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writes:i have not heard from my bf in a month. last i told him anything i said he know swhere to find me bc he kept saying he 'doesnt feel right', cheating or lying has not been an issue with him and i, we have been with on another for 3 yrs. he missed our monthly anniversary last week and i want to call him tomorrow because recently his father texted me asking me abotu some website, out of being very courteous and respectful i messaged his father and told him the website and also said i miss and loev them all and for some strange reason figured to myself that he doesnt know that him(my bf) and i havent spoken. on my facebook it says in a relationship with him, however he hasnt cancelled it but i know he logs in. i got an email response back from his father and he said "everything is okay everyon eis fine, take care of yourself bye" like i meant nothing?! i figure iw ould gather courage and call him tomorrow bc i would liek to see him one last time before everything ends, i mean this is th elongest we havent spoken and i dont knwo why i feel he thinks he is doing this for me! this is ridiculous and point blank stupid. i know i can do better and i know he will never find someone like me but at the same time my life and heart isnt satisfied without him, i feel literal pain when i tink of not being with him and it is the most nastiest pain in the world! i figured i would go to see him but i dont want to cath him off gaurd. so i thoguht i would call and ask if he wants to grab lunch and talk about stuff and i know he may say NO but i was scared hell say something liek "you havent changed, its only been a month what do you expect to have changed in a month"...but the truth is i expected a call? a i miss u, or im thinking of u or IM here!!! should i call him or should i just show up where he works around and hang at a restaurant and ask him to come?either way i need clsoure. i hold on to a stupid status on facebook! i feel so pathetic
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reader, Red591 +, writes (20 September 2010):
 well when my boyfriend started acting weird for bout5 days, i cought him cheating with text messages on his phone. We were together almost 2 years, lived together, his truck in my name which i still owe on and can't afford but its in my driveway. That behavior seems to always mean someone else. I hate that as I know how awful it feels. HIs family "wished me luck" too and have not heard from them since and I helped raise his child from before us. I got over it and a lot faster than I thought. You will get over it too. He will realize what he blew one day but he blew it none the less. So cry, curse, throw stuff, and go to bed and each day you will care a little less until you are more interested in what you want for dinner than what that idiot is doing
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