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writes:Hello everyone,My name is jess and im 18. My boyfriend is 17 lets call him brenton. So currently we have been dating for about 8 months. We dated in highschool but he dumped me. We were always friends though. Now brentons got this friend called..... Pete. Whom i used to be friends with. Very good friends, but he started flirting with me telling me we should get together and all this other stuff. When i told my bf he was furious. He said he was going to kill him. However Pete keeps going to brentons family and apologising and crying bla bla bla so their taking his side. So when pete realised he may have lost brenton, he started spreading rumours about me. So bad that Brentons family was telling him i was a slut. But now brenton is forgiving pete and is telling me they sohould hang out again. I HATE pete. But the other night Brenton and i had an argument and i dumped him out of anger and instead of apologies like i usually got he rang his mum and was planning to get all his stuff moved out! Now his family is saying to me that im going to lose! Now i recently lose all of my best mates and if my bf goes il have no one. Im scared. My bf also owns everything in the house so i wont even have a tv or fridge when he goes. I dont know what to do. I havent eaten in 3 days i just feel so sick and my stomach muscles KILL from crying so hard. Please somebody help me.
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reader, Yetilicious  +, writes (5 April 2011):
 It sounds like your boyfriend is listening to everyone else instead of his own brain/heart. His family needs to mind their own business (don't tell him that).
The best thing for you to do is to sit down one on one and talk to your boyfriend. Tell him EVERYTHING. Tell him the rumors aren't true and that hearing them hurt you, and that's why you don't want to hang out with Pete. Tell him you're miserable thinking about him leaving because you love him so much and would miss him. Tell him to not listen to his family or Pete because they have everything completely wrong about you. Don't talk down about his family or Pete. And don't make him choose you or him. Just say love him, and that he can hang out with pete, you just can't because of the pain he caused you. If your boyfriend loves and cares about you he will understand and won't listen to his family. Let us know how it all turns out!
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