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writes:I'm hopelessly I'm love with this guy. He's one of my closet fit friends, even though I don't see him that much anymore. He's like my brother and I'm like his sister. Iv been in love with him for 2 years but he's realy hot so he has girls typifying them self at him every were he goes. Realy realy pretty girls. He's in a relationship and I want his to be happy but it kills me that he's with this girl and not me!!! And I know that he will never love me, I'm not his type or pretty, or in his social circle. But I love him so much it hurts! What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, ilanah tromans  +, writes (4 July 2011):
 aww this is exactly how i feel at the minute, i think you should just tell him even though he has a girlfriend you need to let your feelings out to him but make sure it dont break your friendship, at least you will know if he feels the same way for you, good luck !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2011): Hi, i totally understand where you're coming from. But if he see's you as a sister (has he actually said this?) this is code for we're great friends but nothing more. You have two ways you can take this and it's toally your call - you need to look into your heart and logic and see which onee you feel is best.
1. Be honest with him, honesty is the ebst policy - lay it all out in front of him all your feelings, why you like him etc and leave it to him to decide. If he says no then you get closure and clarification that there's no hope for you two being in a relationship and you can move on. If so, try to cut contact until you're ACTUALLY OVER HIM.
2. This guy is with someone else and the fact he's been with other girls means there's a possibility he doesn't see you that way and only wants friendship. If it was meant to happen it would have, but it hasn't so you need to cut the contact gently and move on. Go out with your girl mates stay away from places he is going and meet new guys. There are plenty of lovely guys out there and i'm sure one of them will catch your eye when the time's right!
Good luck!! x
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 July 2011):
 You say you are not in his social circle yet he is one of your closest friends? Does he know how you feel about him? I understand that you feel he might never love you back but you will never know until you tell him how you feel about him. The worst that can happen is that he will say he is not interested and at least then you can move on knowing you done everything you could.
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