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writes:Hello, there is this guy who has told that he has feelings for me in the past. the problem is that we don't talk to each other very often because it is kind of complicated. we don't talk to each other on a regular basis and we don't go out on dates at the moment. I really care for him, i even made him a card to let him know how i feel about him. About 3 weeks ago i ran into him at a local Walmart and he came by and he said "just Hi?" i talked to him briefly today but i hadn't talked to him for 3 weeks, now he seems distant with me. i want to talk to him on a regular basis and spend more time with him. should i tell him how i feel or give him the card to show him how i feel? or should i just move on instead of acting like a fool and trying to pursue him further??? please help
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reader, Lovely15  +, writes (6 April 2011):
There isn't enough honesty in the world and, personally, I think it's refreshing. Think worst case scenario... what's the worst that could happen!? I don't know if a card is the best way to go. Maybe just give him a call or invite him for coffee or lunch or something. He might be thinking the same thing as you! If you don't talk to him about it you'll never know! Also, don't be afraid to take a risk! You win either way because you will learn something, guaranteed. There are tons of guys out there so if it doesn't work out with this one, just enjoy your single life while you still have it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionjust an upadate, i have talked to him today and i told him that i wanted to talk more often on the phone and spend more time together and he is willing and wants to spend more time with me :D
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