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Dating: Help and advice

I have a lovely boyfriend but such low self esteem that I don't feel worthy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) - Hi i am 22 years old and i am suffering with really low self esteem. I have no confidence at all and i always feel so ugly compared to my friends. Whenever i see photos of myself i feel so down because i just wish i could feel pretty and look like ...

Have you never had a girlfriend because you're too picky?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) - I have a serious question for men who have never ever had a girlfriend in their life. I'm noticing a serious pattern between you guys. Why are you guys so picky? I was playing matchmaker for some of my male "never had a gf in their life" friends and ...

Risk it all? Or keep feelings to myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4680 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) - Hi guys, I'm hoping you can help me. I have been crushing on this guy for the past 10 months. I think that he likes me too but the problem is that we're both in very comitted relationships. Neither of us have children. I'm anxious because I hav...

He talks to me the exact same way he talks to other girls. I thought I was special. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) - Well im talking to this guy that i met on a chat, and well hes sweet and we get along pretty well. He told me he likes me alot and i do too but he hasnt really asked me to be his girlfriend. But he talks to so many other girls too. I dont ...

How can I create the right moment to ask her out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

7 July 2011 (M) - Hey guys so I like this girl but I don't seem to be able to ask her out. As most of you probably know you want to wait for the right moment but it just hasn't come, there has always been something in the way. So how can I create that moment? Also ...

He says he doesn't want to get married again, but then will talk about "our wedding" all the time. What does he want?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

7 July 2011 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been together just around 2 years now. Of that two years we have lived together over a year. He is only a few years older than I; we each have a child from previous relationships. However, he has been married and divorced ...

This girl is being completely flirty with me, and my girlfriend is totally jealous. How should I smooth things over with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

7 July 2011 (M) - I've been seeing a girl from work for a couple of months now but due to her living circumstances we have decided to be as friends until she is able to get a place of her own. We do kiss, etc and have been intimate and hope to have a future together. ...

I know there's other fish in the sea, but I still can't seem to get over her. What should I do?

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7 July 2011 (M) - I know my coworker is not into me even though she acts like she is. We work retail, temporary jobs for both of us, but she is 5 years older than me. She acts like she's into me, all the signs are there, but when we hang outside of work alone nothing ...

I think he drinks a bit too much, but I'm not sure how to bring this up without seeming like a nagging girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4680 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) - I'm worried about my boyfriends drinking habits as I'm not sure what is normal. I grew up in a non-drinking household - only drinking the occasional glass of wine when out with friends, very rarely drank at home on a normal night in. My boyf...

Mistakes in the past are getting in the way of this new relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) - Dear All! Please help me. Please tell me your opinions about my following problem. And please,if You can, suggest me something. What do you think, how can I get rid of my big big big problem? I am 19. I have already had 4 boyfriend. I...

Asked her to come out and she said maybe, ask her again or let it be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4680 days ago

7 July 2011 (M) - So I asked my coworker last weekend if she wants to come out with me this weekend to this bar that I'm going to. We are friends but I suspect she may like me a bit (I like her too). She said she would come but she may have a previous engagement she ...

He's 18. Am I expecting too much? We broke up. Not sure what to do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and i broke up saturday, because on thursday and friday he was with his friends, and they partied. he really doesn't hangout with his friends a lot. Nor party a lot. he wasn't texting me like he use too. so i got mad and assumed ...

Do you guys have any good tips on lasting longer? And reducing my performance anxiety?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

7 July 2011 (M) - Firstly, I have been with two partners, and the first was a bit of a bad experience but the second one was a lot better, and when we first started sleeping together after the first few times of nerves I was fine and the sex was great. However, afte...

Is this normal with a serious crush?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) - I have just met a guy I really like and am starting to date. I have all the symptoms of a serious crush - butterflies, nervous excitement, restless.. However, I've noticed something strange. Over the past few days I haven't eaten nearly as much as ...

How do we approach our daughter about her relationship with an older guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

7 July 2011 (M) - Help, we need advice on what advice to give our daughter. Our daughter just turned 16, and we've finally allowed her to date. She has gone out on group things with both guys and girls, but we've just allowed her to 'single' car date. Problem is this ...

How do I get intimate when I have no experience ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) - I'm twenty three years old and with my first ever boyfriend. i am also his first gf and I want to start getting intimate with my bf a bit more physical we talk about it but I'm proper nervous incase I'm not very good just wondering how you toss a ...

