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writes:i really really like this girl who knows that i like her....and bcoz of this, she doesnt really interact with me much....we were kind of friends before...she talks to my friends much more than me and that makes me feel sidelined.I dont like it...when one of my friends asked her about me she said that she doesnt really like me. I dont know why she said that because i havent done anything wrong or anything that she would hate. This annoys me but everyday i act calm, and i know that i really like her but when she doesnt give a crap about me my mood changes and i get frustrated.My friend is getting more closer to her and is over-friendly and she talks to him a lot too.I admit my problem is also that i dont talk to her much which is also bcoz i dont want her to get uncomfortable as she knows that i like her.What do i do?? how do i gain her attention??plz help me.. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 April 2011):
 Im afraid she has made it quite clear here that she doesnt like you. Am sure you havent done anything wrong sometimes people dont like you and we need to accept that. I think you need to accept that she just simply does not feel the same way about you and move on. If you dont move on from her you are only going to keep hurting yourself. Therefore I think the best thing that you can do is to try and avoid her as much as you can and start looking at other girls that may give you a chance.
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reader, Yetilicious  +, writes (5 April 2011):
 If she knows that you like her. isn't giving you attention just for that reason, and openly says that she doesn't like you like that...there's nothing much you can do except move on. Set your sights on a new girl who you think is cute and nice. Maybe then this other girl won't feel so uncomfortable hanging out with you and you can be friends.
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