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He really likes me and doesn't want to lose me, but now his ex is back in the picture. What should I do?

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Question - (5 April 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 April 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, *ourtney24 writes:

ok so i met this guy im seeing a week ago.. yeah we havent known each other long at all, but we had instant chemistry.. he has been coming to my house every morning when he gets off work and he crawls in my bed and holds me, its like we have known each other for years, i have never felt this way about a guy before.. anyway getting to the point, he txted me the other night and told me we needed to talk and proceeds to tell me that he likes me alot but his ex contacted him and is wanting to try again at their relationship.. and he says he is confused. first of all i know its stupid to hold on to a guy that looks at me as an option, but i have this connection with him that i have never had with anyone before. anyway after he informed me of his situation i told him i understand why that would be confusing but i dont want to be put in that predicament, and i told him good luck, then the next morning i wake up to him getting in my bed and i was like are you lost!? and he was like please dont be like that i really like you and i dont want to lose you but im confused, apparently he has been wanting her back for a long time and she is finally giving him a chance. i dont know what to do!! i tried to walk away, but i cant ignore the chemistry we have... help!

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A female reader, Amy.. Ireland +, writes (5 April 2011):

If you like him try giving it ago.. But tell him that if he wants to go back to his ex that you aren't there to fall back on (because if this happens you will get messed with) make sure you tell him how you feel.. Best of luck

-Amy..

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