Feel worthless over Boyfriends cruel comment.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend said to me while drunk tonight "you cant even have children what good are you??" Now I am in tears, it hurt me so bad. I feel like giving up now. He made me feel more worthless then I already do...

Is he actually into me or am I reading too much into this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) - I'm 18 and this guy is 20. Let's call him John. So, I've known him for about 7 months now and we talk every single day.. There's a few days where we don't talk but overall, were always conversing. I think that's cause we both have BlackBerries and...

B/f going away for 13 weeks. How can we keep our bond strong?

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7 July 2011 (F) - My guy will be gone for thirteen weeks on a job trip. It's a big opportunity and I'm proud of him :) I know I'll miss him though and I have my fears. I fear he'll fall for someone there and maybe forget me. I don't know what to think, we've been ...

The difference between a crush and a boyfriend?

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7 July 2011 (F) - What's the difference between crush and boyfriend ??...

Have I blown any chance for reconciliation?

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7 July 2011 (F) - Dated a fantastic guy for a month or so. We had great chemistry, and everything was going great (didnt have sex). Suddenly he behaved different, and rearranged our dates til other days than we planned and so on. He said it was because of school, but ...

Want to make a new start to find a partner but how to decide where?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

7 July 2011 (M) - After a LOT of thought over a LONG time, I have decided that I need to move away. I have been single for a long time and while happy with myself I do want to find somewhere to share my life with. Unfortunately because I do not want children, this ...

Is she committed to me? She keeps nude photos of herself - taken by other men

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

7 July 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have (as far as I know) an exclusive, long-term, "committed" relationship. I would, of course, be concerned if my girlfriend kept nude photos of other men on her computer. That's not quite the situation here. In this case she ...

What's dating in university like? Are there any tips that might help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

7 July 2011 (M) - Heyya, I’m going to university in September and I was just wondering what the dating experience there was like. I’ve had two girlfriends in high school; one when I was fifteen and another shorter-term relationship last year when I was 17. Hopefu...

What does this mean?

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7 July 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is over in Norway for work and im here in the Philippines to finish school she left on May 12 from here. Well she told me last weekend that the friend she was staying with was getting ready to go meet some guys at a bar but her friend ...

From experience, when do you kiss a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

7 July 2011 (M) - Hi guys I just want to ask, from your experience, how would you know if a girl wants to kiss you? I'm 16 and I've never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl. I like this girl, and according to her best friends, she likes me. But I'm not sure when to...

Boyfriend looks very friendly with girls he met on holiday. Its making me very uncomfortable. How do I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are going out two years. He recently went on hols with one of his mates. He told me he met afew people there and that they hung out with two girls and went for dinner etc. He added them on facebook and they put up photos of the ...

I'm never going to find a guy! Is it my size or what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) - Hey so I need help. I'm starting to think that I will never find a guy. I'm a plus size model (fiercely real) and have had guys tell me im gorgeous but never want to be in a relationship with me. Is it my size or what? Its kinda lowering my ...

Should I ask her out or wait and establish more communication?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

7 July 2011 (M) - OK. Here we go friends. I have a job. I like this girl over there. She is single. I have talked to her 2 or 3 times by now and last time was 2 days ago and the longest conversation with her. It started like this: Me: Hey, I saw you on facebook...

If she's not over me, why is she still with her boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

7 July 2011 (M) - My ex and I have been broken up for over a year now. She has a boyfriend now. We cut off contact and I thought I was over her during that time. She ended up contacting me and we've been talking and meeting up for lunch every so often. Sometimes ...

Based on the signals, how can I get her to like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4680 days ago

7 July 2011 (M) - So there was this girl I liked a few months ago. She is 14 and I'm 15 and we both go to different schools. She liked me back and when I asked her out, she said yes. Then she texted me saying that she wanted to hang out more before we date. We ...

Need some encouragement to date again. Any help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) - I have taken a dating "break" for way too long. I was dating someone for 6 mos,and he was clearly a bad match for me. I got over HIM in just a month or two, I am just completely burned out on dating! I have lost all my interest to put myself ou...

How can I help my GF who has very low self esteem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

7 July 2011 (M) - My girlfriend thinks that she is ugly...and the problem is, she's been told this all her life by various sources(including her parents) to the point that she believes it is the only truth...when I tell her she is pretty(she is), she just tells me ...

Instead of being angry, he told me he wants to be my best friend! What's going on?

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7 July 2011 (F) - Hi Guys, I need help with a situation I got my self into. I am Indian and the 2 guys involved in this equation are also Indian - one in UK and the other in India. I was dating this Indian guy in the UK and because my parents didn't approve ...