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Archived questions from: 10 July, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He keeps wanting to take a break from the relationship. I want to either be with him or get over him! Can someone shed some light on his behaviour?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - ive been dating my boyfriend for a little over 2 months and he told me on the 5th he wanted a brake. so after alot of talking we took a brake for about 5 hours then he asked me back. i said yes and asked y he wanted the brake and he said to see if ...

We've been "friends with benefits" for 3 years now, and all of a sudden his feelings have shifted and he wants to be with me and talk to me all the time. Should I just let this play out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - I have had a FWB for about 3 years. I have always had feelings. Usually our sex life is just sex quick etc... most times he is friendly with me but when he is seeing someone else he is little more distant. Lately he has become affectionate ...

Could all of these signals mean that he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - Why does he stares at me? I really like him:)? Am new at work place. and my first time I saw a guy there, I thought he was nice. We got chatting he's really nice always trying to help me. He was chewing and I asked him for a gum, he didn't...

My girlfriend says I'm too emotional, and I'm worried if I don't change she's going to leave me! How can I get a handle on this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

10 July 2011 (M) - Well this is a kind of weird one I guess, it affects me a lot actually, and I want to know how to improve on it. My girlfriend said to me a while ago that I am too emotional and she doesn't like that, and I can't help but think if I don't change t...

Should I follow my heart and stay with him, or did I make a mistake by choosing him over my career?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - Ok, so at the moment I'm really freaking out. I have just left my job in Germany to move home to Ireland. I didn't want to go to Ireland, given the job situation, but my boyfriend, who's French by the way, is going to do a masters here and I said ...

I thought we would end up together, but he blew me off for a booty call! What now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4675 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - I've been pretty close friends with a guy for a couple of months (friendly aquaintance for 6 months before then) and I really care about him as a person as well as being attracted to him. He knows that I like him, and while he's never made a move ...

Should I let my boyfriend finger me?

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10 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend wants to finger me should i let him? Im not realy sure what i want i do want him too, but i no there can be concequences. He is the same age as me. ...

I'm secretly dating my ex-boyfriend's brother! I'm worried I'm going to lose him! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4675 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - i broke up with my recent ex 3 weeks ago, we were only together a week and a half and we didnt get on at all in that time, unfortunatly we did sleep together once or twice and ive been best mates with his brother since before we got together. his ...

Is it normal that I feel awkward around her knowing she slept with my boyfriend?

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10 July 2011 (F) - Okay so last night my boyfriend opened up everything to me about his life, told me his story from beginning to end with what he could remember, even the detail of what girls he dated or maybe randomly slept with and I had no problem with this. I am ...

Should I end my relationship with my jobless boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - When I first met him I knew he didn’t have a job or a high school education but I convinced myself that it would change and he would mature. It’s been 5 years now and he still has neither. We have been living together for the past 5 months and his ...

Do my positives outweigh the negatives? And am I date-able? And what can I do to improve?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

10 July 2011 (M) - This is a silly question maybe. I am 21 years old in uni never had a proper relationship (had a very brief one once, but...). Been looking at myself and thinking about what I have or don't have... So looking at bad, the only thing is, a big th...

I need help, I really want a relationship with him, gave him my virginity but he's back with his girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - ok this is really long but i need advice. so i have known this guy since i was in the 4th grade and he has like me since then but ive never shown him any attention. so in 11th grade he got a new look and i was really attracted to him so we started ...

Do relationships ever come out of FWB relationships?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - hi all do relationships ever come out of fuck buddys just wondering as me and this man are having sex and im really starting to fall for him i don,t want to tell him cos i don,t want to scare him off thanks everyone...

Why is it when I sleep around I don't feel happy about doing it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

10 July 2011 (M) - I have recently split up with my girlfriend but it was on good terms and we are still talking. She said to me before that she found commitment hard and that I was the only person she had ever really committed to despite her having sex with 3 peopl...

Boyfriend and I have absolutely no time/place for private time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - Hello, aunts and uncles! Hope the summer is treating you well, as it sure is treating me splendidly. I've recently fallen in love with a great guy and he is enamored with me (he actually said "I love you" and all that jazz first!). It's be...

My long-distance bf was supposed to come and see me today after being away for 6 months...and he hasn't shown up!! What do I do now??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - My LDR boyfriend was supposed to come and see me today, after having worked away for 6 months. He was supposed to be getting the train to me this morning; however, his phone has been switched off all day, he is not answering my texts (I know he ...

I don't know if I should just ask him if he's into me, wait for him to come around or just move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - So I have been seeing this guy now for just over two months...i know it may still be too early to tell but i have no clue if he is interested in me. We have only seen each other 3 times in 2 months. He texts me all the time but never actually calls. ...

What's with the mixed signals?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

10 July 2011 (M) - well I work with this girl and just recently started talking to her and so i finaly asked for her number and she gave it to me, from there we would txt back and fourth sometimes and she would usually always answer in a decent amount of time. So one ...

How do I avoid being possessive with my girlfriend?

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10 July 2011 (F) - How do I avoid being possessive with my gf? I don't want her to live with me until we are able to get our own place. Now she has foun a place with her friends and I have mixed feelings about it. I don't know why I have mixed feelings. I feel like I ...

Why did my g/f chose her friends over me on her birthday?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

10 July 2011 (M) - Hello, I just turned 25. My gf (been dating for about a month or so).....didn't hang out with me on her birthday. I think she hung out with her friends. I feel kinda down......I hung out with my cousins instead. I really don't have that many f...

My flatmate is threatening to evict me, I feel hideous because of my terrible ache problem and I have no love life. I just want to crawl into a hole and stick my head in the sand and not come out.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - First, thanks loads to anyone reading this. My problem is this: For the last year I've lived in another country. I live with a girl and another guy (they're not a couple) and we're all of different nationalities. They sublet my room to me. The ...

Why marry someone when it seems sure you'll get a divorce?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - I can't trust my fiance. He constantly lies to me, breaks promises, and walks away from arguments and the relationship. We were planning on going through an LDR, but I'm not so sure anymore. Only a week or so ago, we went through a huge falling out, ...

I don't want to get with my friend in case it ruins our friendship, but part of me is thinking "try it". What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - I've started having feelings towards a really close friend of mine, we've been friends for almost 8 years. He's told me he loves me, like more than friends and we both like eachother but i dont know what to do. I dont want to get with him incase i...

I don't want an open relationship anymore but my partner has a problem with commitment.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 and a half years. We've seen eachother through really rough times and we do love eachother, but we decided to have an open relationship. I don't want an open relationship anymore though but he has a ...