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writes:I have a good deal of experience in sex and have been told by all my past partners that I give a great blow job. The thing is I haven't been able to get my boyfriend to come from one. He wants to, I would love him to, but I just can't seem to get him there. I've tried every trick I know and that I know he likes, but it just won't happen. He says he LOVES my blow jobs, always tells me how good I am at it, but still can't come. We both want it to happen, and we don't pressure each other about it, we would just love it if I could get him to because he's able to get me off all the time. So is there anything I can do to help him? A new technique or something? Speed and amount of time isn't an issue because I can do it for long periods of time. Would appreciate advice on this...
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reader, LustyLisa  +, writes (22 September 2010):
Not all men can orgasm with oral sex, my own husband of 20 yrs has never orgasmed via oral sex. I can get him there with my hands but never my mouth. My partner needs allot of friction and a heavy grip, much like when he masterbates.
Don't let it bother you so much, use your hands to completion if necessary. Just have fun and don't develope unnecesary phobias and fears about you or your partners abilities.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): My gf always has to finish me by hand, usually with her mouth over my glans at the moment to reduce the mess. In no way does that make her blowjobs an inferior experience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010): Thanks! We've done all that and talk about things that he likes, I like, everything. We're not shy about opening up about what we like in the sack. And unless he's finishing himself off, with a little help from me, we do the sex, finish with a blow job thing. But there are times I can't have sex and I want to be able to still get him off. And I know he wants the same. We don't see it as a big deal if he doesnt, just something we'd REALLY like to happen.
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reader, ashaw +, writes (20 September 2010):
Be creative. Use your imagination. I can't imagine he wouldn't enjoy a little experimentation. You could mix it up a little with using your hands, or him using his hands along with it. Spend time just playing with each other, not caring whether he "gets there". As far as your previous experience goes, people vary a lot. Talk to him about what feels good to him. That could be a fun part of the playing around. Play a little "this, not that", or do different things in different places and have him rate them. And based on my own experience, even if I don't "get there", I still love it. Good luck. Have fun playing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2010): try having full sex until he is almost ready to cum then finish with a blow job.
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