, slim people. Me? I personally like chubby guys. Not like huge, bu...

Why are the nice boys my age interested in dating only the narcissistic jerks?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

9 July 2011 (F) - Hi there :) well, i'll get straight to the point. I'm a 15 year old girl, never been kissed, had a boyfriend, yada yada yada, the regular yawn-inducing angst. Anyway, what I was wondering is, why are most of the nice guys dating completely arrog...

Any possible ways that will help me get over my ex faster?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

9 July 2011 (F) - Hello, It has been about 4-5 months since my ex and I were seperated. We broke up 2 months after being apart and I still have feelings for him, even with the great boyfriend I have now. I'm well aware I'll never see my ex again, so I would lik...

I don't want to get into the middle of his drama!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

9 July 2011 (F) - back in feb i started to like this guy who i was working with. sad thing is i moved away after i started liking him him and i stayed in touch and we started heavy flirting thru text messages almost everyday. Iv grown to really like this guy ov...

I'm planning to send a friend to flirt with my bf and test his loyalty to me. Is this the right thing to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

9 July 2011 (F) - Okay my boyfriend is acting kinda shady. There is this girl that just got a job as a salesperson and she's drop dead hott. She has a perfect body and she's engaged and she already slept with one of the workers he works with. And ever since she ...

How can I stop being shy about telling him what I want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4679 days ago

9 July 2011 (F) - Okay everyone i have terrible relationship problems! i am 18 and going to me a new mom any day now. i am going to try and make this as short as possible. so i broke up with my boyfriend/baby's father Saturday.He was hanging out with his friends ...